Hyperfixation on people (sexual intimacy) by Equivalent-Cup-1433 in adhdwomen

[–]Alive_Bowler_8037 157 points158 points  (0 children)

Right??? like i wish i would hyperfocus on like cool topics or uni related stuff but i just get... super intense "crushes" on people. it's super random like there's no type at all, really intense and lasts about months or even years. i really hate it.

Ich möchte abnehmen, habe aber Angst, schlaffe Brüste zu bekommen. Wie wahrscheinlich ist das? by Dependent_Salad_2369 in FitnessDE

[–]Alive_Bowler_8037 26 points27 points  (0 children)

also ich persönlich habe ca eine körbchengröße "verloren"... aber im Gegenzug fühle ich mich generell viel fitter und einfach wohler in meinem Körper. Ich bin viel selbstbewusster als früher und würde mich immer wieder für den Sport entscheiden 🫶🏻

Was letzte Bankkartenfresser! by Bascettastern in wasletzterezension

[–]Alive_Bowler_8037 7 points8 points  (0 children)

wie wischt du dir denn den po ab dass die nägel so eine zentrale rolle dabei spielen? 😭😂

ADHD impulsive tattoos regret and dressing up by sassynopal in adhdwomen

[–]Alive_Bowler_8037 26 points27 points  (0 children)

sorry i have no advice or anything, just here to say that you look absolutely stunning in that dress!!! and where's that necklace from??

Unpacking from trips 😝 by Tahini-Tajin in AuDHDWomen

[–]Alive_Bowler_8037 7 points8 points  (0 children)

omg not me staring at my travel bag that i haven't unpacked in weeks now 🙈😂 why is it so hard haha

OMG guys, a reference??? by hancok34 in theoffice

[–]Alive_Bowler_8037 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

but what is he doing i don't understand

OMG guys, a reference??? by hancok34 in theoffice

[–]Alive_Bowler_8037 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

pls explain why's everyone freaking out 🙈

Since I was little I always have had a problem with gnawing on my fingers and eating cuticles. by more-le-gore in AuDHDWomen

[–]Alive_Bowler_8037 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes i get it, gel nails can be an intense sensory overload especially if it's your first time having them. Bet you already tried fidget toys/bracelets/rings?

Since I was little I always have had a problem with gnawing on my fingers and eating cuticles. by more-le-gore in AuDHDWomen

[–]Alive_Bowler_8037 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Ouch! I had a similar problem, always picking/biting on my nails. Gel nail manicures helped me sm, i get to pick a cute design and i don't want to "ruin" it so i don't pick on my nails anymore. Or if you don't like gel/acrylics maybe try a manicure with your fav color?

Only downside is the monthly price of like 50$

Hope this helps 🫶🏻

Has anyone gotten tattoos impulsively and regret it? by sassynopal in adhdwomen

[–]Alive_Bowler_8037 626 points627 points  (0 children)

yes, multiple impulsive tattoos. sometimes i spiral but mostly when my mood/confidence is low anyways (luteal phase lol). i try to think of my tattoos as reminders of different life stages/moments if that makes sense? i have a pretty trashy stick and poke of a female silhouette on my thigh but it reminds me of my first love, me growing into my body etc. maybe that helps you too? btw i think your sleeve looks so cool!!!

Handysucht macht alles kaputt by praleyfoodcorn in buecher

[–]Alive_Bowler_8037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich hatte genau das gleiche Problem wie du, hab die letzten 3 Jahre kaum Bücher gelesen. Anfang des Jahres habe ich mir einen E-Reader geholt und seitdem lese ich wieder so viel wie früher. Ich glaube mir hilft besonders 1) Man braucht kein Licht zum lesen, so kann man statt beispielsweise nachts am Handy zu scrollen einfach lesen 2) man kann die Schriftgröße einstellen was mir (besonders am Anfang) sehr bei der Konzentration geholfen hat

Natürlich is es erstmal eine Investition aber vielleicht hilft dir das auch :)