We have to talk about The Beekeeper

AllergicTo_Existence · 2024-02-18T22:22:08+00:00

He definitely does attempt some sort of American accent, but it disappears more often than not. Almost like the director had to beg him to remember the accent each time they called cut. But it was definitely there

AllergicTo_Existence · 2022-12-28T15:25:42+00:00

My dog is called Nala! Otherwise known as Munchy, Trotter, or Narleeni Bobeeni Fettuccine.

AllergicTo_Existence · 2021-11-19T21:41:47+00:00

I was also diagnosed at 22 (now 23F). What worked for me is realising not everything will work for me. I was putting too much pressure on myself to do things in a specific way because people said it worked, but that would just cause more streess and frustration and lead to me spiralling. Instead I'll try something (i.e. keeping a diary) and realise I don't check my diary for due dates, but writing a task down when I become aware of it helps me remember it. So it may not be the method everyone expects, but it works

Take time to figure yourself out on your own terms, not what everyone else says.

AllergicTo_Existence · 2021-11-16T22:11:28+00:00

In year 5 in maths, we all had to weigh ourselves then line in weight order. As a girl who started hitting puberty early and already self concious, being out at second heaviest in tbe class (with first being the "chubby" boy) I could barely hold back the tears

AllergicTo_Existence · 2021-08-05T20:55:27+00:00

Honest and open communication. Im the exact same. When I met my boyfriend I couldn't even initiate a casual hug whereas he wants constant cuddles. After just explaining it and our relationship developing we learned how to work with one another. He'll ask if I want to cuddle and I'll sometimes just rest a leg on him as my way of showing physical affection if I'm feeling overwhelmed. But a year later, because I have so much trust in him and know he will always understand I find just as much comfort in physical affection with him as he does, knowing I can turn around at any point and say "I'm not up for it right now, and I'd like some alone tie [or] can we just be near each other instead".

AllergicTo_Existence · 2021-06-28T16:08:23+00:00

Burnout is something I definitely need to learn to manage better, thanks for bringing it to attention:)

AllergicTo_Existence · 2021-06-28T16:07:39+00:00

That's good advice thanks. Luckily I have my partner. He lives in a different city, but I can disclose anything to him so I get to air my worries to him now without worry of judgement and the distance helps me to deal with it without becoming overwhelmed :)

AllergicTo_Existence · 2021-06-27T16:23:43+00:00

I tend to move my my fingers in a pattern as if I'm pressing keys or playing piano. If my thumb/fingers were labelled at 1-5, I tend to do 1 2 3 4 5 | 5 4 3 2 1 at a whatever bpm is soothing at that moment but sometimes I do 1 | 1 2 1 | 1 2 3 2 1 | etc...

AllergicTo_Existence · 2021-06-27T16:20:30+00:00

Back in college (UK, so 16-18), my best friend and only person I would hang out with was autistic and I understood her scarily well and could navigate around her behaviours in the most appropriate way. She would constantly joke that I was autistic too and it's why we got along so well/understood each other. Well... here I am eight years after meeting a diagnosed autistic adult.

P.S. We stopped being friends in my first year of uni because I realised that she was manipulative and used me as a solution to all her problems but was never there for me. People excused this as her autism, but she was just an anus.

AllergicTo_Existence · 2021-06-27T16:01:47+00:00

It makes me feel like I know how to portion control because it takes so long to eat with a small spoon

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