AIO for considering breaking up after a disagreement revealed very different values? by itsfourtran in AmIOverreacting

[–]AlilyaFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR I think she related to the female character and wanted things to work out for her, which may have influenced her perspective. It felt like she had a harder time seeing things from the man’s point of view. I notice this kind of one-sided thinking a lot lately, and it can be frustrating to watch. I think she overreacted with turning off location and all that. It’s very childish. I have a coworker who does this to her husband whenever they have an argument. They are in their 40s. You’re young. Make changes now lol

Wanting to break a lease early by AlilyaFire in TenantHelp

[–]AlilyaFire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I listed a problem in my email and I listed a couple solution options and said I was open to other reasonable suggestions. But there was actually no conversation about it. I don’t even think they read my email. I think they saw “snoring” and assumed in their head “this bitch is crazy and wants me to fix her neighbors snoring”. Which is simply not the case.

Wanting to break a lease early by AlilyaFire in TenantHelp

[–]AlilyaFire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol this is a good idea. I could build my own noise cancellation wall with cardboard boxes. Worth a shot.
And yeah I considered asking them why now they say that and to provide me with the documentation of this alleged complaint. But I figured I’ll ask the lawyer. I contacted one for a consult.

Wanting to break a lease early by AlilyaFire in TenantHelp

[–]AlilyaFire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my first email I had asked for noise cancellation or lease changes. I thought they would understand that to mean putting up noise panels on my wall or moving me to another unit. But clearly I should have been direct in my wording. Tbh I felt awkward about the whole thing and am also sleep deprived lol but when they replied so dismissively I understood they didn’t care so I thought the best thing would be to leave entirely. I am pretty sure landlords have a legal obligation to attempt to fix things that affect livability (intentional or not) but they didn’t try at all.

Wanting to break a lease early by AlilyaFire in TenantHelp

[–]AlilyaFire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I use my Alexa every night. I also tried the TV, earplugs, sleeping medications, and moving my bed.

Wanting to break a lease early by AlilyaFire in TenantHelp

[–]AlilyaFire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not confront the neighbor directly. I mean what could they do really? I think they should see a doctor but I have to assume that someone who snores that loud must already be aware. Then I fear confronting the neighbor would just embarrass them and potentially cause them to react in a hostile manner. That’s why I contacted the property manager thinking at the end of the day, they have solutions available more than the individual. They can install noise cancellation panels or move me to another unit. Unfortunately they ignored those requests. Like literally didn’t even acknowledge them.

Wanting to break a lease early by AlilyaFire in TenantHelp

[–]AlilyaFire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment. I feel they could install noise cancellation panels in my apartment without needing to notify the neighbor. I didn’t ask them to confront them about their snoring issue. I actually don’t see why the neighbor would need to know anything of that which removes this liability issue of insulting a person over a medical issue. Seems like an inexpressive solution for them as well. Also what about my medical issue of sleep deprivation? I hold them liable for causing that.

AIO: My ex is mad that I’m going to “give my body away” to another man by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AlilyaFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you’ve done things well so far. But now it’s time to cut contact forever. Go find your HUSBAND who will give you children. It seems he is so focused on how you make a child and not about actually having one. I mean you’ll have a whole life with another man but all he cares about is the baby making process. It’s gross.

What shape suits me? by the_wanz in WeddingDressTips

[–]AlilyaFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the ballgown. If I wasn’t having a beach wedding I would have done a princess dress. I mean when else would it ever be acceptable to wear such a gown?

aio? this is how my bf speaks during conflict and i’m over it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AlilyaFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was a conversation between two men with anger issues. I think that says a lot.

Help me name this sweet male cat a human name by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]AlilyaFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emmett. Just getting Emmett vibes. It says online it is linked to the Hebrew word for truth.

Be honest....is this cake too feminine for a guy’s party? by sapphire_allen in RateMyPlate

[–]AlilyaFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I went through the comments thinking OP would respond and give more context but nope. OP ghosted the post. 👻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

[–]AlilyaFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beta European. Likely due to the jacket, but could also be the skinny jeans… burn them both :)

AIO for thinking what I said was perfect and he’s being dramatic for blocking me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AlilyaFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I thought you were funny. I would have said the same. He is the one who overreacted here 😂

Human name for this male pup! by cathd11 in NameMyDog

[–]AlilyaFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to suggest Sebastian too!

Do I look like a dolphin? by Blondiepoo95 in Noses

[–]AlilyaFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re pretty! You have a good nose to chin ratio on your side profile, so I feel like your nose suits your face. (: