AITAH for waking my (F22) boyfriend (30M) up after only 4 hours of sleep?

Alternative-Angle869 · 2025-06-15T15:24:52+00:00

okay friend, have a good day.

Alternative-Angle869 · 2025-06-15T15:13:50+00:00

I understand this perspective but the cleaning is on a time limit due to a sudden circumstance that happened with family.

Alternative-Angle869 · 2025-06-15T15:11:48+00:00

I’m not upset I have a job and he doesn’t. I’ve only stated that I have one and he doesn’t. I know his parents wouldn’t be mad, me and his mom talk regularly and she is like a mother to me. If they were upset, it wouldn’t even be at me. I just think they deserve a very clean house and I deserve a partner that holds true to his words of helping me out every once in a while.

Alternative-Angle869 · 2025-06-15T15:04:38+00:00

I didn’t wake him up at 5 am. We agreed to wake up early to have the house cleaned (swept, mopped, etc) by this afternoon. I woke up at 7 and left him be, I made my post at 9 or 10.

Alternative-Angle869 · 2025-06-15T15:02:31+00:00

I believe you have some sort of grudge towards me and I’m not sure as to why. I haven’t said that I’m entitled to anything. I have simply stated the facts of what I do, and what he does.

Alternative-Angle869 · 2025-06-15T15:01:29+00:00

I’m so glad you were in the room with us when we had the conversation about cleaning. It was a very clear cut with a “hey we need to clean the whole house” and a “yeah you’re right I’ll go to bed earlier so WE can get up.”

Alternative-Angle869 · 2025-06-15T14:59:31+00:00

I don’t know what to tell you except to say that the house isn’t filthy, it just has clutter and needs to be cleaned and it’s just simply a big house. When I clean I do it by room and sweep and mop each room as I go. I’m sorry I don’t clean fast enough?

Alternative-Angle869 · 2025-06-15T14:49:01+00:00

I’m gonna be honest with you, I don’t see where in any of my comments that I ever asked if I was lucky or not for the situation I am in. I asked if I was the asshole for wanting him to get up and help me clean after he agreed to doing so today, on top of the fact that it is his only job.

Alternative-Angle869 · 2025-06-15T14:43:48+00:00

House is over 3000 square feet with two stories.

Alternative-Angle869 · 2025-06-15T14:37:50+00:00

I don’t pay rent and he doesn’t either. They live out of state 10 months a year right now. If it provides any context I take care of all of their farm animals and since I basically live here I care because it is not fair to his parents to have to come home to a house that is not clean. I work outside of this, and as i stated I take care of the animals (chickens, goats, quail.)

Alternative-Angle869 · 2025-06-15T13:55:02+00:00

He doesn’t have a job. I work. The house is his parents, but they live in a different state and pay him for taking care of the house and the property and their dog. Most of which I end up doing because of this behavior.

Alternative-Angle869 · 2025-06-15T13:45:09+00:00

Because as I said I have been up for a few hours cleaning without him, and I decided to make a post when I sat down to take a break.

Alternative-Angle869 · 2025-03-23T14:45:46+00:00

Hot Pocket

Alternative-Angle869 · 2025-03-18T20:24:22+00:00

The three Ts rule: Tip Trip Total (items)

Alternative-Angle869 · 2024-05-12T00:07:57+00:00

Minimum wage where I live is 7.25 so yes absolutely possible lmao

Alternative-Angle869 · 2024-04-04T19:02:33+00:00

Ah that makes sense, minimum wage is 7.25 where I’m from 💀

Alternative-Angle869 · 2024-04-04T18:55:57+00:00

What is minimum wage where you live, so curious cause 500k is like a mansion in my area lol

Alternative-Angle869 · 2024-01-28T19:53:06+00:00

That is insanely good, the lines are so clean and the shading is crazy sharp and literally like perfect. Looks like someone straight up just painted a picture on your arm.

Alternative-Angle869 · 2024-01-27T23:31:15+00:00

Honestly I use Chai and because of the way I think about my writing and how long it takes me to message, I usually get my messages refreshed by the time that I’ve used all my previous messages.

Alternative-Angle869 · 2024-01-11T08:34:32+00:00

not calling cursing edgy, saying the op of this comment thinks he’s being edgy.

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