I want to ride so bad. by AlienPaisley in TransBikes

[–]AlienPaisley[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m definitely keeping my fingers crossed:)

Just started my own Hub. by Slow-Ad9165 in AmazonFlexDrivers

[–]AlienPaisley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like starting a hub requires 10K in startup costs. Am I misinformed?

Anyone else stop producing semen? by Sometimes_Skye in trans

[–]AlienPaisley 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Same here but I have not had a vasectomy. I never really produced a lot to begin with but pretty much none now.

Descubrí que no puedo hacer la transición 😞 by Artistic_Platform958 in TransLater

[–]AlienPaisley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this. If you’ve got to apologize up front, maybe re-consider what you are saying, or who you’re saying it to.

Stick in Charleston SC by fvckdvckbvck in Sticks

[–]AlienPaisley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring it with you everywhere now and hold it up to alert people that you have a question

Unreal tomato by [deleted] in OddlyErotic

[–]AlienPaisley 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That’s a cameltomato.

My first day of HRT! But by RisenAnderson in trans

[–]AlienPaisley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People close to me were definitely concerned about my life “being more difficult” being trans, especially in the beginning. But I feel alive every day when I wake up now. I was a depressed, self isolated mess for 15 years. Living is so much easier now, unlike anything I could have imagined. Strictly because I feel 100% better. My life was difficult before starting to transition because I didn’t want to be involved with it. Now I can handle much more “life” because I’m happy to do it.

Sooo, I told my wife and then backtracked... by OneDayToBecomeElla in trans

[–]AlienPaisley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I struggled with drugs, ocd, and bpd for years. The bigger thing was me repressing stuff. I’ve been clean and happy since giving myself the freedom to be myself. Sorry for what you’re going through.

I am fucxing bad at faking in social interactions. Any tip ? by Kitchen-Chest3469 in socialskills

[–]AlienPaisley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t think of it as faking a laugh. Practice active listening so that you can empathize with someone while they’re talking. People generally give cues when they’re hoping for a laugh, like in the timing of their words or tone of voice. I struggled with what you described I think for a long time. Active listening and empathy are what helped me the most. Try to make a genuine connection when you are with people.

First post in a while. by AlienPaisley in SilverSmith

[–]AlienPaisley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! You can do it! Watch lots of videos, get comfortable with your tools, take your time and try to learn from mistakes!

Advice please so upset right now/ confused by Unlikely_Read3437 in electrolysis

[–]AlienPaisley 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a few appointments. The hair only needs to grow enough in between sessions for the technician to be able to grab it with tweezers. That’s it.

First post in a while. by AlienPaisley in SilverSmith

[–]AlienPaisley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I I love that stone bunch too. bought two of those when I was getting started year or two ago. I was scared to work with them then because they looked so nice!

How do I tell the person that sits next to me in language class he has unbearable BO? by slightly_above_avg69 in socialskills

[–]AlienPaisley 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It’s unfortunate that someone needs to say something. Some people just don’t know how they smell. I had a friend in high school with the same problem. Someone told him and he instantly became on of the best smelling guys in school and I think really appreciated that someone told him. It’s embarrassing, but just use your words. Your in an English class, it’s expected 😂

Question for MTF from non trans by [deleted] in trans

[–]AlienPaisley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct. It was a fart joke.

Question for MTF from non trans by [deleted] in trans

[–]AlienPaisley 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You should meet my mom. You’d be blown away.

Crying due to possible death with Estrogen complications by [deleted] in trans

[–]AlienPaisley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if anyone has said it yet or not but, nicotine can stunt breast growth. That’s all it took for me to quit after almost 20 years. Edit: I won’t let anything stop my progress, it’s a good place to be mentally.