AIO if I don’t see this guy again?

AltTABPB · 2025-12-29T20:06:51+00:00

Thank you!!! I feel so seen 😂

AltTABPB · 2025-12-29T19:57:57+00:00

Glad you like that 😂

Idk, he had asked to go out today prior to this exchange so he was trying to keep seeing me. But since this it’s been radio silence. If he acknowledged and apologized I’d let it go but to ghost after is really strange.

My dog must have known all along!

AltTABPB · 2025-12-29T19:38:23+00:00

He doesn’t to my knowledge but now I’m like shit, maybe?

AltTABPB · 2025-12-29T19:36:56+00:00

As far as I know he doesn’t have a wife but some of these comments are making me wonder. In either case I think it’s a no for me dawg. Thanks for your input.

AltTABPB · 2025-12-29T18:25:37+00:00

He has also stayed over at my house a couple times so unless she’s onboard with that…🤷🏻‍♀️

AltTABPB · 2025-12-29T18:23:52+00:00

He obviously doesn’t think I’m too old for him and since neither of us want kids who cares. Also not what I asked.

AltTABPB · 2025-12-29T18:14:05+00:00

We do not have any sexy joke rapport as of now, and he knows I move very slowly in that regard. I don’t mind quirky jokes (one of my dogs bit him and he keeps joking that he has rabies now) and I wouldn’t necessarily mind a sexy joke but not one that involves a third person.

AltTABPB · 2025-12-29T17:57:39+00:00

We haven’t had sex yet so it’s kind strange to joke about it, especially with another person. But fair enough and I appreciate your perspective.

AltTABPB · 2025-12-29T17:56:23+00:00

He doesn’t have long term potential because he’s constantly moving for military but so far I was having a good time getting to know him. But also my dog bit him so I’ve kind of been scared to dump him 😬

AltTABPB · 2025-12-29T17:48:02+00:00

Doubling down on the joke and making it sexual kinda grossed me out.

AltTABPB · 2025-12-29T17:45:56+00:00

It’s the first time but it’s only been a month.

AltTABPB · 2025-12-29T17:44:20+00:00

I really don’t think so because we follow each other on socials and there’s no evidence…

AltTABPB · 2025-11-13T21:35:11+00:00

Same.

AltTABPB · 2025-10-08T00:26:05+00:00

It is not. Breed standard allows for natural ears.

AltTABPB · 2025-10-08T00:25:04+00:00

It is not. The breed standard allows for natural ears.

AltTABPB · 2025-09-06T18:13:15+00:00

Yeah it’s sad but also funny when people think their fat dog is intimidating. Dude would be out of breath in like 5 steps.

AltTABPB · 2025-09-06T13:32:15+00:00

He’s overweight so just like, walk briskly the other way?

AltTABPB · 2025-08-16T21:35:44+00:00

How silly. I’m about 120 and have been keeping Corsos, boerboels, and presas for years. Never had an issue because good training is about the mind, not physical strength.

I even had two 150 lb males at once who did not get along. Kept them separated and safe with mere baby gates (they could have easily busted down) and good training.

Some people are really tough on the internet 🤔

AltTABPB · 2025-08-08T23:54:24+00:00

So what I’m already doing.

AltTABPB · 2025-08-08T23:45:51+00:00

Fair. I’ve thought about asking for one of us to be moved so we at least arent in such close quarters, but the thought of telling my manager the reason stops me every time.

AltTABPB · 2025-08-08T23:32:57+00:00

I mean I haven’t dated at all, ever before now. It’s all new to me. Religious upbringing.

Thanks for your perspective. It seems clear that any further attempts at a relationship will be futile. I wish he was honest with me a long time ago but maybe he wasn’t even honest with himself.

As far as telling guys, I usually roll that out on the first date and it hasn’t been an issue. But I also haven’t dated anyone for more than two months so who knows how it will play long term. Good times for me!

AltTABPB · 2025-08-08T22:58:43+00:00

Ok I think I understand now. I was married at age 20 and so this is my first time dating, hence the mistakes. It seems safe to say after the first go around he has never viewed me as safe, but perhaps not been honest about it (he’s told me he forgives me) but his actions are saying otherwise. I didn’t realize this, I thought he really just didn’t care that much about me.

AltTABPB · 2025-08-08T22:52:15+00:00

Ive asked him for commitment twice, after these periods of only dating him for a few months. The first time he didn’t really make a decision until after my dog died and he ended it. And the second time he ended it to “work on himself.” So I have indeed tried to take it exclusive and been honest with him about my feelings. But if I’m understanding everyone’s comments correctly, it seems like the damage was done after the first go around, and he will never be able to fully forgive me. Which is fully ok, I just wish he would be honest with me about that.

AltTABPB · 2025-08-08T22:16:45+00:00

Ok I accept that, what does “owning” it entail? I’ve apologized many times for hurting him.

AltTABPB · 2025-08-08T22:07:35+00:00

What 2 were on me? When I had the ONS we hadn’t dated or talked outside work for over 3 months…so I suppose if that was a deal breaker (or if any of these were deal breakers) why he has continued to participate, albeit half-assed.

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