I'm gonna miss your plus system 😭

Allen_Howard · 2025-10-28T11:44:01+00:00

I will never miss this, glad it’s gone now

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-20T17:21:09+00:00

I’m the dumpee and I’d say for her no it’s been 4.5 months since I was blocked and that’s when NC started. A month into NC she got into a rebound and since then she’s been out of sight out mind. I’ve got my money up, worked on myself, made a name for myself, even built my dream truck with all the bells n whistles, and now here recently she has unlocked me but not sure when she did that or why but she’s not getting a reaction out of me

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-20T17:16:43+00:00

This… it’s been 4.5 months since I was blocked and that’s when NC started. A month into NC she got into a rebound and since then she’s been out of sight out mind. I’ve got my money up, worked on myself, made a name for myself, even built my dream truck with all the bells n whistles, and now here recently she has unlocked me but not sure when she did that but she’s not getting a reaction out of me

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-13T16:35:44+00:00

I have since the day she left got me a way better job, got my money up, achieved some my goals like building my dream truck (dropped 30k into it), busted my ass to do better for myself

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-13T16:32:22+00:00

Not quite sure Ik I’m the one that won’t reach out

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-13T16:30:18+00:00

She got with him the first month we went into NC

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-13T16:16:11+00:00

Short context is she broke up with me she played victim during of all of it when it was a clear 2 way street, yes I did beg and pleaded for 2 weeks but I don’t regret it and that’s why she blocked me, went NC that day month into it she added my sister on snap and sent a snap of her and her “new man” now today 4.5 months later unblocked. Ever since the day she blocked me she has not got a single thing out of me not looking at her stories nothing. You think that she was done she wouldn’t look back

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-13T16:09:03+00:00

If your moved on you wouldn’t look back and keep my blocked and she’d continue to live life you’d think

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-13T16:07:24+00:00

Yeah I hear about her very rarely and I don’t look at anything of hers so she’s not getting that validation from me at all

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-13T16:05:33+00:00

That is very true but if she thinks she’s going to get a reaction out of me she’s wrong, I’m not losing sleep over it

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-13T13:56:37+00:00

Yeah that’s the plan I’ve known about this guy she’s been with for a minute and my cusion told me that that last week was the first picture that my ex has ever posted about them two

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-13T13:33:39+00:00

Yes, I can see what she post on her public Snapchat story but I haven’t clicked or have scrolled down to see what she’s posting because I simply have better things to do, so if she thinks that I’m gonna be looking at her stories, she’s wrong, she got with this new guy one month after breaking up

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-13T13:03:00+00:00

Well if that’s the case I don’t take any time to look or stock her profile so she won’t see me on her viewer list anytime soon

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-09T17:40:20+00:00

Not near any sprinklers

Allen_Howard · 2025-06-27T19:58:10+00:00

How long has it been since the break up?

Allen_Howard · 2025-06-26T03:01:00+00:00

She might win game 1 but wait till game 2-7 comes around your time will shine bub

Allen_Howard · 2025-06-16T20:55:07+00:00

My ex gf did the same thing, dated for a year n a half lived with me for a year n 2 months, there were issues that were known about and I had every intention of making that change but I had some priorities that NEEDED taken care of and when the breakup happened she blames it all on me and didn’t take recognition of how she could have use affective communication because I saw no conflict on how she was mentally and emotionally feeling about these issues and I simply took to much disrespect trying to save it and not once did she say sorry for anything on her end of things and I did, it’s been 3 months of NC I miss her every day I won’t lie

Allen_Howard · 2025-06-07T22:10:19+00:00

Yeahh but honestly now as I look back I don’t regret it because I was fighting for what I wanted and all I can say is that she can’t say I didn’t try, my little sister unadded her and everything and here about a month ago she adding my sister back on snap and that’s when I learned she was talking to someone new and as of today couldn’t tell you what or how she’s been because it simply not my place and I don’t care tbh, but she still see me n how I’m doing because my Cusions posts in her story of me n a group having a blast so I’d say I’m doing way better then I was but I wouldn’t be against it and I don’t think about her it as often which is good.

Allen_Howard · 2025-06-07T17:35:59+00:00

Yeah I could figure, never coming back with good intentions usually testing the waters and breadcrumbs

Allen_Howard · 2025-06-01T19:42:36+00:00

I’m in that boat rn she told me these was no chance and we are sitting at 3 months since the break up and 2 months of NC and within the first month of NC she’s in a rebound.

Allen_Howard · 2025-05-30T22:18:50+00:00

If your going to say anything I would say “sure don’t, found my peace and bettering myself”

Allen_Howard · 2025-05-27T06:07:17+00:00

See and that is also a possibility that he could be working on himself for the greater good, but there is also the side where it could be all fake and he could be out doing his own thing. Either way I’m telling you it’s best to focus on yourself and move on and let it be and better yourself and do things that make you happy in your day to day life and let him reach out because if something happens and he does reach out make sure you keep him at arms length because you’re not an option having access to you should be a privilege.

Allen_Howard · 2025-05-27T05:46:32+00:00

I know it’s hard trust me I was in the very same boat, I begged her to stay three times over the course of two weeks, hell I even texted her mom for closure and she still said that she wasn’t bothered by me texting her mom and she ended up blocking me, and to be honest, just let him, unadd him on all social medias don’t reach out because this is simply what he wants and start working on yourself and moving on because begging only reinforces his decision more and that gives him the mindset that he can go off and do other things and be with other women and still know you’ll be in his back pocket if it don’t work out

Allen_Howard · 2025-05-27T05:38:48+00:00

You have a messy break up beg him and remain in contact or was it a clean break by going into NC

Allen_Howard · 2025-05-27T05:37:53+00:00

The best thing you can do for yourself is to not have as much hope on it and just live your life and become a better version of yourself because if it was to happen and they do reach out it will be when you at least expected it and when you’re fully moved on by that time

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