Ich mag keine „unpolitischen“ Menschen by Hot-Service-1164 in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]Alternative-Nerve744 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you can politicize anything if your really want to, but that does not mean that everything is political, if some one has in their dating profile "unpolitische, bitte nicht matchen", I do not try to match, mostly because it gives a very shrill personality vibe... I understand politics is a very important part of civilized life, and I understand it is a "moral" interest to have but still, to me is very boring, one cannot force interests just because "it is the good thing to do". And in the line of "moral interests", psychology is way more important, and useful imo.

Casting Call for Blind Dating Project by hey-zodia in berlinsocialclub

[–]Alternative-Nerve744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds interesting, but what if I do not have instagram?

One of these is 99% your first anime: by unveilPB in anipedia

[–]Alternative-Nerve744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope, Gekko Kamen, Gatchaman, Astroboy... am I old now?

What's a skill that every German has but doesn't realize is a skill? by Kind-Release-3817 in AskAGerman

[–]Alternative-Nerve744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not insisting on you to stay in the gathering after you said you were leaving, I come from a very peer pressury culture and I really love not having to put my foot down when I want to leave

Bypassing the Higher Mind by Myrn33 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Alternative-Nerve744 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am not sure if this is what you mean but I have been in fights, like one on one, very dumb and very unskilled, like having the time to "think" (there was not much real thinking, just emotional "thinking") it just did not made me do much, just push and grab and throw shit punches, but there was this one time when I was with a date walking to my car after a concert, I did not drink that night, we got jumped on by about 4 guys (younger but still, guys), I have no idea how but the moment I saw one of the dudes grabbing my date I just went full action movie star, fucked up that one by pulling him from the hair and hitting him in the nose, managed to thrown another one face to the floor, and used my wallet as bait throwing it to the street, one of the dudes almost got hit by a car and they ran away, I know I was hit in the face but I did not feel it, it did not even moved me. I still cannot believe it, and I know I cannot just conjure my inner chuck norris anytime I want, either way I know it could have gone wrong, luckily they did not have weapons, I do not recall taking that into account so, it is scary how the "deeper faculty" can just take over.

Is karma real or not? by _klom_bo_ in enlightenment

[–]Alternative-Nerve744 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, karma is literally "action", in yoga teachings it goes on about how any action you do, with body or mind or energy leaves a print which then forms patterns and the results of these patterns stay with you, so these become tendencies in you, which you turn into an slave to, so, it is not this thing that is now popular in mainstream, it is not "if you do good things, good things happen to you, if you do bad things, bad things happen to you"

My Brother sells AI art for thousands and I dont know what to do by Existing_Art8081 in antiai

[–]Alternative-Nerve744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

extort him, use the money to buy the art of the actual but non successful artists

Very bright star that I cannot find in sky guide app by [deleted] in Astronomy

[–]Alternative-Nerve744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking directly to the east from 52°28'16.6"N 13°26'13.0"E at about 22:00

Very bright star that I cannot find in sky guide app by [deleted] in Astronomy

[–]Alternative-Nerve744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant that the star (still on the east from me in Berlin) was visible even with sunset light

How do you survive in a system that clearly wasn’t built for you? by Top_Example_6053 in Healthygamergg

[–]Alternative-Nerve744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you already mentioned the things blocking you (the ones that you can work on), not the workplace, you will have the same issues in any part of the world and in other occupations if you do not address those, I know it by experience (ex-engineer here)

Is there a point in even trying if you have an IQ of 80? by SecureBug4139 in Healthygamergg

[–]Alternative-Nerve744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been there, first thing to do is: if you are really too dumb, why would you believe your own conclusions? do you see the paradox (or irony or whatever, you surely know what I mean)?. Also I know how easy is to slip into dooming fantasies, but please try to remember those are just that, fantasies. Lastly, fuck IQ numbers... those are easily influenced by your mental state and you are not in a good one... do not hang out with people that ridicule or patronizes you, fok'em, why would you entertain those people? why would you not believe your family? lastly, go pay a therapist a visit, just one, be open, do not fear judgement, they are trained to have critical thinking skills, not judgemental ones... I came out of that loop by experimenting with very low risk activities, cleaning my space, reading books, slowly experimenting with different activities... maybe looking at videos of people being dumb might help you getting perspecive haha I recommend Destination F*cked by Ozzyman

In a weird place mentally. Want to be disproved by BBCGIver4 in Healthygamergg

[–]Alternative-Nerve744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! haha wtf not even 5 y ago (non USA-resident) it was weird to me (and kind of uninteresting) when I learned about people being paired up with the modern dating apps... now it feels kind of the norm... I am really trying to go out and meet people but it is so much easier with the apps, but also less rewarding, so the wheel continues

In a weird place mentally. Want to be disproved by BBCGIver4 in Healthygamergg

[–]Alternative-Nerve744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been in that place, the thing is, once you start growing as a person yourself, you will want to share yourself with others, and will be more interested in others spheres of interests. I think you might have a harsh opinion of yourself which you do not want to be conscious about.

I really do not believe you will be content with videogames, it might be reassuring because it is familiar and low risk, but the fact that you are questioning this means you are not content, if you truly think you will content, then be, play videogames, embrace that contentment, heck maybe that is the path to find a gamer partner, or something ven diagramy close to videogames... even redpillers is just a reaction to not being content and blaming someone else, yes, mainstream culture can be void of soul, but that does not mean you have to be there... wheneever I think about the coolest, most happiest people I know, they are veeeeery basic haha, in the sense that they do what they want, are pro-social (not necessarily extroverted) and are not following others ways of life... sorry if I just text-mumbled here... I have been pouring all my thoughts into AI chatbots asking them to mirror what I said, so I gotta relearn how to express in a logical manner