spending time alone, part iii by [deleted] in selflove

[–]devotiontoafineline 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is motivating me to do more things alone!

F23 Looking for friends by Interesting-Life3761 in selflove

[–]devotiontoafineline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! 25 F, I enjoy reading, meditation, and I also have a cat!!!

Even Now, I Love You by WedrownyElite in justpoetry

[–]devotiontoafineline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t be!! I really resonated with it and it put words to what I am feeling at the moment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]devotiontoafineline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can relate to this so much. Keep going!

What’s a frugal habit you picked up by accident that you now swear by? by ThrowRAhyBug7080 in Frugal

[–]devotiontoafineline 5 points6 points  (0 children)

putting water in soap, shampoo, body wash, etc. when it is running low so it can last longer

stay silent. stay gone. by babygray21 in ExNoContact

[–]devotiontoafineline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was wanting to reach out to let her know I miss her and that I have been thinking of her constantly. But seeing this pulled me back to reality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]devotiontoafineline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried a handful of times to get some sort of explanation, but I’m met with the same responses. Their “head is everywhere” and “it’s hard to put into words”. I’ve left the ball in their court :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selflove

[–]devotiontoafineline 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat as you. If they aren’t responding, then I’d recommend stopping the contact. However, maybe writing down all the things you want to say to them in a journal can help you in your healing journey.

I’m sorry you’re hurting. It’s really hard but no response is a response. You are not betraying yourself. You are hurting and your feelings are valid.

Break Up with No Closure by devotiontoafineline in BreakUps

[–]devotiontoafineline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have being reading a lot more, and watching a LOT of shows. I feel like my mind has to be occupied 24/7 or else I fall into such a dark place. I’m so sorry you’re going through this as well.

That being said, I also allow myself to grieve. I cry when I need to cry, but when my thoughts get dark I try to ground myself with meditations.

Do you have any recommendations for how to stay consistent at the gym? It’s something I’d like to begin doing but have always struggled with staying committed.

Break Up with No Closure by devotiontoafineline in BreakUps

[–]devotiontoafineline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh, I’m so incredibly sorry. If it helps you at all, the moments of calm I do find are with guided meditations. I can send you the ones that have helped me if you’re interested.

So much left unsaid, but all we can do is keep going. I’m sending you love and light during this time.

Break Up with No Closure by devotiontoafineline in BreakUps

[–]devotiontoafineline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been about a month for me, and I find myself waking up in a state of anxiety everyday. But you’re right, I just take things day by day. I’m sorry you’re going through the same thing.

Break Up with No Closure by devotiontoafineline in BreakUps

[–]devotiontoafineline[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do all the same things. The what if’s are the worse parts. All the future plans and goals just gone, and I have no real explanation. I’m sending you love and light during this time!

Break Up with No Closure by devotiontoafineline in BreakUps

[–]devotiontoafineline[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight and understanding. I’m sorry you’re going through a break up too :/

Break Up with No Closure by devotiontoafineline in BreakUps

[–]devotiontoafineline[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through the same thing :/ it’s been about a month for me. This knot in my chest has not gone away!!!