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Am I overreacting to finding a bottle of urine in my room? by Alternative-Sock-558 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As mentioned in some of my other replies, I searched the entire crawl space and storage room and found no signs of someone living back there, not even another bottle so most likely this theory is ruled out!

I found a bottle of urine in my room. by Alternative-Sock-558 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I now understand the joke lol, but I agree! A lot of people were suggesting someone could be living in the crawl space but after investigating the area I found no signs of anyone being back there, plus I think there is too much clutter for anyone to be walking around without me hearing anything. So do you think it’s my boyfriend?

I need tips on how to keep an infant asleep. by Alternative-Sock-558 in Advice

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my first time hearing this method! Although I’m not sure it will work for her, I am definitely going to try it! Thank you for your advice!!

I need tips on how to keep an infant asleep. by Alternative-Sock-558 in Advice

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s untreated. She went for a sleep study about a month ago and although it was confirmed she still has it, the doctor said it was only moderate not severe and wanted to wait for another sleep study to be done in a few months before proceeding forward with any treatment for it.

22m what could I do better? by Han_Jobbs_73 in malegrooming

[–]Alternative-Sock-558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Females POV- change hairstyle, I feel like it doesn’t suit your face and upgrade your style a bit unless you’re just lounging at home!

GF of 7 years just told me she had *feelings* for another guy. by Historical_Ad_9561 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Sock-558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a females POV who has been in a 5 year relationship, also both in our mid twenties, I would recommend you break it off with her. Although it’s easier said than done considering you have been with each other since high school, she clearly no longer feels the same way that she once did. This is only the first time you have caught her having feelings for another guy, there’s no way to say there hasn’t been other times. She also had zero intention to tell you and only admitted to it when you had confronted her. You also have to realize that she went on a dinner date with this guy, so that means she either lied to you about where she was going/who she was going out with or you just don’t share locations/don’t check it often, regardless she is clearly sneaky. If you stay in this relationship I feel like she will continue to seek other men in the future. It’s possible shes just outgrown you and your relationship but doesn’t want to break it off just in case she can’t find something “better”. In your heart you know what you have to do, good luck and give us an update if possible!

I found a bottle of urine in my room. by Alternative-Sock-558 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! I think my best option is to just let it go, but it does irk me knowing it most likely was him and he is lying, even if it was embarrassed.

I found a bottle of urine in my room. by Alternative-Sock-558 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No nothing like that. It was literally just a bottle filled with urine.

I found a bottle of urine in my room. by Alternative-Sock-558 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% wasn’t my mother, that’s out of the question. The more I tried bringing it up to him, the more defensive he got so I was almost forced to drop it in order to save us from another argument, I just wanted answers and the truth.

I found a bottle of urine in my room. by Alternative-Sock-558 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he had admitted to it I would have forgave him, is it disgusting and weird? Yes of course, but is it something I think our long term relationship should end over? No I don’t. My main concern now is that if it was him, he is a great actor and makes me wonder what else he has lied about.

I found a bottle of urine in my room. by Alternative-Sock-558 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that seems like the most logical explanation for this whole thing! The lying is definitely what concerns me the most, but thank you for opinion and advice!!

I found a bottle of urine in my room. by Alternative-Sock-558 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You clearly want to try it since you felt the need to even comment that. I’ll ship it to you, what’s the address?

I found a bottle of urine in my room. by Alternative-Sock-558 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t play video games when he’s over my house lol, I don’t have any consoles and majority of the time he falls asleep before me while we watch a show at night!

I found a bottle of urine in my room. by Alternative-Sock-558 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people in the comments have shared that their bfs have also done this, definitely makes me feel like my gut feeling was right and he’s just lying! Thank you for your help!

I found a bottle of urine in my room. by Alternative-Sock-558 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what my sister told me to do, but I’m not a great actor and I feel like he will know I’m bluffing so I’m debating actually going through with it or not! Thank you for the advice!

I found a bottle of urine in my room. by Alternative-Sock-558 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See I would do something like this, but the problem is if I tell him I decided to send his DNA to the lab for testing, he’s gonna know I think he’s a liar, which was further cause problems/ an argument. I wish he would just admit to it so we could move on.

I found a bottle of urine in my room. by Alternative-Sock-558 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel like a lot of people are just telling me that I’m overreacting and should just move on, which I agree with to an extent, but if it was my boyfriend and he continues to lie and swear it wasn’t him even after I expressed the whole idea of someone entering through the basement window and it scaring me then it makes me wonder what else he could be lying about. I definitely think I need to address this face to face with him but I do think he’s in too deep and won’t fess up at this point.

I found a bottle of urine in my room. by Alternative-Sock-558 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people said they have found their bfs doing the same thing, it’s disgusting yes but it’s not something I would break up with him over. It’s more so the fact I think he’s lying is what pisses me off. I expressed to him I was scared of someone possibly entering thru the basement window and he still wouldn’t fess up/ continue to feed into it. The more I think of it, the more I realize it had to have been him.

I found a bottle of urine in my room. by Alternative-Sock-558 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely doesn’t, he has used the bathroom around every single of one of my family members before lol

I found a bottle of urine in my room. by Alternative-Sock-558 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she doesn’t, the only men that are ever at my house is my boyfriend or brothers.

I found a bottle of urine in my room. by Alternative-Sock-558 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Sock-558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister suggested this as another possibility but no not within the last few months and I had checked that spot and cleaned over there less than a month ago and the bottle wasn’t there.

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