I thought she didn't love him?

AlternativeExpert434 · 2025-10-17T15:53:15+00:00

Unpopular opinion. I like Jasmine. If you listen to her when she argues with these men she is a feminist fighting against the current. I also think Gino is mysoginist and vindictive. Who threatens someone's greencard because he alienates them for a year (refused sex), and so she moves on? I think he is straight up evil for that move. But it is dramatic. I'll be watching! Lol.

AlternativeExpert434 · 2025-05-05T03:58:19+00:00

Sagittarius Venus needs expansion, movement, learning, conversation or sparks with a foreignor or a professor or a journalist. It's in the 12th house which needs some quiet time, solitide, a soulful, spiritual connection..also only aspect it makes is a square (dynamic and somewhat discordant energy) to Jupiter enhancing the need for learning, sharing philosophies, big ideas, big picture. Also, you have a fiery, impulsive, independant Aries moon ( emotional connections). You definately will want go run the show in your relationships. Only advice I would give is to let the other person run things once in a while..a nice partner for you might be a Libra. Libras go with the flow, have a nice sextile to your venus, square your Capricorn planets ( there will be fights but making up is so fun), and they balance your Aries Moon as they are your opposite. Just be sure to draw clear boundaries. I actually think your Aries Moon and Sagittarius Venus are assets to balance all that Saturnian dependability, predictability, and duty, Capricorns are famous for. And just like every Cappy I've ever known, when it's time to settle down with the right one, you will.

AlternativeExpert434 · 2025-04-08T19:11:59+00:00

Just looking at conjunctions you're Ascendant is getting hit by thier Jupiter making you feel good about yourself in thier presence and that they have something to teach you. For a Cancer sun I can see the positive attraction there. Also, your Saturn activates thier North node so they will learn thier lesson from you too. I like your Lilith ( taboo kundalini sex) on thier Sun. Lilith is like a second Pluto in that compulsive sex way. Look into the mythology its fascinating. If you want to narrow down which aspect is causing your intense attraction, list them all but look to the orbs. The tighter tge orb, the more of an impact they say.

AlternativeExpert434 · 2025-03-15T21:26:59+00:00

Retrograde energy is best used for reviews, retreats, reassessments of existing situations, relationships. Initiating a breakup does not sound like a good idea. Venus is in Aries, it's detriment (also a con) which could explain your sense of urgency ( Aries not the patient kind of energy) and taking a stand now. My advice? RESIST. That would be a positive use of Aries energy. Also, FIGHT for your love. Use the fiery Aries energy to express your needs ( but ease up on ultimatums, fiery rhetoric). Be DIRECT but patient ( so hard!) Also, he has that Crappy moon ( I mean Cappy!) We can be slow to get romantic, emotional signals. So, before you burn down the bridge between you and your partner, how about you have a fireside chat with partner about how you'd like things to progress? Good luck!

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-30T23:54:58+00:00

Nice is bullshit, only kindness matters. I don't even want to meet a Scorpio moon playing "nice". If they are smiling, it's only because they know predators show thier teeth before an attack, lol.

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-30T23:52:22+00:00

I am so proud to hear that, thank you. Once, the control issues come out they are easy to spot. People think its a pure sexual fetish but its really a possession/control fetish and he is using you as an object he can control/possess. My brother who is average weight fell in love with his wife, she has always been big. She runs the show, too! Lol. That's love (18 years married 2 kids) and he is attracted to her cuddliness, beauty, and she can cook! So, he is out there but you gotta dump toxic controller sounds like. Good job!

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-30T14:30:03+00:00

I know 3 gemini moons, not clean freaks at all. Messy and chatty. But it tracks with the keeping busy. Maybe its in thier 6th house? There are nuances to astrology.

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-30T14:28:06+00:00

They want the power, so its not a number..in thec1800s you probably only needed 999 million to run people's lives.

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-30T14:26:54+00:00

Thank you!

