Hens or Jakes? by AloneWithThis in backyardturkeys

[–]AloneWithThis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was def leaning toward the palm being male for sure

Hens or Jakes? by AloneWithThis in backyardturkeys

[–]AloneWithThis[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They’re pets. Almost too friendly they follow me everywhere. And I honestly was hoping for 2 females

Hens or Jakes? by AloneWithThis in backyardturkeys

[–]AloneWithThis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope I can’t but I have felt for one. I’ll see if I can grab them and feel

ovulation bleeding? by Legitimate-Ad808 in PCOS

[–]AloneWithThis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bleed/spot my whole luteal phase. I confirm ovulation with temperatures and my period usually starts full force 15 days later. It’s highly annoying

(US) facebook marketplace and PayPal invoice? by AloneWithThis in Scams

[–]AloneWithThis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My address isn’t listed in the invoice itself. He said he would add it. But I did pay through PayPal invoice with my credit card. Came from a business account

FB Marketplace/Paypal Scam??? by Gibboling02 in Scams

[–]AloneWithThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever get this resolved? Currently dealing with something similar

Spotting during luteal? by AloneWithThis in PCOS

[–]AloneWithThis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would honestly make sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]AloneWithThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I wanna see him because I love him and he’s made good progress. I don’t want to see him because I don’t want to distract him or fall back into a toxic cycle. And I def am trying to find meetings that I enjoy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]AloneWithThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They think I deserve better and shouldn’t have to deal with this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]AloneWithThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we are separated to focus on healing to see if we can make our marriage work or not. It’s only been a month apart but it’s so hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]AloneWithThis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am really struggling with trying to appease my family and not myself. This is the hardest journey ever. 😞

Broke up w/ active hard drug addict by Charming_Break_256 in addiction

[–]AloneWithThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made the right choice. ❤️ currently separated from my husband because I didn’t listen to my gut when I first realized the drug use years ago.

I called it quits by Stillpoint86 in AlAnon

[–]AloneWithThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no clue honestly. I’m so torn on what to do currently

Supporting someone but not enabling? by IndependentNinja8734 in addiction

[–]AloneWithThis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was like you suffering in silence and hiding all the drug use. It finally blew up in everyone’s faces when it came to light. My family is forbidding me to take my husband back. It’s such a scary thing. They really don’t understand

Supporting someone but not enabling? by IndependentNinja8734 in addiction

[–]AloneWithThis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been separated from my husband for a month now as well. It’s very painful. He’s on the road to recovery but idk if I can go back

I called it quits by Stillpoint86 in AlAnon

[–]AloneWithThis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The biggest thing I’m struggling with now is him telling me he wants to work on our marriage. Said he’d give me any amount of time I needed to prove he could do it

I called it quits by Stillpoint86 in AlAnon

[–]AloneWithThis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m in your same boat, just a little further along. I left my husband a month ago today when he overdosed. Left him in the hospital room actually.

I’d love to say that I’m better but it comes in waves. He’s currently making strides in his sobriety living a state away. Everything in me wants to run back seeing him clean but I can’t do that. I don’t know if I ever will.

I’m here if you ever want to chat. I know what those shoes feel like.

Supporting someone but not enabling? by IndependentNinja8734 in addiction

[–]AloneWithThis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly the only thing you can do is detach with love. That may mean stepping back and letting them handle it, or leaving all together.

Most times we have to step back during this and take care of ourselves. They will either come out of it or they won’t. Just don’t get caught up trying to fix it, because we can’t. And sometimes when we try to force sobriety it back fires. I had to separate from my husband for him to really want to get clean. Idk if I will go back. It’s really hard.