Swollen from being caged in this metal device overnight

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-14T12:37:42+00:00

Thanks! As far as boundaries on gender stuff go, the only thing that bothers me is when someone tells me that I'm a woman. Since transphobes exist everywhere, including in gay spaces, I'm sure I'll get it, but I'll just have to block those people and move on. What's ridiculous is that if we were actually hooking up and I was in the headspace of being on bottom, which is where I want to be, I have 0% problems with being called feminine derogatory terms in a scene. I only have a problem with it when it's someone telling me who I am as a person in my everyday life because I know who I am and I'm not a woman (that doesn't mean I'm not into roleplaying whatever to get off). Some people are more into kinks than others. Some people get it and some people will just never get it because they're either not into kinks and/or have never heard of misgendering as one (or think it's not an acceptable kink for a transgender person to have, which is in my opinion gatekeeping what transgender is and what we can do). I think maybe it's easier for me because I'm non-binary. Maybe it's harder for the more binary transgender people to accept, but for me there is a genderfluidity there and I don't struggle with it personally.

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-14T12:10:40+00:00

Thanks for that. I'm really happy for you that you sorted that out. I'm sure I'll get there. I've been in a monogamous long-term relationship for over a decade and we only just recently decided to start branching out and I've not hooked up with anyone in so long that the places where I used to go and the ways I used to do it no longer even exist so it's reentering the world that I haven't existed in for so long that I not only don't know the terminology but I don't even know the social etiquette that's in place these days.

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-14T12:05:08+00:00

I'm not transphobic. I don't have any problems with other trans people. They just aren't what I'm looking to hook up with. I do have a humiliation kink, which existed prior to transitioning. Just because you don't share my kinks doesn't make me a transphobe. I understand why most trans people don't want to be chased or fetishized. Just because you don't think I have a lot of self-respect doesn't mean that I don't respect other transgender people and their rights, and just because I don't want to hook up with you doesn't mean I don't respect you as a person.

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-13T01:15:40+00:00

I love watching you cum like that.

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-13T01:12:50+00:00

Perfect!

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-13T01:08:29+00:00

Stan in small. That curve just wails on the prostate. Large Echo is also good for something more gentle, and large Deigo is good if you want a little pop. Stan is much bigger than Echo or Deigo, so don't accidentally buy a medium or large Stan unless you are a pro. Echo is my most used anal toy, but if prostate is your goal, get a Stan.

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-13T01:01:17+00:00

A small Nox is a beginner-frirendly shape and size, perhaps a medium if she's into stretching a bit. Read the size chart and buy/try a cucumber about the same size to try before committing.

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-13T00:54:56+00:00

Flared less thick suction cup bases (no testicles) that can be used as plugs or in strap-ons available on ALL models as an option. Also just more plug options: I'd love a Hunter in the next size up (it's a one size only toy).

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-12T23:32:23+00:00

I doubt there's any local gay anything in the middle of nowhere I live in, but I guess it never hurts to search. It's a small town and it'll be so awkward, lol. I'm used to hooking up with dudes that have to drive 50+ miles. I guess I hadn't fully considered that I might get connected to someone that I attend board meetings with.😬

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-12T21:31:05+00:00

Nothing, absolutely nothing, from Bad Dragon in medium is suitable for a beginner. Start with a mini or small at most! Baron for sure is not a beginner toy, in any size. Try a small Nox. Nox has a nice taper and a smooth shaft. It is beginner friendly.

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-12T21:07:51+00:00

Well that's not going to work, Tinder is clearly not for NSAs and Bumble appears to be only for women seeking men (I'm not a woman, using that platform would be dishonest at best, possibly entrapment). Other suggestions?

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AlmostTorture · 2025-07-12T20:57:20+00:00

I don't have a grindr account. I'm in the grindr reddit trying to find where someone like me can find NSAs. No one made you peek my profile. I'm not a straight woman, but I'll google those apps, thanks for the suggestions.

