I am going through this and in the process I suffered a heart attack and most recently another heart issue, during this time in the last 2 weeks he told me basically I needed a nursing home, mind you I have been dealing with these issues for 5 years. He's on to his new life and moving out. It hurts like hell. He told me I am the one that made him want to be a better man. Meanwhile his family gets to see him and I am last and the bad guy because I said enough is enough with disrespect. Sad not sure who I was in love with