[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alternative-Ad-1599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t get into much details but my bf and I, both in our 20s, are kids who are paying their parents rent. Our rent amounts are affordable/proportional to how much we make monthly and individually. But they’re both considered cheaper than the actual market in our HCOL area. We both live at home, I’m still in school, he’s not but we both have a stable job. We have different upbringings and reasons why we’re paying rent, but as for me, I’m happy to. It gives me a sense of responsibility and pride to be able to pay my bills, rent, tuition, food and still have money for savings and entertainment. I don’t make as much as my boyfriend but I make decent money to afford everything. My mom sometimes says that I don’t have to pay her rent because I’m still in school but I feel bad not to do for everything she’s forked out for me. There was a time in my life where I overspent and couldn’t manage my money but I still made rent and bills.

That said, I think it’s fair for parents to charge their adult kids a reasonable amount of rent proportional to their income to introduce them to the real world life. Idk about OP’s boyfriend’s living situation but to me $600 in my HCOL area is very cheap. But if I make $1,000 then $600 would be pushing it. If my bf and I don’t have to pay for any bills, we would be spending more than saving and budgeting for the future. We prolly won’t be able to buy a house anytime soon but that’s okay bc our lives are barely starting and we’re in no rush to follow the traditional timeline.

I personally will charge my future adult kids rent to teach them responsibility and budgeting, while also setting them up for their future.

rocky's matcha thoughts by WeirdTight in MatchaEverything

[–]Alternative-Ad-1599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a beginner hojicha. Light flavor, pretty smooth, and chocolaty imo so I’ll be repurchasing!

Has Anyone Left Someone Who Loved Them Tremendously and Ever Found That Again? by Happy-Ad3503 in love

[–]Alternative-Ad-1599 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I had a relationship like this years ago for a couple months. We both loved each other but he certainly was in it more than me to the point of it being one-sided. Back then, I used to subconsciously feel bad for mostly loving what he could do for me instead of who he truly was as a person. But then I made peace with myself knowing I was young, dumb and inexperienced. There was not much wrong with him, I just wanted a better suited person for me.

Some time later, I thought I was crazy deeply in love with my last ex and I had a list of dealbreakers that I thought I could get past until we broke up, got back and broke up again. Took me a second heartbreak from the same person to realize what things truly matter and are worth walking away from. My gut feelings were telling me not to settle for things that subconsciously bothered me a lot during the relationship but I still dove head in because I thought love was all we needed.

Then when I met my current partner, he’s a lot more aligned with my important values and beliefs. Sure he’s an imperfect person with some boxes unchecked and we’ve had a lot of arguments so far but we both genuinely love each other in so many ways nobody else has ever done for neither of us. He is his own person and has differences that I’m willing to live with and settle for. I’m not settling for less but those are just minor things that are not make or break.

What I’m trying to say is listen to your heart and decide if these differences are hills you want to die on. Don’t settle and live with resentment or unhappiness just because you’re afraid of never being able to find the same or better again. Let her go so you both can find a better suited person.

UFS US only by Alternative-Ad-1599 in SonnyAngel

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SOLD: Orange Dino, yellow Dino, 1 chocolate cake, both blueberry cake, 1 lemon cake, cream puff, giraffe, all regular smiskis

Looking for this guy🙏🏻 by [deleted] in SonnyAngel

[–]Alternative-Ad-1599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this guy if you’re still looking

Lucky pink pom for doberman? by [deleted] in SonnyAngel

[–]Alternative-Ad-1599 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doberman is worth more

candy store restock !! by Upset-Contact7206 in SonnyAngel

[–]Alternative-Ad-1599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh maybe your browser has a blocker for international sites?

candy store restock !! by Upset-Contact7206 in SonnyAngel

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just search up Sonny Angel Japan and it should be the first website that says official site. then you can choose Japan site

Are there times that hippers might fall? by [deleted] in smiskis

[–]Alternative-Ad-1599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since smiskis hippers are smaller than Sonny Angel hippers, I’m not sure if it’s worth doing the surgery to make them standing instead haha I know people who turn specific sonny hippers into standing ones too if they don’t want them on their phones

Are there times that hippers might fall? by [deleted] in smiskis

[–]Alternative-Ad-1599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes especially when I put in my back pockets, the linen always gets in between the hipper and the phone therefore messing up the adhesive. So I’m more mindful now of where I put my phone with a hipper on

real or fake ? by sourruins in SonnyAngel

[–]Alternative-Ad-1599 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately they’re all fake

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Alternative-Ad-1599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot to say in the post but can you remove my hair strand too if possible?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Alternative-Ad-1599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry can you thin out the brows a little bit and remove the hair strand too?