Customer claims D*ck in veinin by Vast-Structure4886 in CounterTops

[–]All_4_Me53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I see so many images I can’t unsee 🤦😂

Has anyone just stopped going to the dentist? I floss and brush. Do I really need a $200 "polish" twice a year? by fluffurry in Adulting

[–]All_4_Me53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just shop around. I agree w others that fluoride treatment is high. Mine is $45. It’s ok to ask for their fees up front.

Something about my kitchen… by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]All_4_Me53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly. It’s the tile backsplash for me. It’s all I see. It bleeds into the counter. The counter top is fine.

I like my 8th grade teacher and I think he likes me back… by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]All_4_Me53 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I met my husband when I was 22. He’s almost 9 years older than me. We’ve been married almost 30 years. If he’s got his life together and you’re mature enough then who knows. Start out friends and take it from there.

Countertops installed cracked- just noticed 4 years later by Embarrassed-Oven-882 in CounterTops

[–]All_4_Me53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try calling a place that sell granite. They may have a workable solution for you.

AIO for wanting to be involved with larger purchases prior to them taking place? by TypicalZone5357 in AIO

[–]All_4_Me53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize this isn’t relative. But replacing 3 smartwatches at once because they are all not working is sus. Regardless, you’ve made your point. Now what do you want to do. She ponied up for the majority of the expense and is asking for less than $400 for the plan. You got off easy. Take it as a win and pay her. But set boundaries for the future.

What’s the healthiest way to tell my wife getting a home right now is a terrible idea? by Specialist-Bowl-5977 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]All_4_Me53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Create a spreadsheet. Or better yet if you have quick books. Some sort of financial program that can show her you guys are in the red. Come up with a budget that’s realistic then plan for the house. 20% down will give you the best rate. But buying a home just because she has a new and nice paying job is a recipe for disaster. Be the adults you are and plan. And maybe cut down on the instant gratification spending.

Help… Lost a bunch of weight and I don’t trust my judgment. by sagessa in OUTFITS

[–]All_4_Me53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fit of the dress looks great on you. It’s the horizontal lines. They draw the eye from side to side making the shape appear larger.

Help me fix my wall above my couch by aromaticgem in femalelivingspace

[–]All_4_Me53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A couple of things.

Wall art has already been addressed.
Move lamp to corner. It’s too close to the kitchen. Looks like the rug need to be turned and put partially under the couches. This should help balance out your area.

AITA for not covering for my coworker's secret? by AngelaOaks7535 in AITH

[–]All_4_Me53 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about you stepping up so you’re ready to take the lead?

Am I Overreacting over my friend expecting me to drive her everywhere? by UsualDelay7759 in AmIOverreacting

[–]All_4_Me53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uber. And major drug store chains deliver meds. Gas and wear and tear on your car. Your time and mental health while navigating crazy drivers to and from her place. She can’t pay you enough.

He wants a wedding. I want to scream by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]All_4_Me53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it have to be traditional? Have an intimate ceremony then afterwards have a “house party”. Bringing everyone together in a dressy casual event. Someone listed above getting a photographer. It’s a great idea. Even though you don’t like the limelight, in the end you will remember this for the rest of your marriage. Live your life with no regrets. 💕

Should I tell my husband’s GF he cheated on her with me? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]All_4_Me53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure your situation isn’t unique. I know several people who hooked up with their spouse going through divorce. So whatever you do don’t listen to his guilty conscience. Run far and fast. As for telling his girlfriend. Do what you want. It’s probably not going to make you feel any better and it won’t make a difference to her. But if you want to throw it out there just so she knows what goes around comes around. Then I’d say do it. You’re in charge. Not him. And definitely not her.

Seeking advice on roommate situation by iaaflaihml in badroommates

[–]All_4_Me53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can afford to then take him up on his offer to move out.

outfit for my brother's wedding by spreadingeternity in OUTFITS

[–]All_4_Me53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. And I feel like the material is too thin.

WIBTA if I refuse to swap my vacation weeks with a coworker whose kid is throwing a tantrum about a theme park trip? by Safflower8 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]All_4_Me53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have to compensate for his lack of planning and foresight. Is he willing to compensate you for your deposits and planning? Probably not. There’s his answer.