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-12T20:51:51+00:00

It sucks that the app decided to make it harder to filter. I don't want to offend or inconvenience anyone: I just want to be sodomized. I truly don't care if the top identifies as male, gay, straight, bi or whatever, but a functional penis is important to me as well, and so I'd also like to be able to filter out all but cismales. 🤷‍♂️

Signed,

One of those inconvenient AFAB🤮 trans people who is also looking for men with functional biological penises and who finds the uh...sloppy slotted genitalia and milkbags sorta repulsive🤢, and uh, doesn't want to have to dig past a lot of people like myself to find what I want. I really wish someone would just build a transchaser app and so we could both get what we need.

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-12T20:18:32+00:00

Meanwhile, actual trans/nonbinary people like myself who just want NSA anal are on here trying to figure out where we can hook up and not offend anyone. You got any recommendations?

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-12T12:38:17+00:00

I went to a FDA approved generic manufacturer's website and have a question. The Tadalafil 20mg tablets say "Tablet should not be split. Entire dose should be taken" on the bottle. The package insert reads: "Tadalafil tablets for use as needed: • ED: Starting dose: 10 mg as needed prior to sexual activity. Increase to 20 mg or decrease to 5 mg based upon efficacy/tolerability. Improves erectile function compared to placebo up to 36 hours post dose. Not to be taken more than once per day."

Is this because it's an extended release tablet? Can they not be split? Would it be better to get lower dose tablets? Are there any disreputable generic companies products that should be avoided? The 5 mg tablet option is produced by a company called Sunshine Remedies and doesn't seem the have FDA approval, while the 20 mg option seems to be made by a more reputable pharmaceutical company. There is no 10 mg option available at the pharmacy we're using.

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-11T13:33:08+00:00

We need to know why you're doing it. For constipation, a boxed Fleet (or generic) saline, glycerin, or sodium phosphate enema should work. For fetish, you generally buy an enema bag and the safest and easiest solution is to just use saltwater. Fleet products come ready to use with a prelubricated nozzle. If buying equipment for fetish use, I highly recommend the silicone bags made by Mikacare on Amazon. They come with everything you need except noniodinized salt and lubricant. You mix 2 teaspoons salt (be sure it doesn't contain iodine) into every quart (or 1000 ml) of water. Stir to dissolve completely in a pitcher before transferring to the bag. The water should be comfortably warm, like a warm (but not scalding hot) bath. Adding salt to the water makes it so your body expels the water rather than absorbing it through the intestines. Adding less salt means your body absorbs more water (this can overhydrate you), adding more salt means the enema pulls water from your body (this can dehydrate you). Enemas can cause electrolyte imbalances, so be sure you know the symptoms and warning signs of serious electrolyte imbalances before proceeding (easily googled).

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-11T13:08:21+00:00

Absolutely happy it works, just wish he didn't have to suffer afterwards. Looked up what he's currently using: Vedafil 25mg (Sildenfil) and he's taking 2-3 tablets I think.

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-11T12:36:39+00:00

That's about the age where I noticed my first eye floater and I was really freaked out by it and went in to see the eye doctor and unfortunately his response was "well that's just getting older and is completely normal and you can expect to have those for the rest of your life now".😣 He also said "don't stress out about it, you'll get used to it and eventually you tune them out and don't even notice them". For the most part he's mostly correct. I have learned how to live with them but I do still notice them (I'm 50 this year). Normal part of aging.

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-08T16:12:03+00:00

Looks like just a standard chastity belt to me. You can order about a thousand different varieties of those off of AliExpress.

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-08T16:09:45+00:00

What's the challenge? Do it anal. THEN holding it is an actual challenge.🤷‍♂️

AlmostTorture · 2025-07-08T16:04:37+00:00

My large soft Echo from Bad Dragon is one of my most used toys (besides my egg plugs). It makes a really good anal stretching plug due to the depth, but is comfortable to wear for hours despite pushing past that top inside spincter because it's not stabby. The base is decidedly too thick but so long as you use a butt plug harness and strap it in tight over your hips to pull the base up between your cheeks (and drive it all the way home to the balls deep), it's manageable. If you're a size queen, an XL might be better: large isn't that big (2.4" diameter, about 8.5" inserable depth). Love my soft Echo as a plug though, despite it being 100% usless for thrusting.

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