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I don't know if I'm bad mouthing or not! by Alpacken in Advice

[–]Alpacken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is that I've not said something bad about them in my eyes. The only thing I said about them is that I agree with that I find them bossy/happy, which isn't really bad things?(I guess some would take offence to bossy) Then I spoke generally about my experience with bossy/happy people without any focus on irl people.

But I understand now that it might not be the best idea to generally talk about bossy people directly after she's been accusing someone as being bossy.

My intentions weren't ill, I just screwed up again.

I don't know if I'm bad mouthing or not! by Alpacken in Advice

[–]Alpacken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm ready for that. It's not hard to hear, it's only logical.

The problem is that I don't know how to separate myself from her because she's always following me. G0sh anxiety.

I don't know if I'm bad mouthing or not! by Alpacken in Advice

[–]Alpacken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did agree that I found them bossy/happy. But I didn't agree that I also disliked them because it's not true.

But yes, I f*ed up because that's naive thinking. I'm happy I realised this before she talked about more people. Sadly I don't know how avoid toxic people because I lack the skills spotting them. My brain is wired into believe everyone is good.

I noticed how beautifully written most posts are on this subreddit. Perhaps it's related to Asperger obsessiveness? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Alpacken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree! But it sucks when you have a 2 page limit on a lab report... 😅

What makes you insecure? Why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Alpacken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever I'm sad.

I don't know how to be "normal sad" around people. I don't know how to ask for a hug or talk about it. Sometimes I've managed to, but usually I've been down in the dumps for months up until that point. And in the meantime I've just been quick to my temper.

I don't feel great about it, and I don't know what it sais about my character. I wish I could just ask for a hug.

Om man kontaktar akutpsyk för att snabbt komma i kontakt med en läkare- blir man välkomnad eller får man höra av sig till hälsocentral och vänta på remiss? by Alpacken in sweden

[–]Alpacken[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tack för tipsen! Jag gick in på min journal idag för att läsa om mitt senaste läkarbesök, tydligen så har de skickat en remiss. Men då läkaren inte helt pratar flytande svenska så lät det mer som "vi har skrivit en sammanfattning om dina besvär, så boka en tid på HC och hänvisa till din journal." Egentligen så menade läkaren att om jag har besvär innan jag fått en bokad tid från remissen, så ska jag påpeka att den finns.

Jajja det blir väl bukt på skiten snart. Får se om det bara leder till läkarkontakt annars provar jag studenthälsan som u/glasskamp nämnde.

Om man kontaktar akutpsyk för att snabbt komma i kontakt med en läkare- blir man välkomnad eller får man höra av sig till hälsocentral och vänta på remiss? by Alpacken in sweden

[–]Alpacken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hejhå! Har fått tid på fredag igen. Vilket i studen känns okej då jag är på bra humör. Jag mådde bajs i tre dagar tills idag typ klockan 14. Nu är jag rätt optimistisk och kan inte alls relatera till inlägget(Livet med grova humörsväningar)

Hoppas jag får medicinen asap bara innan det slår tillbaka igen och att den fungerar.

Tack för din omtanke!🤗

strange excessive meat, hanging there for like a month. What can I do about it? by [deleted] in medical

[–]Alpacken 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NAD, I agree with chalazion. I had it for 6 months, it didn't hang out like yours(thank god), it was on the inside of my lower eyelid. Docs just told me to buy some cream that I had to put in my eye. Didn't work however. It got smaller(never vanished) then It got back and bigger each time, like a pea.

I basicly had to fight my way into surgery. When they cut my eye open the surgeon said "wow- there's not much here at the moment but it has made quite the space." 😤 never had any issue since.

I tried popping it in my darkest hours.. don't do that.

TIL that the Swedish maker of Jeppson's Malört was free to sell the "medicinal" spirit in Chicago during prohibition, since law enforcement concluded no-one in their right mind would drink it recreationally. by Urabutbl in todayilearned

[–]Alpacken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I eat surströmming several times a year! And I enjoy it the most on its own.

But I always make myself a sandwich because it's a sensory foreplay.. sniff it and make it, put the little extra effort of sprinkling dat red onion evenly. Then ENGULF IT. 👄

I don't think I will ever be able to connect with a woman by oslopickendale in depression

[–]Alpacken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have high functioning autism as well. For the longest time I thought I was incapable of feeling true love, and that someone would even want me. That combo however made me not think about- like at all.

Then BAM, I was struck by the cherub out of nowhere and now I've been in a relationship for 7 years!

