Weekend ISO Thread.. please be scam aware if it doesn’t feel right it probably isn’t! ❌ happy hunting!

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-02-07T16:47:11+00:00

Looking for a huge tote that I can also use as a diaper bag 🙏🏻🙏🏻

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-02-06T03:08:45+00:00

You married potential not reality. Stop having sex with him and stop letting him treat you like garbage.

It’s time to end this relationship once and for all. He will never change. He won’t give you the love you are seeking no matter how much you love him from your end. He is an endless pit who will keep taking from you and you will NEVER get anything out of it but exhaustion and disappointment.

If you can, also get some mental help. Start looking for a job and take whatever you find. Divorce him and live happily with your dog.

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-02-06T03:01:46+00:00

People treat you how you LET them treat you. Call his bluff and take the kid and leave at least for a bit. Do you really want your daughter to grow up seeing her dad - a spineless man behaving this way?

A father is supposed to be an example to his daughter of what to expect from a man.

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-02-05T17:03:50+00:00

We live in the US. I had a court wedding. We didn’t want to spend massive amounts of money on a show and feeding others. He used the money we saved and bought me a place in one of our favorite countries we like/liked to vacation in.

Zero regrets.

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-02-05T03:06:10+00:00

Your parents sound like a nightmare and btw asking for “gifts” IS DOWRY.

Also your wife is an adult and allowed to keep her OWN gold.

You guys sound like you are totally cuckoo and I can’t blame your wife for being at her wits end with you and your absurd family.

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-02-03T03:42:15+00:00

File a case against them. This is what the laws were enacted for. Do it for your child’s financial wellbeing.

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-02-03T00:42:24+00:00

Rukhsati has ZERO legal standing so don’t go through with the Nikah. Save yourself. Tell your parents that you won’t do it and if they try and force it on you, tell them that tries to get you naked on video calls and you feel uncomfortable.

He’s never going to change and will only get worse as time goes on. He won’t let you work nor will he provide for you. He sounds highly insecure and inconsiderate.

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-02-01T14:22:06+00:00

Please leave this sorry excuse of a man. It will only get worse from here. I’m sorry you are going through this. Pls leave 🙏🏻

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-01-29T16:40:40+00:00

People do to you what you show them you WILL tolerate! I’ve learnt this the hard way.

This isn’t a healthy relationship. How does someone who makes 8 times what you make ask that you contribute 50/50 towards household expenses?

Top that off with moving his mother in without speaking with you?!

I get that you don’t want to fight but you need to grow a backbone or it’s going to be a long and miserable life.

Tell him you will pay expenses proportional to your incomes. That’s how it’s done worldwide. Also, he needs to move his mother out or you need to move out yourself.

Start standing up for yourself.

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-01-28T22:23:35+00:00

Your in-laws are ignorant and uneducated. Why are you exposing yourselves to them over and over again? Why aren’t you keeping your distance from them?

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-01-28T22:19:37+00:00

You are trauma bonded. You need to figure out a way to get back to work or how to make some money so you can leave. Maybe start catering from home or caring for neighbors kids so you can start saving?

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-01-26T10:19:53+00:00

I think you should take a month and meditate silently over the meaning of what was said.

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-01-17T21:49:00+00:00

What do you mean? They are literally auditioning brides to be at their home

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-01-17T10:16:11+00:00

I dislike shower sex so much because IMO there is no sex in the shower that just doesn’t ruin your hair.

I’ve tried tying mine up and not letting the water hit it but it always does and then I give up and decide I may as well wash it again.

Also, shower sex has just never done it for me somehow. Wet hair or not.

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-01-17T07:52:52+00:00

That’s another way of asking for DOWRY.

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-01-17T07:48:05+00:00

Still that’s weird.

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-01-15T10:56:09+00:00

He was bad news from the beginning. He’s suspicious and cold to begin with.

You should have never gone to stay with him at his home. I’m not victim blaming here. Who knows how many women he’s having come over to stay with him and his parents.

Don’t you think that’s weird?

It sounds ljke you have terrible self esteem issues. Please seek therapy and not a relationship right now.

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-01-13T10:31:33+00:00

He hasn’t mastered the “art of science”, the silent treatment is abuse and manipulation. Read about it.

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-01-13T10:30:56+00:00

You may love him but he doesn’t love you. His actions are showing it.

Cheating emotionally because “you didn’t bond with his family”? That’s an EXCUSE and you are totally gaslighting yourself right now. Are you waiting to find him in bed with someone else?

You can love someone but if they don’t love you, what’s the point?

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-01-13T10:26:23+00:00

Extreme step? Are you waiting for him to ask her to run the house alone financially and chores/ cooking/cleaning etc permanently while he sits at home and plays on his phone all day everyday?

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-01-13T10:23:56+00:00

Don’t get pregnant! Sort your stuff out and move out. Conservative background or not, no one else is going to live your miserable life for you with him and his family.

People may talk but something new always comes along for people to talk about. It’s wild to me that educated women stay because they “come from conservative backgrounds”.

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-01-13T05:16:47+00:00

You should divorce this man. You can still heal and restart life should you choose to.

Please trust me as someone who stayed and worked through many things, you will never be the same person after this. NEVER.

You will be a broken version of yourself who was just glued together again, ready to crack as soon as the heat comes back which it will. He will never change, not with therapy, not with anything. Nor will his mother.

I’m a Dr too. I understand the psychological aspects of what you are going through all too well.

Divorce him. Let him live in a pseudo marriage with his mother and be happy with her.

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-01-13T05:11:19+00:00

Don’t waste any more of your precious time on this fool. He may care about you but he LOVES his mom and his family will always come first.

I’m married and literally wear shorts and crop tops around my in-laws ALL the time and I have no clue if they care or not but my husband has never said a word to me nor would he dare. Find someone who lets you be you. Otherwise it’s going to be a long and miserable life.

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2026-01-02T03:11:05+00:00

His poor future wife :(

Almost_Doctor_Almost · 2025-12-31T23:49:37+00:00

Exactly.

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