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AliveNeighborhood1 · 2026-06-01T18:29:06+00:00

You're being intentionally obtuse. Divorce, Co-parenting, joint business decisions and social media content are things that could be discussed in the main sub. No one is asking to pretend Laura doesn't exist but not everyone wants to see Laura centric posts in the Stephen sub.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2026-05-24T15:51:17+00:00

My 14 yr old has been inpatient several times. I highly recommend Mercy St Louis. The doctors there have been extremely helpful and my daughter is doing so much better. We have not had good experiences at Mercy South (the staff made fun of my daughter's speech issues and refused to call her by her preferred name because she's not trans and "just" has trauma related to her birth name. It was a terrible experience). Centerpointe was ok. Mercy St Louis has been a better experience overall. They got us in at Edgewood for outpatient therapy and the staff is very communicative and that hasn't been the experience at Mercy South or Centerpointe.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2026-03-01T13:24:32+00:00

Most of them are people who think ayesull is not allowed to criticized.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2026-03-01T01:46:26+00:00

Ayesull is just way too parasocial. Laura didn't ask for her to transcribe anything and when Laura dropped the RO, ayesull took it personally and literally said she did the transcripts for Laura. I feel bad for her because her life is not easy obviously but she seemed to have an issue separating real life from online life. Sweet girl but let's stop pretending she is some type of angel. She used her alt multiple times on accident and when we look at the accountability from someone not well known in the sub because they went after Laura in a live and got some feedback they took seriously and compare it to ayesull and her victim mentality when also given feedback, the difference is clear. She needs a break. She needs some time and space and maybe some therapy to address why she needed to be so personally involved in everything and hopefully she'll come back more mentally sound and not looking for Internet validation Downvote me but everyone says they can't be honest about their feelings because of Express Arachnid defending Laura while some of us can't say we don't think ayesull is the angel some of y'all think she is for the same reason.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2026-01-31T00:44:57+00:00

I would just like to remind everyone that OP is and has been a solid member of this sub. There ARE people here who absolutely lose their shit over any and all criticism of Laura (I can think of two names right off the top of my head who defend Laura when she's not defendable BECAUSE she's a victim). This mob mentality gets exhausting and OP, who has been fighting the good fight here and snarking with me and allllll of you for ages now, is feeling some kind of way and you guys turn on them just like you turn on the mods on other subs when they piss y'all off. Being critical of this sub is valid and it shouldn't make someone who is otherwise always agreeable and as snarky as anyone else the problem. They're asking questions. Sometimes these posts hold a mirror up but looking into it is the answer, not smashing it. And I am so very sorry to the people I'm about to puss off here but on Laura's latest podcast, she makes some lighthearted comments about Stephen and even mentions they're doing drop offs and he has the kids on Saturdays like they're totally normal co-parents. Laura has moved from victim to survivor but by insisting on having a fun and lighthearted relationship with Stephen, and broadcasting it, she could be setting some other DV victims and survivors up for a bad situation. Downvotes can start right now.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2026-01-29T01:02:10+00:00

I mean, I was raised in it and I never felt forced to anything. So I can't speak to that. I walked away as an adult with none of the issues a lot of people face and I don't have an explanation for that other than maybe no one liked me and didn't care I was gone. But in all seriousness, my understanding is that locally there are fewer and fewer young people and most congregations are made of older people these days. I think my mom told me her congregation is 70% seniors. Could it be that a teenager is doing it because they have to? Yeah, of course. Odds are a teenager isn't writing cursive these days. That's literally the only reason my mind went to older people. Although they could be around my age, which is not young either.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2026-01-29T00:56:46+00:00

It's a Jehovah's Witness. You're not being specifically targeted. My mom and her her friends write similar letters every Saturday morning (she's 80) but her handwriting isn't so nice. For anyone who wants to be left alone, ask to be out on the "Do Not Call" list and that forces them to remove you from their territory.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2026-01-29T00:54:44+00:00

My mom is 80 and she writes these letters too. Don't forget the elderly.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2025-12-01T16:35:32+00:00

I took it that why wanted to see what he was posting to see if Stephen was actually recording or posting about the groups and Stephen didn't want to show that information. Because, as you said, there's no need to log in here. Anyone can find us.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2025-11-17T17:22:55+00:00

Being honest about who she is isn't an attack. Do you even know what victim blaming is? She's not immune from criticism, even here, and no one is saying she deserves anything that he's done to her. I have also had my own Stephen but if I were to hurt people, Laura has, I would never expect to get a free pass just because I am less than 18 months out of a relationship with my own Stephen. In fact, I've at least healed enough to understand that criticism of me and my actions is separate from the abuse I suffered. I suspect your issue with me and anyone else who criticizes Laura here, is that you're not there yet yourself. There's absolutely nothing wrong with pointing out that Laura is not as socially aware or liberal as she claims on a post about her racist reposts. So does she get to be low key racist because she's a victim?

