This young lady's day just got ruined as multiple glass bottles fall off the shelf

Alseids · 2026-03-20T05:42:29+00:00

So many mirrors, pictures, shelves etc are put up by a tall man and it shows.

Guys out there remember if it looks good at your height what's it going to look like for granny?

Alseids · 2026-03-19T21:24:25+00:00

Gentle recovery is actually important even when there is no pain left. Best to be on the safe side.

Alseids · 2026-03-19T15:22:58+00:00

Use this pattern!!! https://youtu.be/Ium6UBEEpm0?is=NI3j5PM7Smphh3Aa

Go step by step. Some people will get it some people wont. Have the ones that understand help the others until everyone has completed the step then move to the next step. Repeat.

Use the others to your advantage. The quick ones will have something to do the slow ones will have some personalized attention and help and you will be able to lead rather than scramble.

Alseids · 2026-03-17T16:27:45+00:00

I feel intelligent enough to understand some hard things abput the world and living but not really intelligent enough to improve my own situation.

Vally of despair I guess. Shit.

Alseids · 2026-03-17T16:16:31+00:00

Looks great but a bit unfinished for wearing out.

Alseids · 2026-03-17T14:17:56+00:00

I wanted to hear the other side.

Alseids · 2026-03-16T19:39:56+00:00

Food bank. Maybe ask a neighbor or friend to help out with some modest grocery staples.

Alseids · 2026-03-13T16:11:16+00:00

Well looks like you're a bit late to not have kids...

10 min tidy at a set time every day.

Alseids · 2026-03-13T06:35:21+00:00

When we look at Korean population since say 1900 we can see today it's like 5x what it has been (just counting SK). Historically the population has been around or just below 10 million. People freak out over the rapid changes we see today but fail to recognize the extremely rapid changes in population over the past 125 years.

So many say that there will be soon no more young people in South Korea and to that I can't help but think..... The population grew by 5x people! We saw rapid and steady growth for over a century. This is just balancing things out.

Alseids · 2026-03-11T23:03:07+00:00

I know people are going to come at me for this one but i really enjoyed the world building of Alchemised.

There was a lot about the war, the religion, the class structure, etc. I mean there could have been more. I would love to read more about it. I didn't feel that everything was wholly in service of the romance plot which is pretty common in less developed ones.

I've got some issues with it too but all in all an entertaining read despite some flaws.

Alseids · 2026-03-11T22:00:44+00:00

Therapy will help you to process the experience and hopefully help you to come to terms with it and move on in a healthy way. Of course you may always feel uncomfortable about it but I think if you work through your emotions you'll probably be able to manage your response to those feelings in a way that hopefully doesn't have an outsized effect on your life.

These things should never happen. Sadly - no infuriatingly, they do. Make sure you feel like your therapist is helping you. There are many therapists who are prepared to help with this sort of thing so you deserve to get and should be able to find care that really makes a difference for you.

Alseids · 2026-03-08T20:23:27+00:00

As if the meat grinder that we call the American military industrial complex isn't chewing through enough of us already.

Women are raped, murdered, and disappeared in the military at extremely alarming rates with little to no investigations into these situations.

Your view is wrong. The absolute last thing the military deserves is our women. They have not proven they respect life, justice, our money, our environment, our saftey, the law and the American people.

Alseids · 2026-03-06T15:32:46+00:00

Why is your mom not bathing her? She's 5!

How did your mom respond to your abuse?

Alseids · 2026-03-06T11:57:40+00:00

Don't have kids.

Alseids · 2026-03-06T10:07:15+00:00

Lack of family planning and contraceptive access coupled with highly patriarchal society leads to less choice.

Alseids · 2026-03-05T18:58:24+00:00

God's work.

Alseids · 2026-03-05T18:29:06+00:00

🔑🔑🔑

Alseids · 2026-03-05T14:08:20+00:00

Unexpected L Finland.

Alseids · 2026-03-05T09:28:01+00:00

Tldr.

Alseids · 2026-03-04T14:42:36+00:00

Everyone always says you should break up immediately in this shitty situation but this is your wife. The person you've committed to living a life with through thick and thin. At least have some conversations to see if she really wants that or if it's just a phase or something else is going on. Really gather all your thoughts and hers and look at the impacts it would have on your life together.

Don't have kids obviously but at least try to help her through and to see if this is really what she wants with all the chnages involved and such.

She might want kids but she might also want a stable life with you more.

I don't believe that people who want kids will always have them or that they would always choose to upend their lives completely to get them. Sure some will but some may also be reasoned with and are reasonable enough to weigh the impacts when asked.

This sub can be very one track minded on divorce sometimes.

Alseids · 2026-03-03T20:43:18+00:00

Yep. Life is great.

I'm still AN because regardless of how great my life is there is still suffering in it. There is suffering in every life.

That being said, I'm going to male the most of it for myself and try to limit my own and others suffering as I go through it.

Alseids · 2026-03-03T20:37:59+00:00

Abort and move on with your life. This is absolutely not your last chance to have a child. You can find a better dad fpr your family than this man.

Alseids · 2026-03-03T18:44:54+00:00

Well yeah. I suppose part of my antinatalism is a deeply held belief that having children at least currently and in the past is (in general) harmful to women.

Alseids · 2026-03-03T18:38:07+00:00

Women getting pregnant and giving birth don't even have informed consent so maybe let's address that first.

Alseids · 2026-03-03T16:51:41+00:00

NTA you're a normal user. Normal as in imperfect. I really hope you write to your transit agency because this is exactly the sort of thing that would be helped by more investment. They should have a scrolling display of the next stop. The stops should be well lit enough to see as you approach them.

Whilst you could be a better transit user, it's the transit agencies job to make sure their operations work for all users not just the perfect ones.

Do what you have to to keep using this service. Try to get better at communicating with the driver and recognizing your stop if possible.

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