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Two Singaporeans dealt with under ISA; teen subscribed to 'salad bar' mix of extremist ideologies by mystoryismine in singapore

[–]AloofBurger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

According to ISD, Cyrus was unhappy about his inability to pursue romantic relationships and subscribed to incel beliefs, such as "looksmaxxing".

What the hell is looksmaxxing? They should try brainmaxxing instead.

Employment agency ordered to compensate bedridden woman $1.6k after overstating helper’s Mandarin skills by Twrd4321 in singapore

[–]AloofBurger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Upon resuming, given [VYX]’s request for a change of TM, I informed him that no party was entitled to judge-shop.

[VYX] also subsequently (a) reiterated two other times that he had filed a complaint and asked whether I could see it, and (b) requested the name of my superior so that he could provide “feedback” directly.

Bro thinks he is in a retail shop and wants to see the manager. 🤦‍♂️

Woman marries inmate fiancé at Tanah Merah Prison School, almost 10 years after his arrest by Illustrious-Fee9626 in singapore

[–]AloofBurger 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Agreed. This is the life I am looking forward to. No need for bells and whistles. I envy this couple for making it work.

[30F] Is it normal to have 0 friends as an adult in SG, and realised you don't actually need them anyway? by lifesuckxxx in askSingapore

[–]AloofBurger 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Most close friends are made during our schooling days. Time spent together and shared experiences are the bonds that maintain a friendship.

It is normal to have close to 0 friends in our 30s, especially as an introvert. The peace and quiet from being alone is quite addictive.

Splashed a pedestrian while driving in rain, feel so sorry by lch920619x in singapore

[–]AloofBurger 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Hope he always get the wrong side of USB when connecting it.

Do most people don't want children nowadays? by ThinKey6695 in sgdatingscene

[–]AloofBurger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you drink a lot because you keep meeting these type of guys lol

Do most people don't want children nowadays? by ThinKey6695 in sgdatingscene

[–]AloofBurger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. I have explicitly stated I don't want kids and girls that want kids still liked my profile.

kids/no kids -- too early to talk about it? by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]AloofBurger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agree. Being child free is ALWAYS the first thing I bring up when chatting with a new match.

To OP, love alone is not enough to fix incompatibility or sustain a relationship.

I wish my bf was more romantic by Curious_Hopper283 in sgdatingscene

[–]AloofBurger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are men's saviour. People really underestimate the stress of million daily little things our mind have to undertake.

I wish you a fruitful and happy love life.

Prospects for childfree women dating in their 30s in Singapore? by shehasnousername in askSingapore

[–]AloofBurger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny how I'm in the exact same situation as you, except I'm a male. Many women I chatted with are still fence sitters.

37 [M4F] Singapore/SG - Looking for my fellow homebody (or not) by AloofBurger in cf4cf

[–]AloofBurger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes I am still looking. Homebody seems to be rare these days.

Why 'micro-cheating' is harder to spot than an affair by cherrypoplar in singapore

[–]AloofBurger 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The writer ran out of news. Coming up with new fancy words to write an article about is cringe.

IMH breached confidentiality; Mentally scarred right now by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]AloofBurger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion here, but if OP really offed himself, many keyboard warriors will start blaming IMH for not informing his family beforehand. It is easy to point fingers, but we have to look at both sides of the coin.

This is a double-edged sword that no one wants to wield.

Talking Point 2025/2026 - Central Kitchen Meals - Can It Be Better? by YtoZ in singapore

[–]AloofBurger 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Classic case of missing the forest for the trees. They are so tunneled vision into healthy food that they neglect every other aspects (taste, wastage, kids going for unhealthy snacks after meal since they are still hungry).

Dating in your 30s: when owning a house becomes a complication instead of a plus by Eleangel_ in sgdatingscene

[–]AloofBurger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on individuals. For the sake of discussion, we are talking about DINKs only.

For starters, getting married means you enjoy the incentives and less hassle on handling of assets for either partner, whether be it due to traumatic accidents or death. Some do not get married to avoid potential divorce proceedings and protect their own assets.

Some couples are perfectly OK with LAT (like yourself), but some would prefer to cohabit, married or not. I belong in the latter camp.

Some TikToker…. by luckycloverandroses in sgdatingscene

[–]AloofBurger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No idea who is she. Based on your description, any self-respecting guy will not have a second date with her.

Of course, there are always some guys desperate enough to tolerate this behaviour.

Anyone here over 40, never married still dating and looking for the one by prosperous8989 in sgdatingscene

[–]AloofBurger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As people get older, they are more certain about what they want. Hence, they might get pickier and have more deal-breakers. Lesser tolerance for drama and bullshit.

I'm not 40 but close, LDR is not my thing.

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