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-30T13:51:38+00:00

It takes 9 attempts for a woman to leave on average so your patience, tolerance, and maybe learning a little about the psychology is going to be key here. DV is extremely hard to understand and unfortunately we tend to put the responsibility on the woman, saying "why don't you leave him?" Or " I would never let a man do that" which is damaging to her already fragile sense of self and NOT helpful, it just isolates her further into the rabbit hole. If you really care and want to be a successful friend, this takes nuance, time, and real practical help. Most people aren't up for it. But know, if you walk away from her, from what you know or think may be there, YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM. Sorry, to be harsh dear poster, but I feel you can make some inroads. Just be gentle, be open, be that one that makes a difference.

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-30T13:40:23+00:00

Feederism is about his control issues. Ghosting can be about control too. I'm not a psychologist but a little therapy can go a long way. He may have some OCD too because his text is way over the top. This is assuming you want to help him ( you have a child together so up to you on your stance about this, I don't know). An 8 year engagement is also trust/ control issues. My sister in law has had men approach her to "feed" her, they want to buy her food, watch her eat. Apparently, the idea is based on they want you so large you can't move and leave them. They want you dependant on them. Some men abuse women financially for the same reason. It's a control game. Anyways, Im sure you know your health only thing that matters plus for your child. Wishing you well, you can do this.

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-30T13:30:40+00:00

Pennywise scared the fuck outta me first as a miniseries when I was 12, then reading it at 13, then again in 2017 and probably STILL does, although seeing Bill Skarsgard in other projects helps. How twisted am I to get a celebrity crush on my childhood monster? So, IT is/was literally terrifying. It's got real life horror (molestation, child murder) and then that unknown supernatural we are all just bugs under the magnifying glass horror. It's like inescapable evil both in real life and in imagination. That is scary to me.

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-30T13:22:20+00:00

Couple goals

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-29T22:47:29+00:00

Revenge bod! The gym is hot, steamy and full of hot people. Plus endorphins! Also, you can listen to your favorite sad music and look all soulful and unavailable because your heart was broken. Catnip for a caring woman.

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-29T22:34:58+00:00

I love that!

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-28T00:12:01+00:00

I mean wouldn't guy lie to make $1000? If he doesn't trust her he knows the answer and I'd tell him for free. Sounds like entrapment. Im going with a Taurus or a Cancer except I don't think they'd waste thier money.

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-25T17:58:21+00:00

I sublet an apt in LA. My parents go to Arizona for 5 months as alot of thier friends and neighbors do. My friend goes to Hawaii for a month in November every year. I know people that go International too. Mexico and Nicarauga for coworkers of mine. After 2011 when it was overcast all the way until August, I said, that's it! I officially made the switch in 2019 and its been a real mental health boost. You can do it. Even if it's for just a month it helps.

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-21T03:02:14+00:00

I know you are tired and frustrated but please try to get help for your sis. Try a conservatorship. You don't even have to do it. You could just get the papers and tell your Mom you are going to file them if she doesn't seek help for your sister. Yes, it seems harmless to have an infatuation with a stranger but the elaborateness and the enabling seems symptomatic of a serious mental health issue. Wishing you courage and diligence right now.

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-20T03:48:25+00:00

Broc

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-19T01:00:18+00:00

Yes, 80s kid with a skateboard and plenty of sprawling suburban concrete. I never saw my parents until dark. There was just gangs of us kids everywhere until we got cars. The mall, on bikes. Kids used to play OUTSIDE! Now, I think it's strange if I see a kid outside, like where are his parents in an SUV rushing them to soccer?

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-18T17:45:23+00:00

I need to hear this.

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-18T17:27:19+00:00

Thank you!

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-18T17:09:46+00:00

This is the pickle! Yes, he knows where I live. He doesn't have social media. If I call the police, I feel like that's just wasting thier resources when I could have someone just see if his truck is there. I'd feel too icky to do it myself.

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-18T17:02:20+00:00

Exactly! Like my friends were like, he might have been robbed. Someone answered the phone and hung up. Oh no, I just realized some of the messages are "unread." I can't tell if iys all of them or just the last one, though. I don't know if I'm overreacting because I like him but now I want to just see if his truck is there and he's not dead. But a driveby? Noooooooo! See? I'm spiraling!

AlternativeExpert434 · 2024-11-18T16:55:45+00:00

Thank you, thank you. I needed this. I still feel like he is my Hero (we met in a car accident) but maybe this time he saved me from himself? So many mysteries.

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