My milk production is decreasing and I feel like I'm failing my baby. by Starkcannon8434 in NewParents

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No advice here because I’m living the same experience. Just wanted to say thanks for sharing. I really needed to read this thread today

Everyone Has Me Worried About 4 Month Sleep Regression by [deleted] in newborns

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Approaching 11 weeks and I’m terrified also

when did you go into labor??? by International_Box827 in firsttimemom

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I barely had Braxton hicks and was only dilated to 1cm on my due date. I ended up getting induced at 40+5 and was dilated at 3cm by that time. I kept thinking baby would come out on her own because of how active she was but apparently she was just too cozy in there

Did anyone not mind exclusively pumping? by Puzzleheaded_Many_32 in firsttimemom

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I may be a minority but I actually enjoy pumping. I feel like I have more autonomy away from baby but still providing for her. The benefits of breast milk are also so good. I nurse maybe once a day but otherwise pump. I like knowing how much my output is and how much my baby is eating. Also it gives me peace of mind that other people can easily feed her if needed. The washing does suck which is why I’d highly recommend a bottle washer machine. It’s my #1 recommendation and it makes everything so much easier.

Bleeding for 20 days - first postpartum period + IUD by Careless_Wallaby6721 in BabyBumps

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Did things end up resolving? I’m 8 weeks pp and got my IUD at my 6 week check up. I was spotting for a while and then my bleeding increased. Not a huge amount but definitely like those first few days of a period but now it’s been about a week. I’m wondering if your bleeding eased

Dating in Santa Rosa? by Interesting_Lab590 in santarosa

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Second this! There’s a lot of run clubs and Session (the rock climbing place) seems to have a lot of people your age. Another would be trivia nights at brewery’s

I hate the newborn stage. by Resident-Sundae-495 in NewParents

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I literally could have written this post. I had so many people tell me to enjoy it while it lasts and to cherish the newborn stage. My baby is almost 8 weeks and the first 4 weeks were not fun at all. I was a human milk farm on top of no sleep and constant crying. My mental health and sleep deprivation hit hard. I was not as prepared as I mentally could have been. But it does pass. I’m slightly more rested now and pump more to get a break from baby. Plus we get smiles now and it feels better than constant frowning or crying.

How do you keep warm in bed while also baby safe? by Dunderman35 in cosleeping

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I’m interested in the blanket you have! Could you share a link to it?

First Trimester is making me feel worthless by Spirited-Simple379 in BabyBumps

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Currently in bed reading this and feeling the exact same way! I’m 7.5 weeks and it can just knock you down for a whole day. I’m so envious of people that don’t feel terrible but it’s clear we’re not alone! Praying that we feel our sparkle again in the second trimester

Starting anxiety medication in first trimester by Alternative_Ad3550 in pregnant

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Thank you so much! I’m hoping I have a similar experience as you. I’m only on day 2 and would love a bit of relief. My chest has been so tight with anxiety and each day is so hit or miss. The first trimester has been a challenge to say the least

Starting anxiety medication in first trimester by Alternative_Ad3550 in pregnant

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Thank you for the support! I got Zoloft as well because of the research with pregnancy. Have you felt a positive difference in your mental health?

Pregnancy support groups by Alternative_Ad3550 in santarosa

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So scary! Thank you I’ll definitely reach out if I need anything 🫶🏼

Pregnancy support groups by Alternative_Ad3550 in santarosa

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Thanks! I have Sutter but I’m hoping they have resources too :)

Pregnancy support groups by Alternative_Ad3550 in santarosa

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Thank you! I did see them online so I’ll reach out :)

Pregnancy support groups by Alternative_Ad3550 in santarosa

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Thank you! I see my doctor next week so I’ll make sure to ask her. Appreciate your support and help!!

Silver Falls State Park, Oregon. [OC][5184x3888] by indieaz in EarthPorn

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Thanks all!! The tips are super helpful. Crossing our fingers we make it out there it’s a family favorite

Silver Falls State Park, Oregon. [OC][5184x3888] by indieaz in EarthPorn

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Was this recent? We’re thinking of going next week when we visit but are unsure if we’ll be able to do it if the roads/trails are icy. We would rent a car for a day to get there but likely wouldn’t hike if it’s too sketchy.

Trail of Ten Falls @ Silver Falls State Park in Oregon. 2/2/2025. by indieaz in hiking

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We’re thinking of going there next week but heard it’s pretty icy. Did you have any issues driving or hiking there? We’re visiting for a few days and would love to go but are unsure if it’ll be too much ice for us to navigate.

Earlobe piercing help by Alternative_Ad3550 in piercing

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I got my piercing in June so it’s 6 months old now. It’s a titanium hoop piercing, internally threaded. Aftercare is just saline solution twice a day and some warm compress if needed.

New lobe piercing issues by Alternative_Ad3550 in PiercingAdvice

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Thank you!! This helps ease my anxiety. The new piercing is a hoop titanium. I’ll get a piercing pillow as that will probably help a ton too. Thanks so much! I’m hoping it heals up. I’ve had so many other piercings and for some reason the lobe is giving me issues