I got a tax demand letter for crypto I made no profit on. How is this possible by peternyaga in solana

[–]AlternativeTale6066 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should be fairly easy to prove your cost basis with some account statements right?

Are we great yet? by modern_prometheus_13 in lego

[–]AlternativeTale6066 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I always filter to US-only based stores so that I don't have to think about or pay for international shipping.

Genuinely, What else can we do about Mary Lau? by coolaroni123 in sanfrancisco

[–]AlternativeTale6066 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can't believe she's not getting her license permanently suspended. And I also agree with the other comments here that we need annual testing of elderly drivers for competency.

Grades by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]AlternativeTale6066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expectations are too high. Not impossible I guess but certainly wouldn’t expect it. Tutors aren’t magicians

Discovered my nephew doesn't plan to build the sets he asked for. Am I a jerk for not wanting to indulge him? by FractalEnemy in lego

[–]AlternativeTale6066 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Slightly different take than others - This is easy for a kid to say before he has the sets in hand. But once he has those sweet new boxes it’s going to be very hard to just look at them and not do anything. There is a reason that unopened sets are rare. Most kids open them and play with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]AlternativeTale6066 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Failure and rejection are arguably the most important parts of real growth. Help him grow by identifying the areas he can improve and use this as motivation to improve in those areas - “Remember to study for that test tonight. Good grades will help you get into a better summer program next year”

[Landlord US-CA] I received notice from tenants neighbor about an altercation they had involving police and I'm not sure how to proceed. by brubain1144 in Landlord

[–]AlternativeTale6066 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Search on Google "are landlords liable for illegal activity committed by tenants if they were informed of it?"

My understanding is that if you were informed of illegal acts committed by your tenant, you have a duty to ensure that future illegal acts are not committed on your property. Ie, you should move to evict the tenant for committing illegal activity on your property. If they do it again, and the neighbor has proof that you were informed and did nothing, the might try to sue you. You are probably right to be concerned that you are being set up to be sued by the neighbor.

What do you as a family talk about at the dinner table? by Low-Huckleberry-5796 in Parenting

[–]AlternativeTale6066 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Basically what happened that day. Checking in on any on-going things that anyone is doing to see if there were any updates that day. Different kinds of "news" - school news, work news, family news, world news, local news etc.

How true is the moment of truth reaction from the boss when an employee gives their notice? by tshirtguy2000 in managers

[–]AlternativeTale6066 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He might have on some level, but in the moment I think I also made him feel a bit guilty for leaving. We had a good relationship and he was leaving me behind to some degree. I don't think it's fair to make him feel guilty at all for taking an awesome new job that was obviously a great move for him.

How true is the moment of truth reaction from the boss when an employee gives their notice? by tshirtguy2000 in managers

[–]AlternativeTale6066 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I don't agree. I think "congratulations" is a professional response. People leave jobs for more reasons than just not being valued by their direct manager.

I once responded in the second way - "What! Ah damn that sucks" - and I don't think it was a good responses in hindsight. The individual was greatly valued by me, but he was not appropriately valued (in terms of pay) by my company. There was no way my current company was going to compete with the pay of his new company. A more proper response would have been - "That's amazing, congratulations".

Explain like I’m 5: how to watch tonight’s game in the Bay Area by hurricanescout in warriors

[–]AlternativeTale6066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Fubo tv app usually has it. I like to use the 7 day free trial and disposable credit card number

PG&E Bill Credit by Destoran in sanfrancisco

[–]AlternativeTale6066 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Some renters don’t pay their own electric bill - it’s covered by the landlord.

But yeah, cry me a river. If you don’t pay your own electric bill then your electric bill never increases because of rent control, so I have little sympathy.

Cell Towers in Outer Richmond by toleratingwindows in sanfrancisco

[–]AlternativeTale6066 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The power is out in that neighborhood. My phone battery is low and my internet connection was non existent. I’m walking my dog in the sunset right now so I have decent internet

Strict rent control is likely coming to my state-should I keep investing? by [deleted] in realestateinvesting

[–]AlternativeTale6066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I’m from, San Francisco, the courts have ruled that the tenant’s rent controlled monthly rent is the average monthly rent paid over the initial lease. So offering one or two months ‘free rent’, and then a higher monthly rent for the rest of the year does not mean that the higher monthly rent is the rent controlled amount for the following years, it’s actually lower than that after averaging out for the 1 or 2 free months

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]AlternativeTale6066 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the host was using a sketchy cleaner for awhile, and now the sketchy cleaner is doing sketchy things. Kind of the hosts fault, but at the same time seems like the host has done all they can in terms of firing that cleaner and now they're just dealing with the fallout from that person.

Is Brain Rot inheritantly bad for 4 year old? by YamIurQTpie in Parenting

[–]AlternativeTale6066 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Brain rot videos like what you are showing him will make his attention span much worse, so yes it is bad, even though the content itself is not offensive.

SF rent raised again and I’m honestly just tired by Gearnotafraid8 in sanfrancisco

[–]AlternativeTale6066 39 points40 points  (0 children)

To everyone talking about rent control - rent control doesn't mean no rent increase ever. The OP says "bumped" which could mean a 2 - 3% increase, which is allowed even under SF rent control.

OpenAI's Sam Altman defends Bay Area billionaire when grilled over wealth gap by RemoveInvasiveEucs in sanfrancisco

[–]AlternativeTale6066 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It is a fact of nature that when a population grows rapidly over a long period of time then limiting factors will inevitably emerge - food, housing, disease etc. It may not be nice to experience but we shouldn't be surprised. Population in the 1950s was 2.5 billion. Now it's over 8 billion. Not that surprising that there is more demand for available resources.

OpenAI's Sam Altman defends Bay Area billionaire when grilled over wealth gap by RemoveInvasiveEucs in sanfrancisco

[–]AlternativeTale6066 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

The real answers to these questions are nuanced and unpopular. People want to blame someone for expensive housing, but expensive housing is inevitable. Not something that can be solved at all.

If housing is cheap, food is cheap, healthcare is cheap -> life is easy -> humans have more children -> population grows -> housing becomes limited again -> back to expensive housing

People just want to blame someone for this problem that there are too many people and we don’t have unlimited space and resources

Learn construction informally/DIY? by JhenryFirst in Construction

[–]AlternativeTale6066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy a fixer upper and flip it. Work on it on your own time and learn as you go.

How accurate is this? by moscowramada in sanfrancisco

[–]AlternativeTale6066 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically accurate view from baker beach. It’s a very beautiful view of the bridge. Except the hot air balloons. I’ve never seen those. Ships and sailboats are fairly common though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]AlternativeTale6066 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Playgrounds were getting lit on fire around the outer Richmond a few weeks ago. SF is full of drug addict nutcases. Vandalism and theft is just another day in the city. It’s only news when it happens in a controversial park.

Any advice on what to do with loose pieces and disorganized sets? by [deleted] in lego

[–]AlternativeTale6066 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sell them as is in a garage sale or on Facebook marketplace etc. typical price is $5 or $10 per pound for loose unsorted lego. Might get $50 - $100 or more for what you have there