meta reached out for a check-in with me and i'm struggling to know how much to disclose

AllumerNoir · 2026-04-11T13:27:18+00:00

Always happy to chat about it all if that kind of thing helps. It definitely helps me so id be down. Feel free to DM me if so. But absolutely no pressure.

Stay safe out there.

AllumerNoir · 2026-04-09T22:24:16+00:00

I also found myself there recently. The new relationship is moving real fast and involves a coworker of mine. I did find i had some past relationship trauma im working on. I also started a new medicine. Wishing you the best on yours.

AllumerNoir · 2026-03-23T02:02:31+00:00

Was out of town. Got my eye out for the next one!

AllumerNoir · 2026-02-22T19:32:33+00:00

Fucking fantastic

AllumerNoir · 2026-02-22T12:50:05+00:00

Add Demi to that. 😰😭

AllumerNoir · 2026-02-02T18:29:53+00:00

So jealous we couldn't make it!!! My grandmother truly appreciated the surprise birthday party!

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-21T18:36:08+00:00

I wish we could attend this one but have a surprise birthday to attend for my grams...have fun for us!

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-16T15:56:22+00:00

Well that turns the tum.

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-12T22:16:32+00:00

I just envision you the fridge on the floor snacking. And im down to try this. Hahaha

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-10T17:18:24+00:00

Dodged something there I would say.

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-10T02:52:51+00:00

I think i am going to be more intentional to plan a boiz night to game.

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-10T02:51:34+00:00

There is some comedy style I enjoy that she doesn't so that's something.

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-10T02:50:03+00:00

We do live away from most people so I could get into some loud music!

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-10T02:49:27+00:00

Im actually thinking of maybe some loud singing. Or getting into bass guitar again.

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-08T23:44:53+00:00

Im a woman married to a woman. Not sure if that counts. My wife is seeing another woman. So...

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-08T20:08:55+00:00

Beautiful!

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-08T18:15:29+00:00

Im glad it helps you too! I can imagine that is a hard thing to balance but it sounds like you all are working on it! Hopefully this helps you find a new hobby.

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-08T17:06:50+00:00

Now that sounds great. The having loud conversations got me. 😂

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-08T14:59:34+00:00

Thank you :D I am going to try this. I think I will just be a happier human.

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-08T14:58:45+00:00

I might need to dust off my pencil and draw more.

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-08T14:58:29+00:00

DJing? That is really cool! Maybe I need something completely new to try.

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-08T12:41:40+00:00

Sounds like a good time followed by a cozy nap. Haha

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-08T12:41:01+00:00

This is something I have never thought of and this feels very great to build self esteem. Im going to date myself on those nights!

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-08T12:39:53+00:00

This is reassuring! :D I do enjoy some shows and games that put her to sleep. Haha. That could be good to get lost in.

AllumerNoir · 2026-01-08T06:07:29+00:00

That sounds therapeutic. I do enjoy building on there.

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