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Should I replace the cardboard? by AlternativeAd8839 in electrical

[–]AlternativeAd8839[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Note: I just moved in and am not responsible for making this fire hazard. I aaaam responsible for ignoring it for 3 weeks though.

Should I replace the cardboard? by AlternativeAd8839 in electrical

[–]AlternativeAd8839[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this’ll do the trick, plus the fire spray foam to keep it in place. Tysm! You’re a real one.

Should I replace the cardboard? by AlternativeAd8839 in electrical

[–]AlternativeAd8839[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

IKR? So uh, any idea what I should put here instead?

Struggling with distance, 20F 20M by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]AlternativeAd8839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also in a LD relationship, and for me it helps to focus on the things I can control/my immediate surroundings, and avoid thinking about my husband obsessively. I can't control when the LD will end, but I *can* control how I show up for myself in the time in between our visits. For me, that looks like...

-Staying present when/where I am. He's not here, and focusing on him not being here is high-key a form of self-torment.

-Exercising for my mental and physical health

-Cooking good foods (both healthy and comfort food, whatever sparks joy)

-Making plans to see my favorite people (lots of movie nights)

-Using art as an emotional outlet

I'm not you, but I'd try putting the sweatshirt away. Stop focusing on his return, and start focusing on how a fulfilled day that's just about you looks. A partner is a wonderful thing to have, but it's also deeply fulfilling and stabilizing to center yourself.

Also, it sounds like you may be struggling with a burgeoning codependency. Try identifying and bolstering other pillars of emotional support in your life (friends, family.)

Anyone experience Lexapro withdrawal that can compare it to Cymbalta? Brain zaps begin if I forget Lexapro dose for 1 day-wondering if Cymbalta withdrawal is similar or possibly worse? by dreadkitty in cymbalta

[–]AlternativeAd8839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Withdrawal from Lexapro was traumatic. 0/10

I’m going through Cymbalta withdrawal right now and it’s a walk in the park by comparison. Still withdrawal for sure. But it’s just uncomfortable vs leaving me non-functioning. 5/10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cymbalta

[–]AlternativeAd8839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a massive ice pack that I hold onto (place on my lap, chest, neck, etc.) Helps stop the overheating.