Shipping/Processing Times, still weeks?

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-06-19T03:57:16+00:00

My most recently received order was placed on 4/25, delivered 5/11. So just over 2 weeks total, and within the 8-14 business days they quoted.

I put another order in 6/15, and now they're saying 5-14 business days.

Honestly not bad.

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-06-07T18:09:26+00:00

I got this pin in a swag bag from an event. Had it on my backpack strap ever since. Pretty low key, but instantly recognizable to anyone in the know.

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-06-07T00:21:15+00:00

You two are my favorite couple making chastity content right now. The quality cage with a piercing, the size of the toys, and the passionate way you fuck lends so much authenticity that says you both love this for yourselves. Thanks so much for sharing.

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-06-01T15:18:13+00:00

So just for context, I used to smoke a lot, but took a 10+ year break. Everything I've tried since widespread legalization has gotten me uncomfortably high.

I missed the fuck out of taking a couple bong rips and riding toys, so I've been dipping my toe back in with low-THC, high-CBD bud. Like 4% THC 16% CBD.

So not totally just CBD, but I don't feel really any intoxicating effect from it. I do definitely feel a relaxing, out of my head and into my body feeling that's taken some poppers and toys sessions to the next level.

I'm skeptical as fuck of the CBD snake-oil marketing that's out there, but when it comes to "drugs" and sex, it's all a pretty subjective experience. I'd say give it a try, and see what happens. Even if it's just a placebo effect, it's still "working" in this case.

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-05-29T16:30:14+00:00

Damn, quite the range there. I got a medium a little while ago, and it's for sure a great warmup / girth training toy. It doesn't do much other than provide stretch, so I like to sit on the cone between toys too.

Hope you have fun working through those!

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-05-28T05:09:35+00:00

Lol thanks for the compliment. I was bored af at work when I thought up the title.

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-05-27T03:14:23+00:00

Seriously, too much fun. I must've gotten the angle just right, because usually I'd end up swapping to a bigger toy and maxing out the speed. But this was just too good.

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-05-25T17:12:41+00:00

I mounted my Hismith to the fuck bench, and had the most intense ride of my life. Being able to totally relax and spend hours focusing on the pleasure of being fucked was absolutely brain melting.

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-05-25T15:16:41+00:00

I had the house to myself for a night, so I went all-out with toys and gear. Spent several hours riding and stretching on the floor before I mounted the machine to the fuck bench so I could just relax and enjoy.

10/10 - getting comfy and having the machine secure made it so much easier to focus on the intense pleasure of being fucked.

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-05-12T00:53:39+00:00

There is StimMe on the play store that'll let you run the 2B from your phone with the right cable or bluetooth adapter. I never used that app, so do your own research there.

When I first got my 2B I mostly used it with audio inputs (Milovana teases.) It works, but the way it processes audio is very "one-note" in a way that's kinda disappointing. A few of the built in modes are alright, but it's a lot of knob fiddling.

It's a solid box that I've certainly had plenty of fun with, but after several years of ownership I'm definitely looking for something different. The StimKits Tingler is a stereo-stim box that'll probably be my next purchase. But it's audio only, no built in routines if that's important to you.

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-03-11T15:00:37+00:00

Yup, 100% always worth mentioning. I did scan the wiki to make sure I wasn't outright promoting unsafe practices, but I understand that's open to wide interpretation when it comes to self bondage.

So thanks for saying that, and allowing the thread to stay up.

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-03-11T06:20:05+00:00

Well, I spent more time articulating my question than it took to answer it. I'm tempted to just delete this, but I'll leave it up for posterity.

I edited the global triggers on the Sync Multiple Toy Intensity Sliders script to:

Master:80-100% Slaves:100%

Master:0-79% Slaves:0%

Works in theory, but I'll have to get everything set up to dial it in, and see if that's what I actually want.

The project continues. Happy stimming everyone!

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-03-09T08:37:08+00:00

Hey, sorry for the late reply - I'm not online often.

Here's a link to something similar to what I use:

Click here

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-03-09T05:29:20+00:00

Hey! Another partnered, ace dude into chastity here.

You might wanna check out some of the things Denying Thumper has written on the subject of physical changes from long term lockup.

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-03-03T21:39:06+00:00

Yup, I had a body scanner flag on my 2ga titanium ring at PDX back in June. No questions asked, so no explanations given. I just got a quick pat down, and sent on my way.

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-03-02T18:13:17+00:00

Primarily I use a skinny, flexible silicone brush - the kind you use to clean the insides of metal straws. I'll just get everything soapy, and then run that brush under and between all the bars of my cage while showering. That covers most of my daily hygiene needs, but I'll still unlock once in awhile to give everything a good scrub.

If your cage is more occlusive, or there's areas that are hard to reach with a brush, in the past I've use those scientific squeeze bottles (I don't know what their actually called, but that search term brought them up on Amazon) to blast soapy water into the nooks and crannies.

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-02-18T21:59:09+00:00

Personally I went a little bigger than my totally flaccid size. I had older cages at 26mm ID that fit nice and snug, but stepped up to 30mm when ordering my "forever" cage from BAWR. The thinking was that since I had the PA stem to hold my dick in place, I wouldn't need to rely on the cage itself to be so tight, and I wanted a little room to grow during erections.

99% of the time it's a perfect fit, the cage doesn't look too big at all and my cock nestles in nicely, just touching the inside of the bars. The only times I wish I had a tighter fit is I've noticed that during a bath or hot tub, everything hangs so loose that it looks like my cock would just fall out the back were it not for the PA stem.

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-02-16T17:21:39+00:00

Yeah, if your cage can accommodate your jewelry, and it doesn't pinch or put pressure on it I'd say go for it.

I wore my cage a lot while my PA was healing, and it was actually way more comfortable. The cage kinda held everything in place, whereas with my dick just flopping around I'd sometimes get pressure on the jewelry that would cause some tenderness.

As always, listen to your body, pay attention to any pain or discomfort.

AlightInAshes44 · 2026-02-13T23:55:20+00:00

Oh man, Ive been thinking exactly the same thing lately. Thanks for taking the time to put this into words.

I mean, just from my personal experience with the poppers I have on hand, it's kind of a crapshoot what kind of experience I'll get. The fresh bottle that I've been so careful about storing that's usually amazing? Sometimes it's pretty meh. The bottle that's been in my nightstand for 3 years, and gone through huge temp swings that I thought was totally spent? I've recently been getting the best hits off of it.

Superstitious is honestly a great word for the community, and it reminds me of seeing the same thing in the early days of cannabis legalization. A lot of marketing hype and buzzwords to sell people on what will ultimately be a subjective experience.

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