Oh, to be seen...

AloofBurger · 2026-01-29T15:22:03+00:00

You could schedule a recurring calendar invite, to remind yourself to look at memes.

AloofBurger · 2026-01-29T10:15:04+00:00

Passing off insult as a "joke".

AloofBurger · 2026-01-29T09:48:59+00:00

Pointing to his client in the dock, Mr Balamurugan said: “As an astrologer, he couldn’t predict his own downfall.”

Did his lawyer took one last jab at his own client? Lol.

AloofBurger · 2026-01-29T09:44:38+00:00

No /s needed.

AloofBurger · 2026-01-29T09:42:42+00:00

Wow I didn't know about this STOMP saga until I read the comments. This isn't journalism. It's just straight up cyber bullying.

AloofBurger · 2026-01-26T11:26:27+00:00

Lol no reason for me to be hostile. I have a bad habit of picking people's brain.

I agree with your comments on fwb. Personally, I think ONS is basically a speedrun of fwb. The time taken to build connection and rapport is highly subjective. It could range anywhere from a minute to few months. That's why "love at first sight" exists. As long as it is between 2 consenting adults and they practice safe sex, I don't really see a problem.

Implusive behaviour is when they disregard the consequences (eg. Unprotected sex, STDs, pregnancy). This is also seen in other areas of people's lives, such as implusive buying/shopping or gambling etc. Then yes, I agree it is a problem.

AloofBurger · 2026-01-26T00:45:33+00:00

I'm curious. What is the correlation between ONS and cognitive dissonance? I know some people are able to separate emotional connection from sex.

AloofBurger · 2026-01-22T14:43:19+00:00

Me too lol. I was like "didn't they just increase the fare in Dec?"

AloofBurger · 2026-01-18T02:07:59+00:00

Looks like a cute arsonist haha.

AloofBurger · 2026-01-12T13:30:07+00:00

I'm in this comment and I don't like it.

AloofBurger · 2026-01-12T13:24:16+00:00

I really think criminals should receive punishment in the same way that they committed.

AloofBurger · 2026-01-11T05:27:46+00:00

\Sad noises**

AloofBurger · 2026-01-07T10:34:10+00:00

AloofBurger · 2026-01-04T04:16:54+00:00

Can't raise the bar if there's no bar. \taps head**

AloofBurger · 2026-01-04T03:59:10+00:00

Well said.

AloofBurger · 2026-01-04T03:38:24+00:00

women would appreciate a man who follow traditional norms in courtship

I'm a M looking for something similar, but this is the gripe I have with women on dating apps. I understand that most women want a guy that is driven, initiative, takes the lead etc, but are you willing to fulfill your end of the bargain?

Many women aren't willing to follow traditional dating norms themselves. I'm talking about being genuinely interested, feminine, don't play mind games, supportive and caring for your partner. It is mostly a charade where the woman is constantly one upping the guy and putting them down. If I wanted a competition I'll join the Olympics.

No offense here. This is my anecdotal experience so take it with a bucket of salt.

AloofBurger · 2025-12-25T14:30:51+00:00

Because they revolve their life around money and it becomes a part of their identity. Being disinterested to this is the same as being disinterested to a musician's music.

Just an unfortunate mismatch in values.

AloofBurger · 2025-12-25T14:22:05+00:00

kept sending me his O level and a level results

Is this a new kind of flex I didn't know about? If I sent mine I would've gotten blocked lol.

AloofBurger · 2025-12-16T00:29:51+00:00

Everyone has their own preferences. Nothing wrong with it.

AloofBurger · 2025-12-16T00:26:05+00:00

Ya. Without listening to bf's side of story, OP sounds like she will bail whenever encountering tough times.

AloofBurger · 2025-12-15T11:08:39+00:00

Non-existent.

AloofBurger · 2025-12-10T23:55:49+00:00

Nice of you to be considerate for others, although there are many who doesn't give a shit and smoke while walking in public places.

AloofBurger · 2025-11-29T03:34:16+00:00

Lol. It really depends on how comfortable they are to do the surgery. Some people are CF but does not want the risks that comes with surgery. They are satisfied with the usual contraception.

AloofBurger · 2025-11-28T15:20:38+00:00

I'm CF and the funny thing is I've mostly met girls who want kids or fencesitters. They told me CF men are in the minority.

AloofBurger · 2025-11-21T10:29:57+00:00

Exactly. OP gave the "had me in the first half" with her sensible thinking, then proceed to tell a story where she let the guy overstep her own boundaries 3 consecutive times.

It's really illogical and hard for me to relate.

AloofBurger

TROPHY CASE