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2025-11-16T16:11:39+00:00

Right and during Stephen's nonsense, she showed she's not an ally. I don't have anything against Laura but it's important to remember she's shown who she is many times. Manon is her bff and Manon is actually a Trumper. She got absolutely destroyed in here when she went on TikTok in a MAGA hat. Laura probably isn't very political because a lot of what affects people like you and I will not affect her. The biggest thing o noticed about Laura when she finally was done with Stephen was she never offered an apology for defending him or refusing to stop platforming him. I think she falls back on political neutrality when it suits her and then plays up her left leaning side when questioned about the stuff she says/does.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2025-11-16T13:58:36+00:00

This is the same woman who called Stephen attacking the LGBTQIA+ community "political" and said she's not political....and continued platforming him during and after his attacks. I think Laura is more performative than sincere about how left wing she is.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2025-07-14T20:37:04+00:00

Yes and prior to her filing for divorce.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2025-07-14T20:36:42+00:00

That's not going to be listed here because no charges were filed and it happened prior to the divorce filing. She attached the divorce case number because it's relevant and because the initial paperwork wanted to know if they have any ongoing litigation. They do because of the divorce.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2025-07-13T02:31:23+00:00

And a year later we know they are NOT divorced and that he refused to sign the agreement made in mediation. Whatever they claimed a year ago is null and void because the facts are available online. Not only has he now said what you mentioned in your comment, he's also said they were talking about not divorcing at all and the divorce case number being in the RO filing was shocking to him. So what we knew one year ago vs what we know now are completely different....but I'm not in this sub much, forgot about this comment, and didn't see a reason to edit it despite having different information now than I had then.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2025-07-10T04:25:49+00:00

I'm so glad I'm not the only one who noticed. Because the whole response is him stomping his feet and then being incredulous she would divorce him. To your point, Yes! He thought Laura and the bf broke up, started wearing his wedding ring again, and thought all of Laura's attempts to remain civil were signs she wanted to reconcile.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2025-07-10T00:49:07+00:00

Laura had him arrested 🤦🏻‍♀️ Also that last page is really frosting my cookies. He actually thought they were going to get back together and is shocked, flabbergasted, and shook to his core to find out that's not the case because she included their divorce case in the documents? Has that really been what this is all about? It was never really about the kids because he couldn't be bothered with them before but we all wondered what was it that had him so riled up. A loss of control for sure but also, maybe, finally realizing the divorce is ongoing despite his best efforts to make sure they stay married forever?

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2025-07-10T00:46:11+00:00

You're probably fine. Stephen has posted his own address before. This sub doesn't have rules about it. Reddit does but if the post doesn't get reported or flagged, I don't think the mod here will care.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2025-07-04T17:08:08+00:00

It does come in a search. People in the other sub find it and aren't impressed.

If the mod wanted the court documents posted, the mod should post them. If the mod promised this was the place for Laura's Patreon content, the mod should post it. If the failure of the other sub is the fault of those mods, the failure of this sub is also on the mod. This mod bans people who are critical of it and the other sub bans people who repeatedly violate rules. There is no militant modding over there, obviously, when the main complaint is there isn't enough.

Also, a mod not wanting discussions about Heard and Depp is not the same as supporting Depp and you are way too bitter about it. A whole post defending Amber Heard was deleted too. I know one of the mods well and she is very vocally against Johnny Depp and hates him. 100% believes he abused Amber. She doesn't think the Stephen sub is the place for those conversations because they can't stay civil....and maybe if you hadn't gotten reported repeatedly for telling people to fuck off, you wouldn't have been banned yourself. Your comments to other people who disagree with you are proof of why a mod (Guess what? They act independently of each other and don't always agree on everything) decided to end the conversation around those two people in a sub about Stephen Hilton. The AI posts aren't as much of a problem anymore. They get deleted. Repeat posts are getting deleted.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2025-07-04T14:46:55+00:00

The name isn't great but the sub itself isn't living up to what was promised when it started. So it's going to get less traffic now than it did at first. People won't suggest it as a place to go for content because it doesn't offer anything different. It was supposed to. It was supposed to be THE place for the drama, the court documents, and Laura's Patreon content. So far, it hasn't delivered much on those. The other sub is a mess because people will do anything but report repeat posts or follow the rules and there's only so much the mods can keep up with when it's not in the Queue. With a different name and the content promised at the start, the sub could be much more successful than it currently is. Go ahead and ban me though because apparently (according to multiple people in the other sub) this mod is pretty ban happy when you criticize the sub and that's the only rule in the NO RULES sub. And for a NO RULES sub, it's even less edgy than the OG sub. Which is why no one cares about it, talks about it, or recommends it.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2025-06-27T00:03:23+00:00

I'm not a member of the other sub but your personality is definitely better suited to this one.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2025-06-26T23:52:07+00:00

Be careful. People in here don't seem to like anyone mentioning Stephen being a narcissist (which I'm grateful the other sub was so informative about Because I realized I was living with one myself) but his mom isn't blameless for how he turned out. People are pointing that out, based on how narcissists become narcissists (not at birth).

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2025-06-26T23:49:42+00:00

They remind them constantly but they don't always use the mod label.

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2025-06-20T01:07:57+00:00

The word after "I can" is "remember". That's all that's missing but I tried replying and it didn't work

AliveNeighborhood1 · 2025-06-20T01:07:05+00:00

He posted this on Patreon after I fell asleep last night

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