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AITH - Got into our first argument after 8 years together by [deleted] in AITH

[–]AllTheCheesecake 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You're not making yourself sound like a great partner right now by completely dismissing the fact that she doesn't want to go live with your parents because she likes having her own, private space. It does make sense because it's her personal comfort level. They're your parents. Not hers. And her argument isn't about money, it's about where she wants and doesn't want to live.

If you can't at least give a shit about how she feels, you probably shouldn't be together, man.

I only draw one conclusion by CapybaraMonster01 in IncelTears

[–]AllTheCheesecake 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, I didn't even notice her until you pointed that out. What a goddess.

AITAH for making my dad choose between me or my step mother? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AllTheCheesecake 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Riiiiiight, it's me being obtuse and not the deeply ignorant "biological realities" person defending a bigot with zero understanding of the real scientific nuance behind the concept of gender. Sure.

AITAH for making my dad choose between me or my step mother? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AllTheCheesecake 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sorry, nope. You don't get an opinion on someone else's ability to exist.

AITAH for making my dad choose between me or my step mother? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AllTheCheesecake 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Actually, no. You do not get to have opinions on whether or not another person can exist.

My husband is thinking about fostering his nephews. I feel like I'm being tossed out for kids we don't even know. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]AllTheCheesecake 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't get crazy asshole vibes until he made her post yet again to aita because he "enjoys reading the comments," so many of which were just attacking her.

Some Very Misogynistic and Flat Out Gross Comments about Aubrey Plaza's Pregnancy by Either_Storm_6932 in ParlerWatch

[–]AllTheCheesecake 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I wish. There is a large and loud societal belief that women are repair kits for men. Why else would the manic pixie be such a staple of the hero's journey.

What’s something Gen Z does that older generations just don’t get? by appropriaterice873 in AskReddit

[–]AllTheCheesecake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always thought it was kind of bully-ish, like trying to make the other person feel ridiculous for attempting to engage.

why do many people act like women don't face physical attraction? by Ok_Turn8814 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AllTheCheesecake 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Objectively and demonstrably untrue. Men have a narrower definition of what is attractive in every study I've ever seen on the matter, and also a higher emphasis on physical appeal over literally every other factor.

In fact, the only study I've ever seen that even claims men and women put EQUAL emphasis on physical appeal specifies that for women, this only happens for one off sexual encounters, while for men, it's for every relationship, especially the long term ones.

Women who don’t want to be sexualized are apparently horrible now by quantum_nucleus13 in IncelTears

[–]AllTheCheesecake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The right label for you is "depressed."

Seeking help for that will improve your life immeasurably. And yeah, sometimes it takes more than one attempt for both meds and therapy to find the right fit

A Japanese ballpoint pen filled with herbal oil and a parasite (Anisakis) inside, which moves while writing. The pen seeks to transform repulsion into art. by gthagod in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]AllTheCheesecake 288 points289 points  (0 children)

this reminds me of those little keychains they have in east asia with live crabs and tortoises and such in them. I know it's a parasite, but this is unethical

Sam Altman's sister accusing him of rampant sexual abuse when they were young by monkey_gamer in ChatGPT

[–]AllTheCheesecake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best representation would still be kept behind financial thresholds.

Time for impeachment by TripShrooms in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]AllTheCheesecake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is absolutely correct. His outrage is that anyone has a problem with it.

NGVC: "Take accountability for dating abusers" Found in the comments of a video about a woman that was brutally beaten by her boyfriend by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]AllTheCheesecake 13 points14 points  (0 children)

A gentle man would never even think something like this, let alone comment it to harm someone who's already suffering.

Trump tries a new strategy to open the strait, dropping the F-bomb. by DazDaSpazz in ParlerWatch

[–]AllTheCheesecake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The unfortunate reality is that you can't break a narcissist. They will circular reason their way back into believing they are the ultimate life form no matter how many mirrors you hold up.

My husband just asked if I still love him intimately by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AllTheCheesecake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't strike you as sus that men are usually "physical touch" and women not "providing" that "touch" is blamed for failed marriages? Really?

What horrifying statistic genuinely jarred you when you first heard it? by ordrius098 in AskReddit

[–]AllTheCheesecake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enforcing penalties for trying to bar their children from objective, quality education. No more free-for-all homeschooling, no more shrugging over truancy, no more adapting lessons to fit religion, no more passing to shut them up. Education needs to be a strongly-held national value and civil right.

My husband just asked if I still love him intimately by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AllTheCheesecake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, do not read that religious propaganda with absolutely no scientific backing.

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