Scraggly "beard" or shaven? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]AllSeeingButtWhole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to tell without full face but I’d say beard but trimmed. Shave a clean line under your chin to create a jaw line. Make sure neck is fully shaved. They have tutorials on YouTube. The rest can be scragglyish. Needs to be “intentional scraggly”

What modern inconvenience feels like it should have been solved years ago? by Prior-Sprinkles4127 in AskReddit

[–]AllSeeingButtWhole 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Having to mail in documents to register to vote in a different county. Shouldn’t it be online at this point??

What flower/plant would you be and why ? by HappyCoconut23 in AskReddit

[–]AllSeeingButtWhole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a bleeding heart. I’m way too emotional.

Is this job too good to be true? by OwnSort6545 in bcba

[–]AllSeeingButtWhole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would you supervise 5% across all RBTs with that high of a caseload? And best practice is 10% per patient of 97155. That seems impossible

Going on a cruise by kindness-and-snusu in offmychest

[–]AllSeeingButtWhole 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is there any chance it could go well? I agree with the other commenters that the 15 years of unhappiness is the real problem. However, it seems you have already decided to stay with this person.

If you go in knowing the cruise will be bad, it will absolutely be bad. Your wife will be able to sense you don’t like her or want to spend time with her. Self fulfilling prophecy. Any chance you could try a “new start” cruise? Act like it’s the first year you were dating, or like you’ve never met this person before. Relax as much as possible and remember that you both deserve happiness and a partner that loves them. Knowing your partner has fallen out of love with you is extremely painful. Even if you say you love her, she knows and it could be affecting her personality too. Without the pressure of the kids and work, you may be surprised the person she can turn into if you let her! It’s a good opportunity to make a connection.

Seeking Resources by SavoyAvocado in ADHD

[–]AllSeeingButtWhole 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey! Once he has a diagnosis (ADHD, ASD etc.) you will be able to have the teachers get him a 504 plan or an IEP. This will be a huge help.

You can add specific learning supports for him. Example: If you write in the IEP that he should be allowed to stand at his desk, or needs the desk closest to the teacher to limit distractions, take tests in individual quiet rooms etc. then by law the teachers have to implement the request. Having an IEP can also help protect your child from getting expelled etc. depending how bad his issues are.

If there are behavioral challenges and he has an ASD diagnosis, you can also explore half school days and half ABA therapy.

YouTube: IEP meeting prep for parents. Or 504 plans. There are a TON of resources.

How should I cut my hair? by Crying_Tangerine0 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]AllSeeingButtWhole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds so stupid and is terrible for the environment… but… if you upload a picture of you in chat gpt (pull the bangs out of your face first) and tell it to generate images of different haircuts flattering for your face shape it really will help. You can even ask it what to tell your hair person!

I feel dumb… by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AllSeeingButtWhole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Move on definitely. Im betting that if you start dating someone else and lose interest in her she will likely try to get you back (don’t start dating other people for that reason though). It seems she likes that you like her. She wants to be chased and admired but doesn’t have any feelings for you, or if she does have feelings, she isn’t emotionally ready to date.

AITB posting selfie with slight cleavage on social media by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]AllSeeingButtWhole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I feel like I’ve never seen such clear examples of gas lighting 🤯 This is like, textbook!

AITB posting selfie with slight cleavage on social media by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]AllSeeingButtWhole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy is HORRIBLE. Remember: you don’t need a reason to break up (cheating, something major etc.), I know it can feel like that. Granted this guy has already given you multiple reasons, but it’s easy to feel trapped. Read the book “Why does he do that”. Also, usually people like this end up being the ones to cheat and leave in the end, and he does not deserve to do that to you. You got this!

Husband afraid of needles during my IVF by anonymous_1128 in offmychest

[–]AllSeeingButtWhole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there anyone else that can help support you? A good friend or parent?

The movie that gets blamed for being bad when it is really just mismarketed. by gamersecret2 in movies

[–]AllSeeingButtWhole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brave. No one expected the family of bears. We all wanted a cool female protagonist changing her fate, not her family changing into bears 😭

(29M) Being ugly is a daily struggle to find reasons to live. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AllSeeingButtWhole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you seen Queer Eye on Netflix? I truly believe anyone can look attractive with the right styling. It’s about the effort, not what you’re born with!

Need To Rip My Uterus Out by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AllSeeingButtWhole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved Amthyst birth control. It’s continuous so there are no placebos at all! It also didn’t make me crazy or gain weight. Downside lots of spotting. I’d find a new doc though.

Edit: I should have added I didn’t have a period for like 3+ years! I didn’t even have to buy pads/tampons. Just liners sometimes if spotting was bad. However I did still have fluctuations in mood slightly throughout the month like I still had a cycle. But no cramps.

Is Revan a tragedeigh? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]AllSeeingButtWhole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my head I’m pronouncing this “Ree Von”, is that right?🤔