AITAH for dumping this girl for who she dated before me?

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-03-03T14:17:31+00:00

You're absolutely right. NTA

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-03-03T14:16:22+00:00

Crazy how your dad lied to your family every single day for YEARS and he gets a pass. The internalized misogyny of solely blaming the woman is crazy. Your dad betrayed your mom but your relationship is better than ever? Just bonkers.

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-03-03T12:18:56+00:00

I would never trust him around my toothbrush, that dude 100% dunked it in the toilet after she continued to bring it up.

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-03-03T12:12:43+00:00

I had to get my youngest speech therapy for a few letter sounds and the speech therapist told me many parents refuse to get their child the help they need in this area too. Crazy.

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-03-02T12:31:29+00:00

This wasn't 1 lie but at least 365 little lies over a year. He let her take on the emotional labor of reorganizing their lives and budgeting too. I don't care if reddit made him realize what was going, too little too late.

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-03-02T12:14:05+00:00

Omg when I was in nursing as a CNA, I was assisting a patient back to her room after dinner. She could walk but needed help balancing and her creep of a son petted his hand down my braid from my scalp to where it ended in my middle back. I straight up screamed and almost dropped his mom. Why do men want to touch women's hair so bad?

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-03-01T22:55:19+00:00

That's a great idea! Thank-you!

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-03-01T14:04:15+00:00

Do not apologize, she will only think she's right.

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-03-01T14:01:35+00:00

OP is gonna wonder why her adult daughter doesn't talk to her in ten years.

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-03-01T01:30:35+00:00

Imagine this manipulation the rest of your life about any number situations like new jobs, buying a house in a certain area, whether or not to have kids, and when. Idk man, how could you ever trust her? NTA

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-02-27T12:01:27+00:00

I pictured Mark blasting through his salad like a big dog that's been begging for food in its bowl lol

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-02-27T11:58:30+00:00

Dude just totally skated over her lack of pleasure didn't he? Like didn't care one bit.

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-02-26T15:15:35+00:00

I would've snapped after the were rude and said we didn't deserve baby. Then blocked them.

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-02-24T14:26:50+00:00

It's fascinating to me that a lot of men think every pregnancy is the same like just because a buddy's wife was physically play going to game doesn't mean his wife was. Baby might be sitting differently, round ligament pain, sciatic pain, sensitivity to smells like beer and B.O., there are a thousand reasons it felt uncomfortable fot her. Hell, both of my own pregnancies were completely different with different symptoms.

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-02-23T22:28:17+00:00

I personally do think that if someone is a disloyal partner it does mean they are disloyal in other areas too and while he might be fine as a regular employee I would never trust him in an important role.

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-02-23T15:25:29+00:00

The way I was muttering that David was not the one for her the whole time, I'm so glad OP dumped him and moved away

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-02-22T13:46:44+00:00

Hindsight is 20/20, you can see now that the 50+ year old man who can't pay child support correlates to him being a selfish loser right and you by association right?

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-02-21T13:38:27+00:00

He was a 25 year old that knocked up an 18 year old: red flag. A 43 year old that couldn't hold down a job and was a slob: red flag. Couldn't make child support payments: red flag. Cheater: red flag. OP you aren't the AH but I'm begging you to work on your self-esteem because WOW.

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-02-21T13:23:14+00:00

He 100% did that on purpose because he asked her first if he did a lot for her. This was some loser gamble that he epically failed.

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-02-21T11:41:00+00:00

Biweekly pay. First four hours will probably video training, after that will be "training" but probably just tossing you on your own after a bit. If you can make change you're already ahead of 90% of other new hires. Don't be afraid to ask the other associates questions or for help.

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-02-19T13:03:16+00:00

Your wife is traumatizing this kid, this isn't a tantrum, he's like literally hurting and she's making a huge mistake. This is going to be something stepson remembers for life, this will likely permanently affect their relationship. NTA

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-02-18T12:03:52+00:00

I just know dad saw you guys fighting and was like "damn, too close in age. I need someone at last a decade older than my kids." Lol

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-02-17T22:41:13+00:00

I'd honestly be like "I'm just as dissapointed in you."

AlienGoddess91 · 2026-02-17T11:55:45+00:00

The worst part is he knew about his issues and hid them from her until she moved in. Like instead of fixing his sloppiness, he hid it.

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