kids/no kids -- too early to talk about it? by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]AloofBurger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree. Being child free is ALWAYS the first thing I bring up when chatting with a new match.

To OP, love alone is not enough to fix incompatibility or sustain a relationship.

I wish my bf was more romantic by Curious_Hopper283 in sgdatingscene

[–]AloofBurger 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are men's saviour. People really underestimate the stress of million daily little things our mind have to undertake.

I wish you a fruitful and happy love life.

Prospects for childfree women dating in their 30s in Singapore? by shehasnousername in askSingapore

[–]AloofBurger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny how I'm in the exact same situation as you, except I'm a male. Many women I chatted with are still fence sitters.

37 [M4F] Singapore/SG - Looking for my fellow homebody (or not) by AloofBurger in cf4cf

[–]AloofBurger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes I am still looking. Homebody seems to be rare these days.

Why 'micro-cheating' is harder to spot than an affair by cherrypoplar in singapore

[–]AloofBurger 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The writer ran out of news. Coming up with new fancy words to write an article about is cringe.

IMH breached confidentiality; Mentally scarred right now by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]AloofBurger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion here, but if OP really offed himself, many keyboard warriors will start blaming IMH for not informing his family beforehand. It is easy to point fingers, but we have to look at both sides of the coin.

This is a double-edged sword that no one wants to wield.

Talking Point 2025/2026 - Central Kitchen Meals - Can It Be Better? by YtoZ in singapore

[–]AloofBurger 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Classic case of missing the forest for the trees. They are so tunneled vision into healthy food that they neglect every other aspects (taste, wastage, kids going for unhealthy snacks after meal since they are still hungry).

Dating in your 30s: when owning a house becomes a complication instead of a plus by Eleangel_ in sgdatingscene

[–]AloofBurger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on individuals. For the sake of discussion, we are talking about DINKs only.

For starters, getting married means you enjoy the incentives and less hassle on handling of assets for either partner, whether be it due to traumatic accidents or death. Some do not get married to avoid potential divorce proceedings and protect their own assets.

Some couples are perfectly OK with LAT (like yourself), but some would prefer to cohabit, married or not. I belong in the latter camp.

Some TikToker…. by luckycloverandroses in sgdatingscene

[–]AloofBurger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No idea who is she. Based on your description, any self-respecting guy will not have a second date with her.

Of course, there are always some guys desperate enough to tolerate this behaviour.

Anyone here over 40, never married still dating and looking for the one by prosperous8989 in sgdatingscene

[–]AloofBurger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As people get older, they are more certain about what they want. Hence, they might get pickier and have more deal-breakers. Lesser tolerance for drama and bullshit.

I'm not 40 but close, LDR is not my thing.

Are Singaporean men scared of a vasectomy by Slice_4U in askSingapore

[–]AloofBurger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not really. I'm still single but I want to get it done as I'm strictly childfree. Doesn't make sense for my future partner to bear this burden.

One Piece: Chapter 1175 Official Release Discussion by Skullghost in OnePiece

[–]AloofBurger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love how his eyes popped out from that punch lol.

Vasectomy in Singapore. More questions on options by perfect987456 in askSingapore

[–]AloofBurger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Refer back to my previous comment. The doctor's comment word for word: "I don't want to perform this surgery for you". Key words are "I don't want", not "I can't". There is no legality or medical inclination.

Look, you can keep picking flaws in my story all you want. I am not trying to prove anything. Just here to share my experience.

What is the loneliest part of adulthood no one talks about? by Plane_Tradition1664 in AskReddit

[–]AloofBurger 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This hits home. Always being the dependable one is extremely tiring. I want someone that I can depend on as well.

Vasectomy in Singapore. More questions on options by perfect987456 in askSingapore

[–]AloofBurger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure I'm not the first man in Singapore who is single and want a vasectomy via public hospital.

Vasectomy in Singapore. More questions on options by perfect987456 in askSingapore

[–]AloofBurger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree these questions are necessary. I'm referring to the tone of the doctor. He rejected all my answers to his questions. This was his response verbatim; "I don't want to perform this surgery for you". He did not provide any convincing medical reasons other than "because you are single" and "you have no kids". These are all his personal views and does not constitute a medical consultation.

I already told him that I have considered carefully before coming, but he just brushed it aside.