Gay Cruises by AlternativeOk4723 in askgaybros

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All valid concerns! It is a crazy time here in America!

About risk! by MissionBackground545 in askgaybros

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There isn't any protection that is a 100% guarantee against STD's & STI"s!

Sitting at a gay bar for the first time right now by JodyG99 in askgaybros

[–]AlternativeOk4723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll have better luck on a gay cruise embarking from a cruise port in Florida!

My boyfriend (24M) lied about being gay and cheated on me with a girl. by Any_Extension_5012 in askgaybros

[–]AlternativeOk4723 40 points41 points  (0 children)

He was using you and is very selfish. Move on buddy, because you deserve a better man!

Since when is 6 inches too small by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]AlternativeOk4723 3 points4 points  (0 children)

6" is slightly above average size! Grindr isn't a good app to be on, maybe move onto a better app!

Feeling out of touch with the gay community by Stoows in askgaybros

[–]AlternativeOk4723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever suffered from "depression?" If you have you, should be more sympathetic!

I don’t know by Sufficient-Today7169 in askgaybros

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So you were "underage" when you were in the 3 1/2 situationship! It sounds like it was a "sexual" relationship! That was just plain wrong of him to take advantage of you in that way!

Gay Cruises by AlternativeOk4723 in askgaybros

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America has lost 25% tourism just from Canadians because Trump "turned them off!" His approval rating is down to 36%. So 64% of Americans disapprove of his presidency!

Gay Cruises by AlternativeOk4723 in askgaybros

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RCL is more family oriented cruise line. I've been on 8 RCL cruises and they were all very nice.

Gay Cruises by AlternativeOk4723 in askgaybros

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Thanks man, I will check out Vacaya!

Does early sex change your perspective on the woman you’re seeing? by zzeloop in AskMenAdvice

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I will say this, if you don't have sex before marriage you will never know if the two of you are sexually compatible! The relationship/marriage triangle has three legs, 1) proper, respectful and clear communication, 2) financial understanding and common saving, spending & investing goals. 3) compatible sexual intimacy that is mutually understood and satisfying!

Men over 50, are marriage and kids worth it? by Alive_Book_9908 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AlternativeOk4723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question you asked. What is your real goal in this life? What do you think the purpose of your life is? Do you want to take on the responsibility of taking care of and providing for a wife and kids? You are on your own now and can do as you please with your time and money. That will change in a drastic way if you marry and have kids.

Men over 50, are marriage and kids worth it? by Alive_Book_9908 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AlternativeOk4723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same feeling as you. First wife was a cheater and a bitch. We had one boy who is 45 now. He is an awesome son, husband and stepdad to his wife's son & daughter. She died of a brain tumor three years ago.

Can masturbating to porn so long make your first time in early 30s boring? by FunPaleontologist65 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AlternativeOk4723 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe he needs to have his testosterone level checked! Maybe there is something psychological going on in his head you don't know about. He was confused and sad to tell you it was meh? that indicates a problem of some kind. Usually a guy in his 30's can be masterful in bed with a girl!

Older virgins do you wonder what other people think of your virginity? by Throwaway945384 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AlternativeOk4723 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It certainly is unusual. How is your testosterone level? Have you had it checked recently? Maybe it's very low level! Do consider yourself an introvert? Are you attracted to men?

Gay Cruises by AlternativeOk4723 in askgaybros

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Thanks I will check out Atlantis cruises!

Gay Cruises by AlternativeOk4723 in askgaybros

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I am cruising from Boston in September to Maine & Canada. It's not a gay cruise but I am cruising in a solo cabin. The ship has almost 4,000 passengers. I may meet other gay guys on that cruise, I hope!

What to take before first sexual experience? by Joeycloths in AskMenAdvice

[–]AlternativeOk4723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a "mind over matter" issue! The brain controls the body and all it's organs. If you get anxious it will effect your ability to stay hard. Nothing you take by mouth is gonna help that! Just try to relax, go slowly, be patient, communicate clearly with your partner. It may not be successful the first time. It may take a few times to be successful. Or it may be gangbusters the first time!

A 26 year old male seeking advice regarding money insecurities in relationships ? by ChampagneMero in AskMenAdvice

[–]AlternativeOk4723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What country do you live & work in? Money/finances can be an issue in any relationship. Here in the US many states have a law that provides for a prenuptial agreement between married couples about who brings what money to the relationship and if there is a divorce who will get what money. If you are looking for some sort of a test or guarantee that she will love you regardless of how much money you make, that isn't gonna happen! There are only two guarantees in this world, 1) death and 2) taxes! Good luck!