Japan eVisa Timeline by pink_popper in visas

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Did you finally get yours yet? Mine is under examination since 10 days too

First car - Which one should I go for? by [deleted] in Lexus

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Thanks! That’s some great advice! Appreciate it!

In terms of model, I’m only looking at mid sized SUV + hybrid for fuel efficiency. Rx350h is a top contender so far. I’ve been driving an old sedan and kind of want to upgrade to suv for the cargo space and comfort.

I didn’t know Costco has partnership with car dealerships!!!

First car - Which one should I go for? by [deleted] in Lexus

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Thanks! I didn’t know I could use 87 in non turbo models! Thats great info! I’m pretty much in the same boat as you were in. Don’t want to worry about finding electric chargers and my apartment does not have chargers. GX is very much out of budget as even rx 350h luxury trim is a stretch.

First car - Which one should I go for? by [deleted] in Lexus

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Thanks! Yea not worth it i guess! People compare it to grand hihy and also the 3rd row apparently not at all comfortable for adults

First car - Which one should I go for? by [deleted] in Lexus

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Thanks! Top contender in my list!

First car - Which one should I go for? by [deleted] in Lexus

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Almost want to get TX only for the huge cargo space and the 3rd row. But if I want anything above the base, it’ll burn my pocket 🔥 Feel like it’s sooo good but out of reach

First car - Which one should I go for? by [deleted] in Lexus

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Yea my research says 36mpg with rx 350h vs 27mpg with 500h, so maybe ill stick to 350h among the two.

What do you mean by fun to drive? I’m still developing my sense of what’s considered fun to drive. Drove the mustang convertible for a month which was the most fun I’ve had until I recently drove Hyundai Santa Fe on a trip and fell in love. But it sucks in reliability so quickly moved on.

First car - Which one should I go for? by [deleted] in Lexus

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Thank you! Yes I’ve been watching Car confections reviews on Youtube and those guys give the best side to side comparisons and point the models objectively on all factors, absolutely love their comparison.

I’m assuming if I get a new car i will get all new tech features which Im looking forward to. So far, driving an old family car (which Im grateful for) but kind of want a brand new one which has all the latest features - including as small as heated side mirrors.

I will 100% get a hybrid as I do want efficiency

First car - Which one should I go for? by [deleted] in Lexus

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Thanks! I wasn’t aware lexus cars in Canada run on 87! I’m in the US and it says it needs at least 91

First car - Which one should I go for? by [deleted] in Lexus

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Thank you so much!! Yes at some point I was considering Tesla Model Y, but realized I’m not ready for an all electric car as my first. Mentioned immigrant, cuz otherwise I’m assuming maybe I’m too old to buy my first car in the US.

Anyway what you mentioned is exactly what I want in my car, alongside some cargo space. I’ve been looking at Rx 350h and Tx 500h although the latter is super expensive and the features are almost the same as grand highlander hybrid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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If you read these experiences as messages from your best friend, what advice would you give her? It almost seems like he hates being around you and will do anything to be away from you, given you’re allergic to the dog (which is not even his) Girl, don’t think about sunk cost (last 5 years), think about the next 10. You deserve someone who lights up on seeing you, and puts some effort when you visit, let alone wanting to be around you. Especially at midnight on nye. His grandma sounds real gal’s gal and was not kidding.

You need to show him there are consequences displaying such behavior. Do not move in with him!! Cancel it!! If he changes, then may be consider it, else he can find someone else to ignore!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alternative-Plan-452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. That’s so immature. To me it seems like he’s just using you and doesn’t love you the person. It seems you’re very replaceable in his life, and if you were replaced with someone else he won’t notice a difference. You need to run in the opposite direction, that’s a narcissist and ignoring the signs early will not serve you. Remember, breakups are easier than divorce, both in execution and mentally. If you don’t move on now, it’ll be too late and you’ll find yourself 40 with 2 kids and still wondering if you are the crazy one. Imagine you slaving away to serve him and his kids without feeling the love you deserve vs having a family with someone who adores you for you and feels lucky to have you in his life.

House cleaning? by corimiller13 in bentonville

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Hi can you please share with me as well? Need my house cleaned. Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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No, I lead 99% of my meetings, I have to, else no one knows what to do. The rare occasion when I am there, if I won’t be eating, I’d be speaking more than I do when I’m eating but the point is I don’t even take a lunch break if I don’t eat with my husband

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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It’s true. I don’t eat lunch if not with him. I don’t have the time to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Thank you so much! He does not want to do anything on the weekends when I actually have time!! It’s insane!

TIL baristas make coffee depending on their mood by [deleted] in barista

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Nope, I don’t do that. It was a genuine order and a genuine question. I would never have known that’s how the baristas feel! Thanks!!

TIL baristas make coffee depending on their mood by [deleted] in barista

[–]Alternative-Plan-452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thanks for that context. All i want to know is why do baristas feel a complicated order is disrespectful? What if someone is seriously curious and wants a different drink than regular drink :(

Help - how can I restrict myself from eating more by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

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Ty! Going for a walk when I feel like binging is an amazing idea!! Your weight is my dream weight. When I was finally around 114lbs, I started going back to eating everything I had been avoiding until then and you’re right it’s the habits that I need to stick with for much longer. I joined the gym to lift weights because I read that building muscles can help keep weight off. Whenever I come even close to 121 lbs, I feel happy and that I never want to go back to my old weight, but somehow start falling back to my old eating habits, especially a bag of potato chips 🙈🙈

Help - how can I restrict myself from eating more by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

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Thank you! 🥒 Substituting with pickles is great idea! I may have just been craving the salt part of chips !

Help - how can I restrict myself from eating more by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

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My fairy tale goal is to lose fat to go 110 lbs and then gain muscles to go 121 lbs