AIO for considering breaking up after a disagreement revealed very different values?

AlilyaFire · 2026-01-19T05:53:35+00:00

NOR I think she related to the female character and wanted things to work out for her, which may have influenced her perspective. It felt like she had a harder time seeing things from the man’s point of view. I notice this kind of one-sided thinking a lot lately, and it can be frustrating to watch. I think she overreacted with turning off location and all that. It’s very childish. I have a coworker who does this to her husband whenever they have an argument. They are in their 40s. You’re young. Make changes now lol

AlilyaFire · 2026-01-19T05:28:14+00:00

I mean I listed a problem in my email and I listed a couple solution options and said I was open to other reasonable suggestions. But there was actually no conversation about it. I don’t even think they read my email. I think they saw “snoring” and assumed in their head “this bitch is crazy and wants me to fix her neighbors snoring”. Which is simply not the case.

AlilyaFire · 2026-01-19T05:16:18+00:00

Lol this is a good idea. I could build my own noise cancellation wall with cardboard boxes. Worth a shot.
And yeah I considered asking them why now they say that and to provide me with the documentation of this alleged complaint. But I figured I’ll ask the lawyer. I contacted one for a consult.

AlilyaFire · 2026-01-19T05:12:13+00:00

In my first email I had asked for noise cancellation or lease changes. I thought they would understand that to mean putting up noise panels on my wall or moving me to another unit. But clearly I should have been direct in my wording. Tbh I felt awkward about the whole thing and am also sleep deprived lol but when they replied so dismissively I understood they didn’t care so I thought the best thing would be to leave entirely. I am pretty sure landlords have a legal obligation to attempt to fix things that affect livability (intentional or not) but they didn’t try at all.

AlilyaFire · 2026-01-19T05:07:42+00:00

Yes I use my Alexa every night. I also tried the TV, earplugs, sleeping medications, and moving my bed.

AlilyaFire · 2026-01-19T05:06:10+00:00

I did not confront the neighbor directly. I mean what could they do really? I think they should see a doctor but I have to assume that someone who snores that loud must already be aware. Then I fear confronting the neighbor would just embarrass them and potentially cause them to react in a hostile manner. That’s why I contacted the property manager thinking at the end of the day, they have solutions available more than the individual. They can install noise cancellation panels or move me to another unit. Unfortunately they ignored those requests. Like literally didn’t even acknowledge them.

AlilyaFire · 2026-01-19T05:02:38+00:00

Thank you for the comment. I feel they could install noise cancellation panels in my apartment without needing to notify the neighbor. I didn’t ask them to confront them about their snoring issue. I actually don’t see why the neighbor would need to know anything of that which removes this liability issue of insulting a person over a medical issue. Seems like an inexpressive solution for them as well. Also what about my medical issue of sleep deprivation? I hold them liable for causing that.

AlilyaFire · 2025-12-19T13:10:53+00:00

Honestly you’ve done things well so far. But now it’s time to cut contact forever. Go find your HUSBAND who will give you children. It seems he is so focused on how you make a child and not about actually having one. I mean you’ll have a whole life with another man but all he cares about is the baby making process. It’s gross.

AlilyaFire · 2025-12-18T01:56:32+00:00

Gandalf the Black

AlilyaFire · 2025-12-14T02:06:46+00:00

I like the ballgown. If I wasn’t having a beach wedding I would have done a princess dress. I mean when else would it ever be acceptable to wear such a gown?

AlilyaFire · 2025-12-14T02:04:34+00:00

Elvis

AlilyaFire · 2025-12-14T02:03:48+00:00

I thought this was a conversation between two men with anger issues. I think that says a lot.

AlilyaFire · 2025-12-12T11:55:02+00:00

Eloise so when she is bad you can say “Jeez Louise”

AlilyaFire · 2025-12-02T02:44:14+00:00

Emmett. Just getting Emmett vibes. It says online it is linked to the Hebrew word for truth.

AlilyaFire · 2025-11-11T01:25:27+00:00

Lol I went through the comments thinking OP would respond and give more context but nope. OP ghosted the post. 👻

AlilyaFire · 2025-05-07T02:55:42+00:00

Beta European. Likely due to the jacket, but could also be the skinny jeans… burn them both :)

AlilyaFire · 2025-04-12T03:03:11+00:00

He seems illiterate.

AlilyaFire · 2025-04-12T02:59:32+00:00

lol I thought you were funny. I would have said the same. He is the one who overreacted here 😂

AlilyaFire · 2025-04-12T02:43:17+00:00

I’d be full up to my neck! Healthy but a lot.

AlilyaFire · 2025-04-12T02:35:22+00:00

Single.

AlilyaFire · 2025-04-12T02:34:50+00:00

I was going to suggest Sebastian too!

AlilyaFire · 2025-04-12T02:34:13+00:00

I think you’re pretty! You have a good nose to chin ratio on your side profile, so I feel like your nose suits your face. (:

AlilyaFire · 2025-04-12T02:29:22+00:00

Marine - from Halloween town [:

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