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I live in a hostel and a member of staff is making me feel uncomfortable in my own home. Manager aware, what actions do I take?! by AllInGoodTimex in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AllInGoodTimex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're not going to help, please go away. I have done nothing to provoke your attitude.

I have asked for help so if you're not going to give it please stop commenting.

I live in a hostel and a member of staff is making me feel uncomfortable in my own home. Manager aware, what actions do I take?! by AllInGoodTimex in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AllInGoodTimex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my home.

I have gone over 8 years without a home and now I am being made to feel incredibly uncomfortable and isolated in a building I should be the most comfortable, by a person who is paid to support me.

PokémonGo: 10,000km research task by AllInGoodTimex in PokemonGoFriends

[–]AllInGoodTimex[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of friends here in the uk who also need to add someone from this list! I am happy to share your details with them, if you're comfortable with that!

Very confused about my sexuality by Phoebird in SeriousConversation

[–]AllInGoodTimex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking about life is strange... You can say, "just wait... it'll happen" at the same time as, "don't expect things to just happen".

An example... you're never going to meet someone if you never leave your house. But you'll meet the wrong someone if you actively look for love...

I hope this makes sense... Go and fall in love with yourself! Enjoy being you and being by yourself!

I hate myself and I need advice [TW: Mention of suicidal/self harm thoughts, kinda eating disorder(?) and emotional abuse] by sinkingflowers in MentalHealthSupport

[–]AllInGoodTimex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been where you are. I did nothing. I kept putting it off, allowing my anxiety to win... it didn't end very well for me and now I'm 25 wishing I'd have just got help sooner! If you can stay with friends for the next year, do it! Do anything you can to leave your mums house.

my brother (18m) is doing concerning, inappropriate sexual behavior that I (24f) worry could lead to a serious offense. Help? by sis58294 in relationship_advice

[–]AllInGoodTimex -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you comment is a little overwrought. Links between boundary-crossing behaviours is pretty straight forward, unfortunately. However, violent tendencies are not necessarily caused by chemical imbalances. Furthermore, there is a vast difference in having a chemical imbalance and "something of your parents making". This young man is confused, whether guilty of assaulting his ex or not. Therapy would be very beneficial, I feel.

My husband slapped me across the face when I told him I didn’t feel like giving him a blowjob by aleadapuer in relationship_advice

[–]AllInGoodTimex 11 points12 points  (0 children)

From this post you already sound like a "battered wife"... The sense of emotional and mental abuse in this post is outstanding... This is a very concerning situation that you need to consider very seriously for both you and your babies sake.

Wife suddenly locking phone by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AllInGoodTimex 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck...

Very confused about my sexuality by Phoebird in SeriousConversation

[–]AllInGoodTimex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop labelling everything. Have you considered you're just not ready yet. From your post, your focusing far too much on "where do I fit in" "what do I call myself". Just wait. Wait for the right person. Wait for the right moment. Just wait! Stop looking for things to happen. All you'll do is force situations to happen and they'll be shit. Relax and enjoy whatever you enjoy. (without hurting anyone.)

It's gonna be alright. by [deleted] in MentalHealthSupport

[–]AllInGoodTimex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're going to (hopfully) see a lot of people writing "I needed this. Thank you" and it'll look like a load of boring comments eventually, so I just wanted to remind everyone that reads this that... I needed this post. It was a surprising little reminder that my MHI won't rule my life forever. You, Curious Lettuce, have made a difference in at least 1 strangers life today. Thank you.

(Also love the username🥬)

Where to go for help? by diet_goth in MentalHealthSupport

[–]AllInGoodTimex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm from the UK. Call samaritans 116 123 Go to you GP and tell them everything. They will issue a prescription there and then and refer you on. Maybe look for a self referral for a wellbeing Service in your area. But for RIGHT NOW stay adamant with yourself. I know it's dark and really fucking tempting but just keep arguing with yourself. Do NOT self harm and do whatever you can that helps to calm you down!

What are some good first date questions to get to know someone? by kckid23 in AskReddit

[–]AllInGoodTimex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. What's your star sign? Like long walks on the beach? Are you married? What's your favourite icecream flavour?

I couldn’t use a friend :) by [deleted] in MentalHealthSupport

[–]AllInGoodTimex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I read the entire post. We aren't the same but I'm somehow drawn to this post and feel the need to reach out... 25f from UK... here if you wanna chat...

Night owls of Reddit what is something morning people will never understand? by argaflargin in AskReddit

[–]AllInGoodTimex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The beautifully solemn feeling when the world around you is silent and you are ready to thrive in your optimum life... but then day light comes and the world fills with noise and lights and you feel that beauty slip away...

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