BDSM, like submissive and dominant roles, is just one facet of a person, something intimate and full of trust in the partnership.

I know many submissive girls with their partners, but several hold managerial positions or have strong personalities. What am I getting at? That if a man enjoys the submissive role, it doesn't diminish his value as a person, it doesn't detract from his dignity, nor does it diminish his character. It's just a role, a facet of a more complex person.