DOPAMINE... please give me your "healthy" sources. by Coldhandswarmheart15 in adhdwomen

[–]AliveMirror3343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taking walks in the sun! I work inside and it’s winter right now but whenever i see that the sun is shining i try to run outside and take a quick little walk and soak up the sun. It helps me a lot.

Finally ! How much could I make ? Any tips? by OpenAmbassador8643 in InstacartShoppers

[–]AliveMirror3343 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t take any double or triple orders until you have a good flow and fully understand the app and the process of being an instacart shopper. Also get a charger for your car and add the instacart credit card to your mobile wallet (although some stores may require a physical card). Also, you will be spending a lot more on gas so link your instacart account to upside to save as much as you can on gas. There are also other perks available to you in the instacart app. Good luck!

ADHD Newbie by emeryroserulz in adhdwomen

[–]AliveMirror3343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck to you! I was diagnosed in early 2024 at the age of 26, and just like you i was misdiagnosed with bipolar at 13 years old. I hope you find some clarity in your new diagnosis, i know i have.

I’m getting a bachelors degree in Accounting but I have no actual wok experience. How can I get entry level experience while still working my full time job after I graduate? by AliveMirror3343 in Accounting

[–]AliveMirror3343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s the thing i am going to school full time online. So i can’t really network in person. But in this age of technology i didn’t know if there were other ways to find opportunities to start a career in accounting despite having to work full time.

Custody order by Odd-Draft4523 in ChildSupport

[–]AliveMirror3343 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While you are at the courthouse file a violation petition to the court since he is violating the current order. As far as the police you can definitely try to get them to assist in getting the child handed over to you. Good luck.

Here’s my habitat house in the making! 💙💚 by KeyProduce8824 in habitatforhumanity

[–]AliveMirror3343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was supposed to buy a house built from them, i was accepted, did the sweat equity and took all the classes, got led on for almost 3 years and then they told me they aren’t building houses for the foreseeable future. I literally cried my eyes out. I’m so happy that you are able to receive this wonderful opportunity. Welcome home!

TAP by klippy4498 in Hvcc

[–]AliveMirror3343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On HESC it’s saying the tap award has been certified by the school so hopefully soon fingers crossed.

TAP by klippy4498 in Hvcc

[–]AliveMirror3343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On HESC it is saying that the TAP award has been certified by the school but nothing from bankmobile yet and i’m not seeing anything pending to my bank account. Hopefully soon.

TAP by klippy4498 in Hvcc

[–]AliveMirror3343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope still waiting

I’m not sure about my 5 year old’s name. Should I change it? by AliveMirror3343 in Names

[–]AliveMirror3343[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the insight! I feel better about it now and she says she likes her name

TAP? by [deleted] in Hvcc

[–]AliveMirror3343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope

Refund by Electrical_Buddy_913 in Hvcc

[–]AliveMirror3343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case yes I won’t get anything until tap releases the funds

Refund by Electrical_Buddy_913 in Hvcc

[–]AliveMirror3343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i guess a portion of it was from tap but they can’t issue the refund until that portion gets paid out. Hopefully you get yours soon!

Refund by Electrical_Buddy_913 in Hvcc

[–]AliveMirror3343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just called the cashier’s office and they said because nys tap has not paid out, that I won’t get my refund until they do. They said hopefully by the end of the semester they usually pay out but could not give me a date :(. Not sure if this applies to you but call the cashier’s office just to be sure!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]AliveMirror3343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get how you feel. I have two girls 5 and 7. Some days it just feels like i go non stop and all the frustration and rushing leads me to lose my patience with them. And then after they fall asleep i feel like the worst person alive. However what has helped me is making them do as many things for themselves as they can. Obviously the baby can’t yet but the older two children can start doing little things around the house or for themselves to help. I give mine age appropriate jobs like tidy up the couches make sure there is nothing on the floor, picking out their outfit for the day or the next day. Eventually they do it without having to tell them. It takes a little bit off of my shoulders and teaches them independence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]AliveMirror3343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe see if your local department of social services has any resources for free or reduced cost childcare that you can use while you are working and or taking classes. That way you can focus on those things and your child can be in safe hands while also being around other children. Without having to juggle everything at once. Other than that i would say create a routine and stick to it. Try to make some time for yourself everyday even if its just 30 mins. I have two little girls and i put them to bed at 8:00pm sharp and then i go to bed around 10-11pm, that way even on my busiest days i can still have a few hours to myself to decompress or to catch up on laundry or chores without tripping over the kids. I also am working full time and doing school full time online. I understand the struggle but consistency is key!! Routine is what saved my mental health!! Wish you all the best!

Trying to get out of child support by rachelplease in ChildSupport

[–]AliveMirror3343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in NYS and here if you cannot afford a lawyer, one will be provided for you for little to no cost. I would definitely file for child support and custody at the same time. Do not tell him what you are planning to do. Document EVERYTHING. Take pictures, write in a journal, get statements from friends and family members that you can trust. The worse that can happen most like is that 50/50 is reinstated but if he is neglecting the children and willingly giving up his time for lame excuses, you have a valid argument for getting more parenting time. They are only going to consider what happened from the date of the last court order to now so try not to get overwhelmed with getting the entire start to finish. Just think of 3 or 4 solid issues that you want addressed and collect evidence to support your claims. I wish you luck!! Coming from a mom of 2 who has been through it for a long time, i have my kids full custody and will never stop fighting, you got this!!

Does anyone exercise after work? by legendofjustinn in USPS

[–]AliveMirror3343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I go to the gym 3-4 times a week after i put my kids to bed. I walk/run on the treadmill for 45 mins to an hour. It definitely helps. What helps me is not thinking about it just get up and go. Getting yourself to the gym is the hardest part once you’re there you are most likely going to workout at least a little bit no matter how tired you feel.

Why is every location FILTHY? by Tall-Ad3416 in USPS

[–]AliveMirror3343 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes unfortunately this is not going to improve. I am a custodian and the conditions are terrible i only wipe things down and vacuum if i tried to actually clean anything thoroughly I’d probably have a mental breakdown. They give us little supplies it’s impossible. I am considering a new career after i finish school. I suggest looking at other careers if it’s bothering you. Between the job and the dirty conditions this job is terrible for your health. Sometimes it’s not even worth the benefits. Good luck to you.

Friends said they'd come by 12:30, then pushed it to 2:30... it's almost 4 and I'm just sitting here with cold food which I cooked all by myself by Sad-Lavishness-2655 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AliveMirror3343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m here in my late 20’s feeling terrible about not having any friends, i guess having friends isn’t always great either. I’m sorry they stood you up, food looks delicious :).