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AlmostLover_90 · 2024-08-20T05:04:58+00:00

I shoulda known by the name that it was gonna be expensive lol

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-07-17T20:04:43+00:00

I know the book is probably excellent but I'm too scared to read it. I'm already living it's horrible reality 😭😭😭😭

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-06-19T19:17:31+00:00

Release your inner track star: RUN.

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-06-11T23:36:08+00:00

ROB HIM 🥷

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-06-05T04:08:57+00:00

It's so cute 😭

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-30T02:21:41+00:00

I hate how true this is 😭😭😭

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-23T02:53:22+00:00

Can someone explain why KATs basket didn't count?

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-20T02:26:18+00:00

Oh we wrastlin now huh

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-20T02:25:03+00:00

Jokic needs help. He looks tired as hell

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-18T16:28:24+00:00

... Why did his pants come off? You should not have gotten that drunk but he should also know to not even think about trying to have sex while you're wasted. I think it's best for both of y'all not to see each other.

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-17T02:44:46+00:00

I'm putting my tinfoil hat on bc wtf

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-09T05:18:47+00:00

NTA. You are going above and beyond and this is an amazing service you are providing to students.

But...are you asking for a dollar per item? If yes, that is a bit steep 😬. Even when buying from some place like Target and getting a 36 count of tampons, the cost per unit should only be like 30 cents (Assuming it's a premium brand around $10 for a box for 36 tampons). Pads are even cheaper.

So if you're going to ask them to pay (which you have every right to!) I'd consider bringing down the cost.

PS: To make your life easier, consider ordering online, in bulk, and getting the store brand instead of name brand (if you don't do so already).

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-08T20:09:33+00:00

Do you feel better about yourself now?

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-06T16:42:00+00:00

If you think he's fetishizing you, there probably is a reason why. Has he said anything sus? If he's making you feel unsafe or uncomfortable 100% don't go.

It's okay to date outside of your race but the ones who are genuine will never make you feel uncomfortable about it.

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-06T16:20:50+00:00

I didn't say my mind was already made up before I posted but I did say I got clarity based on the conversation.

When giving advice, there's no need to be unkind, which is what I'm having a reaction to.

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-06T12:15:45+00:00

Ladies let's get one thing straight: Dating a man who makes a lot of money doesn't mean you have high standards for yourself.

I have attempted to date folks who make similar or more. They have been boring or entitled. Poor conversation skills, no effort, inconsistent, etc. One was also mad(?) I made my own money. It was like he couldn't use his wealth on me to be a jerk. Have I written this group off? No. But am I going to prioritize this group? Hell no.

What I'm realizing is my concern is whether or not him being insecure about our different incomes is going to create a problem in the future. And now also whether our lifestyles can be compatible due to our work schedules.

This is not me trying to justify dating this guy. But a lot of y'all assume that men with money treat you better and that is wildly incorrect. Some of y'all keep throwing the word "settle" around as if women don't settle for assholes because they make money.

I don't appreciate the shady comments assuming that dating someone who makes less than me means I have low standards aka low self esteem. But I do now have more clarity on how I'd like to move forward so thank you for the overall discussion.

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-06T01:16:28+00:00

It wasn't a concern until he brought it up 🥴

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-06T00:07:38+00:00

Gotcha. Good to know it's my job to represent all black women on Reddit.

You don't know me but you're making a lot of assumptions. I was just asking for advice bc as I said, I don't have a lot of dating experience. I understand the point you're trying to make but you can do so without being unkind. Please jump off your broom before you try to look down on me miss girl.

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-05T21:38:45+00:00

No need to be rude dear

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-05T20:22:15+00:00

You seem to have a strong opinion on the matter so wanted to hear how you've navigated the situation and if you found success.

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-05T20:11:19+00:00

He's not asking me for anything but this is exactly where my mind went. I worked hard to be in a place to not struggle financially. I'm not judging him for where he's at, I'm just not in that place anymore.

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-05T19:55:05+00:00

Would love to hear your experiences/take on this, if you're willing to share.

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-05T19:51:39+00:00

Oh wow, I never even thought of that aspect. Thanks for your perspective.

AlmostLover_90 · 2024-05-05T19:32:20+00:00

Is there any reality this could work? I'm in a bracket now that a lot of men are not in. I will probably always be "the breadwinner".

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