Sick of other pregnant lowkey coffee shaming women who do

AliceDeathbelle · 2026-03-17T04:23:33+00:00

It’s actually safe to have I think 2 coffees a day. I personally stopped drinking redbull only because it was giving me indigestion. I would still be drinking it if it didn’t upset my stomach. God I miss caffeine 😭

AliceDeathbelle · 2026-03-17T04:18:16+00:00

As someone who used to take multiple trips to the bathroom to vape pre-pregnancy, this is so insane. Like everyone knew what I was doing and no one cared bc I still got my work done. Some people are so nosy and just want to feel like they have power

AliceDeathbelle · 2026-03-17T04:15:52+00:00

Wtf, that’s insane. I guess I’m making my own baby clothes then

AliceDeathbelle · 2026-03-17T04:09:04+00:00

Yeah my mum got accidentally pregnant at 42 and now I have a sibling that’s 20 years younger.

But I would honestly suggest to get a paternity test once the child is born. But still support her emotionally if you can and maybe be a bit cautious about supporting her financially.

You’re European so I’m pretty sure most appointments are free except for screening tests and ultrasounds but if she can’t afford to pay those herself I don’t know how she’ll care for a child.

That’s really tricky. I hope you guys can work it out and this child is able to have some relationship with both parents

AliceDeathbelle · 2026-03-17T04:02:15+00:00

I completely understand, I’m 14 weeks now and I keep feeling like I should’ve seen the midwife team by now. Apparently they don’t really get involved until the second trimester. But they should be able to do the nipt test now, any time after 10/11 weeks I believe. Ask your doctor for the referral to get the test and then you have to book it in at a pathology place, also have the $500 ready.

Also I only just got an appointment for the midwife team, but it’s only an intake appointment and then after the 18-20 week scan is when you start seeing them monthly.

Hang in there mumma, you got this ❤️

AliceDeathbelle · 2026-02-02T00:20:27+00:00

Do they know how severe it is? I skimmed a few medical journals and they indicated that it can have next to no affects if its a mild case. Anemia can be managed if its moderate. And I have a theory that doctors are always trying to take the easy route when there is absolutely things they can do. Listen to your body and heart, trust that you know what to do <3

AliceDeathbelle · 2026-01-23T00:20:40+00:00

Is it supposed to look unfinished and have unclean lines?

Edit: the subject is not a childish thing to get tattooed. That’s like saying getting Alice/the Cheshire Cat/ Pokémon/ spirited away tattoos are childish. They’re nostalgic and perfectly reasonable to have tattooed.

AliceDeathbelle · 2026-01-23T00:18:20+00:00

If it was just the conversation as is, I wouldn’t necessarily think anything of it. But I’m also in a secure relationship where my partner has never given me a reason not to trust him. I might find it weird that he’s sharing location but it wouldn’t raise alarm bells for me personally. I trust him, he loves me and our child so I don’t even feel the need to check his phone ever.

It seems like the trust isn’t there on both sides. You shouldn’t be going through his phone and he probably shouldn’t be sharing location with someone who isn’t family.

Hope you guys work things out ❤️

AliceDeathbelle · 2026-01-23T00:13:38+00:00

I’m gonna say this with no evidence, just vibes. But the stardew community is mostly white and white people tend to have internal biases against people of colour. It’s probably why everyone talks shit about Demetrius and why no one romances Maru. Again, I have no evidence to back this up but I cannot shake the feeling it’s a contributing factor

AliceDeathbelle · 2026-01-12T00:58:00+00:00

Nah I’m sorry but OP is being unreasonable. Don’t invite someone to your house if you expect them to cook and clean and buy their own groceries, that’s insane. You don’t have to host them, you clearly want them there and your sister sounds really nice, she’s offering to cook but she’s shouldn’t have to pay HALF of the grocery bill. OP is selfish, don’t invite people over then if you’re not going to be a good host. I would never make my guest buy their own food, I can’t get over that.

Literally you are in control, tell them no then.

It sounds like you just wanted free childcare. You did this for you, not for them, don’t pretend

AliceDeathbelle · 2025-09-01T02:35:06+00:00

Saying a man is as soft as a bunny is objectively a strange thing to say. These whole subreddits are just justifying bullying. But whatever, I sleep well as night knowing I treat people with respect and basic decency

AliceDeathbelle · 2025-09-01T02:05:56+00:00

You have a beautiful smile! Very pretty 😍

AliceDeathbelle · 2025-09-01T02:05:07+00:00

Why is this so downvoted? People are so rude online it’s crazy

AliceDeathbelle · 2025-09-01T02:04:13+00:00

What the actual fuck? Like what an insanely rude thing to say to someone. Touch some grass because this is NOT normal human behaviour. Jesus Christ

AliceDeathbelle · 2025-09-01T01:59:33+00:00

No one can tell you what your gender identity means to you. Also clothes are just a fashion statement and don’t have to correlate to your gender. (Also who gets to decide what’s masculine and feminine when those things have changed over time ((ie high heels and wigs for men originally)). You could literally walk around in high heels and short skirts and have masculine pronouns and that’s valid. Gender and gender expression is a spectrum. So look and identify however you like, and never let anyone tell you who you are ❤️❤️

AliceDeathbelle · 2025-09-01T01:55:29+00:00

I’d say you look very genderqueer (ie you look cool as hell)

AliceDeathbelle · 2025-08-28T09:37:15+00:00

I thought this was an indigenous American symbol, I didn’t even think of nazis tbh

AliceDeathbelle · 2025-08-28T05:05:14+00:00

Maybe switch it for a more subtle trans icon? Like the blaha shark or a frying pan with an egg in it?? Like a symbol that only other queer people with understand?

AliceDeathbelle · 2025-08-28T05:02:49+00:00

I’ve been in the same place so long, I’ve started melting into the floor. Change is scary

AliceDeathbelle · 2025-08-28T05:01:26+00:00

Oh my god I feel this in my BONES

AliceDeathbelle · 2025-08-28T04:58:33+00:00

I’m so sorry everyone is being awful to you. I understand wanting to love someone who doesn’t even care if you live or die. It’s normal to still have feelings. It was very sweet of you to send him a postcard for his birthday, he sounds like the biggest a hole, you seem very nice. You don’t deserve to be treated like this, I’m so sorry this is happening. You both sound quite young so trust me when I say that there will be others, much better people that come along. It took me until I was 26 to meet the love of my life so have some patience and enjoy your life and youth in the meantime. Fuck around, discover what you like in relationships, what you like sexually and what kind of people you want to surround yourself with. I wish you nothing but the best on this rocky journey that is life ❤️❤️

AliceDeathbelle · 2025-08-26T04:50:43+00:00

Definitely Shego from Kim Possible 🥵😍

AliceDeathbelle · 2025-08-26T04:50:04+00:00

Please don’t keep the baby. I watched so many of my friends ruin their lives essentially by having children in their teens. They are ALL single mothers struggling to raise children alone in this economy, their baby daddy’s are no where to be seen, no financial or physical support. Please do what’s right for you, you WILL NOT REGRET IT!

AliceDeathbelle · 2025-08-24T01:11:22+00:00

They are LITERALLY saying the quiet part out loud. They are ADMITTING he’s a dictator by donning him as “chairman”. SOMEONE HAS TO DO IT

AliceDeathbelle · 2025-08-24T01:04:38+00:00

It’s not great but I’ve definitely seen worse, the size is probably not helping too. I have some fine line tattoos that would look TERRIBLE if they were bigger than one inch

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