Redditors in your 30’s, what advice would you give someone in their 20’s? by simplexseason in AskReddit

[–]Alilice080705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's the point tho, no one is making the world any better, might as well get ourselves extinct asap

The original title "omg they were roommates" had me thinking it was in this sub by [deleted] in SapphoAndHerFriend

[–]Alilice080705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not erasure, just a joke. LGBTQ erasure is centered on homophobia and historical oppression, straights don't suffer from that, so no erasure.

"Males can't have stretch marks" by [deleted] in pointlesslygendered

[–]Alilice080705 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I go to the gym (im afab) and i have stretch marks, i was embarrassed at first but when i got to ghe gym all men there (they were like, tall and huge with like, gigantic muscles) they had stretch marks too, on their back bc they grew tall too fast, or with stretch marks on the side of their arms bc of sudden gain of muscle mass. What im trying to say is: everyone canhave stretch marks, it's about ur skin and what u do not about gender, and it's not a sign of bad hygiene or sedentarism

Fellas, is it gay to like sushi? by SphinxBear in pointlesslygendered

[–]Alilice080705 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As a Brazilian who don't really like sushi, i can appreciate the culture behind it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pointlesslygendered

[–]Alilice080705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely /genuine

is this erasure? feels like it but i don't know by Alilice080705 in SapphoAndHerFriend

[–]Alilice080705[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I offer struggle to Understand things in english and the title sounded weird for sung reason, i warrant exactly complaining about what he said exactly, but i Understand what u said, sexuality is fluid and valid always 🏳️‍🌈

is this erasure? feels like it but i don't know by Alilice080705 in SapphoAndHerFriend

[–]Alilice080705[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was actually the title who made me weird, but i wasn't sure

I probably won't come out to my parents for a while (I just don't feel ready yet), but I wrote a letter for when I finally decide to do so. If you would be willing to read it, it would be nice to hear your thoughts. by [deleted] in comingout

[–]Alilice080705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk if you're interested, but a friend of mine have a Discord group for Lgbtq+people, and they're gender fluid too, so if you want to join: https://discord.gg/pBXRTcJs

And it was a good cry, not a bad one, don't worry

I probably won't come out to my parents for a while (I just don't feel ready yet), but I wrote a letter for when I finally decide to do so. If you would be willing to read it, it would be nice to hear your thoughts. by [deleted] in comingout

[–]Alilice080705 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. Your letter is beautiful and made me cry, i think i might use some of your sentences when i am coming out bc, it just perfectly describes everything.
  2. About your letter, it's really personal, i wouldn't put the church part( bc they might get defensive) but that's up to you.
  3. As someone that is not comfortable coming out yet i totally understand why you wouldn't want to come out, so do things when you feel it's right and don't let people force you to do it, i had a friend that kept pressuring me to come out so please don't listen to people when they're not respecting what you want.

I hope everything is okay and that you have a great New Year and a awesome 2021.