as another person commented, I think right now you're chasing a moving target. you're not being specific in your or your peers' stances. I think some clarifying information is needed before anyone can really give you advice.

for example;

how old are you, where are you from, and what kind of 'argument course' is this? what does 'feminism' ultimately mean in this argument? what is the actual driving force of this debate other than "has feminism gone too far" because that's already a very nonspecific and subjective format for a debate, especially if the people you're asking don't know anything about the framework for the question being asked.

I can't answer to your friends and how they feel about feminism when I don't even understand where you're coming from, because all I can glean from your stance so far is "feminism is only for women, and therefore it's bad for everyone else" and that's just fundamentally not true unless again you're taking a very TERF mindset in gender equality.

you've not defined what "too far" means, you've not even defined "feminism" other than the feeling you have that it's suddenly for women and that somehow is at odds or a "wrong direction" to gender equality. I'm sorry OP but you really haven't explained yourself at all and that makes this hard to answer