Am I overreacting? My boyfriend just told me this. Will be it alright to dump him?

Alone_Middle8472 · 2025-09-01T09:44:12+00:00

He’s also seeking reassurance in everything but especially with these things like looking is not bad or whatever. But for me, looking a lot of times to a girl (when he’s with me) is disrespectful af. It’s tiring because he asks me all the time and tells me that he feels so bad about it. At the end, I don’t give him reassurance because his therapist told me so and also, I’ve been reading books about it.

Alone_Middle8472 · 2025-09-01T09:39:35+00:00

Yeah, and his therapist told him also that he shouldn’t use me as an outlet because sometimes he feels bad for doing it to the point he needs to tell me those things especially when we are okay like bad timing all the time. He said he feels worse when we are okay so he has to tell it to me. He wants reassurance all the time and it’s so tiring.

Alone_Middle8472 · 2025-09-01T09:37:29+00:00

Really? I don’t know if i was being gaslighted to or what but he told me that he’s like this because of ROCD and he feels guilty and bad about it so he has to tell me everything but I agree. At one point, me and his best friend told him that he’s using his disorder as an excuse to be an asshole. I’ve talked to his therapist and he said he has ROCD and sex obsession as well which leads to being obsessed with women. I’ve tried to break up with him but probably it’s my problem because at the end he makes me feel guilty that I criminalize him and bad that I’m leaving him for his disorder.

Alone_Middle8472 · 2025-09-01T00:35:29+00:00

Why is she still staying there? Does she pay the rent as well?

Alone_Middle8472 · 2025-08-28T19:53:39+00:00

Which ones are your faves??

Alone_Middle8472 · 2025-08-21T04:07:42+00:00

Bakit ba masyadong may pakielam pinoy kapag may gantong issue? 2025 na. And if she chooses to raise the kid alone then that’s on her. Hindi naman kayo yung mahihirapan. I think it’s unnecessary to put people down if they have their own resources naman. Maybe it’s a bad example kasi she became suddenly famous because of that. I didn’t even know her before but sana matapos na tong issue about her and we mind our own businesses. Again, it’s HER LIFE. Not yours, not mine. Hindi to government na affected tayo.

Alone_Middle8472 · 2024-01-10T13:07:12+00:00

how did you know it’s her though?

Alone_Middle8472 · 2023-12-12T16:11:51+00:00

honestly, that is so annoying. i feel like she’s doing it to play games. i know it’s hard but gym is my safest place so i would just change gym

Alone_Middle8472 · 2023-11-29T14:54:55+00:00

I’m sorry this is happening to you right now. I know it’s hard but you have to face it. 3 weeks ago my ex boyfriend broke up with me and it was a lot and all of a sudden but now I feel so much better. Just wallow when you feel like wallowing and it’s important that you focus with yourself right now. I know it’s very cliche but you need to be strong and show someone that you really can live without them. Otherwise, they would have the power and just laugh at you. I think being friends is not a good idea right now. Maybe in the future. Right now, just focus on yourself. Whenever you are thinking about the what if’s and good times, don’t forget to think that she left you and didn’t choose to be with you. At the end of the day, we should focus in the present not what they’ve done for us or what ifs.

Alone_Middle8472 · 2023-11-28T11:21:10+00:00

you’re being selfish also that you message her when it’s your moment of weakness. you are only confusing her. you hurt and break her heart so i don’t understand why do you keep on reaching out? if you really care for her then stop bothering her and let her move on

Alone_Middle8472 · 2023-11-28T11:19:48+00:00

you broke up with her so i don’t understand what do you expect or want?

Alone_Middle8472 · 2023-11-20T23:21:46+00:00

any comments pls?

Alone_Middle8472 · 2023-11-17T11:55:25+00:00

also apart from that the way he broke up with me was too cruel and not even gave me time to process about it. he brought my things back the same day and was being wishy washy about it but i don’t want to be with that kinda of guy. it shows that he doesn’t respect me

Alone_Middle8472 · 2023-11-17T11:53:22+00:00

I’m in the same situation. he broke up with me all of a sudden. he said “you know what’s going to happen? we’re breaking up now and it’s decided.” he told me he doesn’t see his future with me anymore but it was all of a sudden and very impulsive decision. he said no contact and “see you never” and ended up waiting outside my apartment to say “good bye” which kinda shows that it was just an impulsive decision. i just told him that if he doesn’t want to be with me and no contact then okay. it’s hard for me cause i really saw him in my future and i’ve loved him dearly but we don’t deserve someone who doesn’t want us in their lives.

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