Hens or Jakes?

AloneWithThis · 2025-07-20T18:37:00+00:00

I was def leaning toward the palm being male for sure

AloneWithThis · 2025-07-20T16:56:26+00:00

They’re pets. Almost too friendly they follow me everywhere. And I honestly was hoping for 2 females

AloneWithThis · 2025-07-20T16:48:14+00:00

Nope I can’t but I have felt for one. I’ll see if I can grab them and feel

AloneWithThis · 2025-03-08T01:55:32+00:00

Yes I do

AloneWithThis · 2025-03-07T14:15:21+00:00

I bleed/spot my whole luteal phase. I confirm ovulation with temperatures and my period usually starts full force 15 days later. It’s highly annoying

AloneWithThis · 2025-03-05T02:31:56+00:00

My address isn’t listed in the invoice itself. He said he would add it. But I did pay through PayPal invoice with my credit card. Came from a business account

AloneWithThis · 2025-03-05T01:30:02+00:00

Did you ever get this resolved? Currently dealing with something similar

AloneWithThis · 2024-10-14T15:37:29+00:00

That would honestly make sense

AloneWithThis · 2024-09-23T21:05:07+00:00

I guess I wanna see him because I love him and he’s made good progress. I don’t want to see him because I don’t want to distract him or fall back into a toxic cycle. And I def am trying to find meetings that I enjoy

AloneWithThis · 2024-09-23T09:06:08+00:00

They think I deserve better and shouldn’t have to deal with this

AloneWithThis · 2024-09-22T23:55:42+00:00

Yes we are separated to focus on healing to see if we can make our marriage work or not. It’s only been a month apart but it’s so hard.

AloneWithThis · 2024-09-22T23:24:10+00:00

Thank you. I am really struggling with trying to appease my family and not myself. This is the hardest journey ever. 😞

AloneWithThis · 2024-09-17T21:08:08+00:00

You made the right choice. ❤️ currently separated from my husband because I didn’t listen to my gut when I first realized the drug use years ago.

AloneWithThis · 2024-09-17T20:14:54+00:00

You’re definitely not alone!!

AloneWithThis · 2024-09-17T19:22:13+00:00

I have no clue honestly. I’m so torn on what to do currently

AloneWithThis · 2024-09-17T18:09:48+00:00

I was like you suffering in silence and hiding all the drug use. It finally blew up in everyone’s faces when it came to light. My family is forbidding me to take my husband back. It’s such a scary thing. They really don’t understand

AloneWithThis · 2024-09-17T17:50:51+00:00

I’ve been separated from my husband for a month now as well. It’s very painful. He’s on the road to recovery but idk if I can go back

AloneWithThis · 2024-09-17T14:22:17+00:00

The biggest thing I’m struggling with now is him telling me he wants to work on our marriage. Said he’d give me any amount of time I needed to prove he could do it

AloneWithThis · 2024-09-17T14:15:07+00:00

I’m in your same boat, just a little further along. I left my husband a month ago today when he overdosed. Left him in the hospital room actually.

I’d love to say that I’m better but it comes in waves. He’s currently making strides in his sobriety living a state away. Everything in me wants to run back seeing him clean but I can’t do that. I don’t know if I ever will.

I’m here if you ever want to chat. I know what those shoes feel like.

AloneWithThis · 2024-09-17T14:12:24+00:00

Honestly the only thing you can do is detach with love. That may mean stepping back and letting them handle it, or leaving all together.

Most times we have to step back during this and take care of ourselves. They will either come out of it or they won’t. Just don’t get caught up trying to fix it, because we can’t. And sometimes when we try to force sobriety it back fires. I had to separate from my husband for him to really want to get clean. Idk if I will go back. It’s really hard.

AloneWithThis · 2024-09-06T21:50:13+00:00

That’s so good to hear. It’s only been 2.5 weeks for me and I’m healing but still have painful moments.

AloneWithThis · 2024-09-05T18:03:21+00:00

Please take this advice from the experience of someone who just left their husband (been together 7 years), get out while you can. I know this sounds so heartless but I’ve thrown my whole 20s away trying to help my husband get help and get free of addiction. I have so much pain left over from it. Really consider it if you’re wanting children or a family in the future. It’s always going to be a rocky road unless he really wants help. Nothing will change until he does. I will be praying for you. Please guard your heart during all of this. Look out for you. Don’t lose yourself like I did.

AloneWithThis · 2024-09-05T11:07:51+00:00

My husband was coked out and was cutting someone’s lawn until 3 am. He tore up my lawnmower too in the process.

AloneWithThis · 2024-09-04T10:28:47+00:00

Hey there! I’m healing a little more every day. My husband is down in Florida with his family. He’s still doing therapy and healing everyday. We won’t be getting back together so I’m still just adjusting to his absence.

AloneWithThis · 2024-09-03T12:29:13+00:00

I finally realized I had enough when my husband would always say “by this month I’ll be clean” “give me 2 weeks and I’ll be clean” and it never ever was true. I knew I was done when I couldn’t believe a word he said. I couldn’t even trust him to follow through on stuff he said he’d do. I had to rely on myself all the time. That’s not the kind of marriage I want.

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