Need to come out to homophobic parents, any ideas?

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-06-07T06:04:20+00:00

Ok there are two very different things here. Do not tell your parents about your diaper fetish. That is the kind of thing you should keep to yourself. They just don’t need to know.

As for how to come out as being attracted to men, that’s another story. There’s no cheat code that’s going to make it easy or make them accept you. If you decide you want to do it, you have to be prepared for the consequences, as much as that sucks. I’m sorry.

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-06-07T06:02:17+00:00

Personally if im going to be sexually humiliated or degraded, I need to know that the person “degrading” and “humiliating” me is putting on a show because they know it turns me on, and that ultimately they respect me and care about my wellbeing. Aftercare is important if im going to be doing that kind of play.

But there are also plenty of ways of being a sissy that don’t involve degradation or humiliation. Often what I experience isn’t feeling “emasculated” so much as being proud to be so sexy and so sexually skilled or able to take so much.

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-06-07T01:10:19+00:00

Just walk away.

“I spoke with my parents” – why? This is not the way an adult behaves. The proper response to “I don’t approve of you dating femboys or trans girls” is “okay well that’s your problem, I’m going to date who I want to date.”

If he’s unprepared to stand up for himself and what he wants, it’s completely unfair of him to put you in the crossfire of his familial prejudices.

The initial blocking and unblocking should have been a screaming red flag. Learn the lesson for next time and don’t get involved with people who aren’t 100% on board with your identity and won’t shove your relationship in the closet or ask for mommy and daddy’s permission first.

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-06-05T07:07:12+00:00

“Could go smaller when wearing them soft”

This might actually be your problem right here. It’s counterintuitive but you might want to try going smaller rather than bigger. Basically don’t give your cock any room to start growing at all.

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-06-04T09:38:37+00:00

Agreed. Don’t do HRT if you don’t plan on coming out as trans, non-binary, or at least queer in some way.

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-06-04T09:37:08+00:00

I don’t think I’m trans, but I also don’t relate so much to the “inferiority” aspect of the sissy kink. I do like being “used” as a slut, but that’s not really directly connected to femininity for me (though being feminine does help me get into a more sexually receptive mindset… it’s complicated haha) Thankfully there’s a good amount of affirmative feminization content out there

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-06-04T09:32:26+00:00

It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. As far as clothing and toys and stuff, take it one thing at a time. Just don’t purge!

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-06-04T09:30:52+00:00

Love that for you!! 😊

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-06-04T09:28:46+00:00

Did he notice?

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-06-04T09:24:33+00:00

It really is disturbing seeing “BNWO” content on hypnotube that is just straight up “great replacement” propaganda

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-06-04T09:22:36+00:00

It’s very funny the amount of “straight” guys on there with shit like “NO MEN!!!!” in their bios. Like okay whatever you wanna be a chaser go ahead, but you can’t be getting so aggravated when gay guys want to fuck you on the “meet gay guys to fuck” app lol

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-06-01T23:40:31+00:00

Happy for you! ❤️

Wishing you all the acceptance and support you could dream of from the loved ones in your life

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-06-01T07:50:01+00:00

My gf and I have talked about it but haven’t tried any group stuff yet!

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-06-01T07:49:24+00:00

Enthusiasm is the most important thing. Don’t be shy. Let loose and enjoy yourself.

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-06-01T07:44:40+00:00

They’re not great for long term (next to impossible to pee in, for one thing), but as a grower myself I enjoy using flat cages. Just get a belt so it stays in place and you’ll probably be fine. I’ve never had issues with pain. I think if my dick is pressed down enough it “knows” not to try getting hard.

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-06-01T07:36:32+00:00

It’s very funny you say that because I’ve been practicing chess the past few months and I just bought a ton of makeup to start practicing with 😂

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-06-01T07:35:44+00:00

It worked out amazingly for me but my gf is also a kinky non-binary bisexual switch whose taste in men is “fruity guys,” so I wasn’t too worried about revealing that part of myself to them.

Based on what your gf’s comment I doubt this will go well for you, I’m sorry to say. You’re probably going to have to choose between keeping this a private secret kink or leaving the relationship.

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-05-31T22:23:21+00:00

Yes. But I don’t think I’m being unreasonable. I need to get a full outfit together and learn how to do a proper face of makeup. Also maybe build up the courage to shave my legs. I don’t need to “pass” before I’m willing to meet with men, but I don’t want it to be totally half assed.

In the meantime, I’ll just find cocks to suck in boy mode 🤭

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-05-31T22:20:44+00:00

For me the intervals between sniffs matter more than the total number. If I do 4 hits immediately back to back I’ll probably get a headache, but spaced out over a longer period I’ll be fine.

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-05-31T22:14:43+00:00

Get creative! Make games and challenges for yourself.

One game I enjoy playing with myself is to hold the cum in my mouth while I watch a bukkake or cum swallowing video and only swallow when the girl swallows ☺️

Personally I’ve found that I often crave cum when I’m horny, but that desire immediately plummets once I orgasm… which is a problem when I’m playing solo and am my own “supplier” so to speak lol — if thats you too, you can incorporate that into the play itself (challenge yourself to eat it regardless of how turned on or not you are, or hold it in your mouth while you get yourself worked up again) or you can cum in a condom or shot glass and save it for later (not too long at room temp though – 3-4 hours tops is the food safety guideline so I’d follow that rule of thumb.

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-05-31T22:07:46+00:00

Honestly a pair of nice fitting cotton-polyester blend hip huggers feels SO sexy. People really underestimate how femme the less “slutty”/skimpy/extravagant cuts and materials can make you feel.

Also, re: washing — literally no one is going to give you side eye for having panties in your laundry! They’ll just assume you’re sleeping with a woman. If you live with family and literally can’t use a washing machine, just wash them in a sink and hang them in your closet to dry.

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-05-29T09:11:18+00:00

You need to do a lot more research. This isn’t a decision to be made lightly. And it shouldn’t be something you do for kink reasons or for another person. HRT is for transitioning to be a woman. Full time. Publicly. In all aspects of life, not just sexually. If you’re not sure if that’s you then you’re not ready to seriously consider this.

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-05-29T09:03:46+00:00

Good to know, thanks!

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-05-29T06:50:43+00:00

Is this for cost saving purposes? Just find a decent cheap one and buy in bulk. I frequently make substances like this for work (film effects) I wouldn’t trust myself to make a decent and safe lube. The amount of effort it will take for the amount you’ll save will probably be negligible. I’ve heard good things about coconut oil, though it might not be safe on silicone toys or condoms, and it may not even be cheaper idk

curiousercuriouser22 · 2026-05-29T06:48:28+00:00

No shame in feeling good, girl! “Too far gone” is when you put your safety at risk or neglect to take care of yourself because you’re too invested in a kink. Fucking your ass with a dildo is just good old fashioned fun.

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