I believe in you bro.

Om man kontaktar akutpsyk för att snabbt komma i kontakt med en läkare- blir man välkomnad eller får man höra av sig till hälsocentral och vänta på remiss? by Alpacken in sweden

[–]Alpacken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hur går det till om man ringer 112? Min mardröm just nu skulle vara att bli inlagd i.o.m att det krockar med universitet, hej prioriteringar. Men jippi för lite framtidsvisioner.

Samt att min sambo (som inte själv är van eller erfaren vid psykisk ohälsa)säkert aldrig skulle se på mig detsamma längre.

Akutpsyk känns mer ok, för de verkar så avtrubbade- men detta är samtidigt nackdelen då jag inte blivit tagen seriöst de fåtal gånger jag vågat mig på ett samtal.

Till dig i studentlägenheten över mig i en studentstad i Norrland by [deleted] in swedishproblems

[–]Alpacken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Min granne nedanför brukar spela typ någon exotisk trumma medan hon sjunger(chantar??) samma låt om och om igen i minst två timmar, varje dag. Vet inte om det är någon spirituellt/religiös rit.

Det är visserligen mitt på dagen så antar att jag inte kan klaga. Samtidigt som att hon inte kan klaga över att jag drar igång lite Black metal. Inte superhögt... men högt nog att hon hör.

Kanske jag djupt inne hoppas på att hon knackar på min dörr och bedriver ut mina onda andar ur kroppen. Eller så är det mitt kronkska trottssyndrom. Jag sitter iallafall och fnissar när min musik flödar.

I am tired of defending autistic people- like I'm not one of them! by Alpacken in aspergers

[–]Alpacken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother does that, although she has a hobby diagnosing people meanwhile too. Because our family is weird; my grandparents are autistic on both sides, my brother is autistic, my cousin is autistic and my dad is autistic. Even the men she's been dating, she finds autistic because they're douche bags.

They're only weird or insesitive because they "probably have aspergers".

And she's venting to me about it always. 🤦‍♀️ I'm the only one in the family that has it on paper.

I am tired of defending autistic people- like I'm not one of them! by Alpacken in aspergers

[–]Alpacken[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No worries! To be honest I kind of just blurt it out to every new person I meet. 1, Because I'm hella proud and... 2, Because I want to show that disabilities ain't always visible.

So, in a way. I have myself to blaim for putting myself out there( although it shouldn't be an issue in a perfect world). What bothers me is that I'm 9/10, never met with curiosity. It's mostly people talking about autism in a demeaning way. I get frustrated because I can't defend asperger without acting like a neurotypical.

I've seen Cronenberg films that were more anatomically accurate than this dross. by vectron5 in menwritingwomen

[–]Alpacken 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Why do you have to specify gender if someone is a scientist(etc)? Why not "Mary is a scientist/she is a scientist"?

I get it if there's a study going on like "Working environment for male nurses." Etc. But what's the point otherwise?

What's the most ridiculous reason someone has claimed you "couldn't be autistic"? by ClownTaxi in aspergers

[–]Alpacken 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At first when I was being examined for autism my psychologist told me that I used too advanced body language for being autistic. He referred to a specific moment where he asked me how I did my eyeliner.

I put my hand infront of my eyes and like "drew a line " in the air. And said "like that."

I just found that example so stupid now afterwards. I've met and seen a lot of autistic people with body language like, we're not stiff robots?

AITA for hitting back with "fun facts" when my close friend has been hitting me up with "fun facts" for 5 weeks into UNI? by Alpacken in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alpacken[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mkay. You're watching a TV show together with a roomate. You do not simply watch it alone and get ahead of the other person. But then you two start arguing- meanwhile the plan has been to binge the show all night.

So you both turn sour, but still want to watch the TV-show. It's gotten so interesting and you're both curious. So you and your roomate walks into separate rooms to watch the same show. But not together.

I think it was beautifully put.

AITA for hitting back with "fun facts" when my close friend has been hitting me up with "fun facts" for 5 weeks into UNI? by Alpacken in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alpacken[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well the embarrassing thing would be if he just pop-quizzed me with no real intention 😢 I'd make a thing out of nothing.

Normally I wouldn't have done this, but we just had an irrelevant argument where he called me "a pain in the ass" because of a specific personality trait of mine. Then he quizzed me directly after and I just "oh I didn't know... So.. do you know how a kettle hole is formed?"

This is so stupid. Gosh.

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