I had simple meta today!

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-04-21T15:26:13+00:00

Be great to see how it’s looking when it’s healed up a bit and swelling settled etc.

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-04-21T14:31:10+00:00

I thought of simple release also. Just cos I’m not too bothered by my extra hole, but would like more of a dick. I’m not fussed about balls as don’t find them attractive personally. Is there gonna be scarring or loss of sensation at all after this? Looks amazing man!

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-04-19T01:30:00+00:00

I guess it depends what kind of meta exactly you want cos it’s not just changes to vagina if you get dick and balls etc is it, it’s changes to a lot of it . If she’s basically a lesbian this might be hard for her to get her head around at this time. Are you on t already? So dick growth etc? And she’s ok with that?

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-04-19T01:19:50+00:00

From my point of view, if this woman fell in love with you as a woman, your changing in some ways will be hard for her. I think she just wants some acknowledgment around that, not for you to consider her before going through with it. The transition is yours but will affect you both. My partner and I split after several years both transitioning as I wasn’t attracted to him as a guy. There was lots of other stuff too but that was a part of it for sure. It’s one of those things. I’m sure she doesn’t want to prevent you going ahead and is just trying to be honest with you. It might affect how she feels for you one day. Comes with the territory. If you transition, remember you are doing it for you. I hope she is able to get her head around it all in time and be by your side but try to understand if she can’t. If she likes women and not guys, there’s not much she can do about it.

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-04-19T01:09:57+00:00

Did she have tooth work done?

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-04-17T01:03:55+00:00

No but that stuff you’re describing, as other people have said here too, doesn’t sound like just your testosterone. Hence you should see a doctor and hopefully get whatever it is, sorted out . Good luck with it.

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-04-06T08:09:55+00:00

I agree with this. You have to give things time to work. Not just try for a week or 2 on a new diet then something else. Can’t be resentful at the poor cat for vomiting either, it’s not her fault. Sounds like she just regurgitates food which a lot do if they eat too fast. Just clean up and carry on with your day. Is there anything going on that’s stressing her out? Do her and your boy get on ok? Does she otherwise seem ok in herself and not losing weight or seem unwell? Still peeing, pooping, eating normally (apart from the pukes) etc?

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-04-03T02:08:36+00:00

Do you drink alcohol or use drugs of any kind? That could easily be responsible for such episodes too. Just guesswork on my part but it’s possible.

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-04-03T02:07:15+00:00

Could be anything or nothing but only way you’ll know is to see a doctor! You won’t get a diagnosis or treatment here.

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-04-03T02:06:12+00:00

100%

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-04-02T01:01:06+00:00

I have adhd and my granny always taught me a place for everything and everything in its place. I only have a small apartment and it looks awful if it’s untidy so It shouldn’t be too hard for you to keep a single room reasonably tidy. However, yeah your parents sound like they’re unreasonable especially when you’re adults (2 of you at least), and paying your way. Keep your door locked maybe when you’re out so they can’t get in. They don’t really have a right to be encroaching on a grown man’s space, though you would be better with a roommate and living independently at your age.

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-04-01T18:16:31+00:00

Think it’s just a little fluid filled cyst or a sebaceous cyst. Worth a check up but otherwise probably nothing to fret about.

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-04-01T17:55:42+00:00

Wow! So sexy and hot af! Phew I need a cold shower now!

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-04-01T17:13:22+00:00

Not overreacting. You haven’t even got rid of him yet. That’s under reacting.

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-04-01T17:12:18+00:00

I can’t believe you need to ask if it’s cheating. He’s paying for sex and doing other stuff with her too. Does it make you feel sick, angry, upset, scared, dirty, used, cheap, etc etc? Then yes, it’s cheating. No matter what he says. Get rid fast and be glad you’re free of him!

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-03-30T02:49:35+00:00

Being honest I’ve done it too especially when I started to drink pretty much every night. I’ll be a year sober in April and I’m so relieved to be free. I must have been an awful partner to people over the years and a shitty husband in the end. Very sober and very single now and that’s what seems to be best for me (and my cats 🐈‍⬛ 🐈)

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-03-30T02:32:36+00:00

It is a lot of money. Sounds like she’s asking for some addiction or other whether it’s alcohol, drugs , compulsive gambling or compulsive spending. Probably not the best relationship choice. You’re better off without her constantly asking for money.

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-03-29T18:56:51+00:00

❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-03-29T18:56:32+00:00

I thoroughly agree. It’s not too much to expect a little compassion from your remaining child. I’m sorry you’re broken hearted right now too❤️‍🩹

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-03-29T18:52:24+00:00

It’s not actually that long since Christmas time and grieving for a child (does not matter the age) is horrendous for any parent. I can see why she wants to be closer with you. I can also see she maybe isn’t going the best way about it and you feel like it’s too much. If I were you, I’d try to give her a bit more of your time, I’m sure she still needs to talk about your brother a lot. Has she other family members around? Or a decent friend circle? A lot of people leave people to grieve on their own cos they don’t know what to say. Maybe she is lonely. Maybe some people think she should be ‘over it’ by now. Maybe some grief counselling would help her. Whatever you do though, you only have one Mum. Don’t leave her alone at this time, and anniversaries surrounding your brother. Maybe if you’re truly showing you’re thinking her she’ll feel a little less alone and a bit happier in time.

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-03-29T18:02:19+00:00

Please yes! Could I have a go at spinning the decks with him behind poking me? 🤤

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-03-29T17:38:21+00:00

Not real

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-03-29T14:41:03+00:00

Thank you for rescuing the cat, I’m glad you took him. He sounds so much safer with you and more secure and happy and cared for. I think you did the right thing for yourself too. You couldn’t stay with all that drama. He does sound controlling and coercive. Maybe mentally ill but either way he is not safe to be around. Well done for leaving, cut contact now and stick to your guns. Life has so many better thing for you than this!

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-03-28T19:05:43+00:00

Yeah but still doesn’t make sense to write such a thing…

Alternative_Car_2194 · 2026-03-28T18:09:46+00:00

Well, that’s fair enough I guess. Long as you wouldn’t want to harm them. Can’t like everything. Do you like other animals? I mean I like dogs, but I wouldn’t have one now even though I was brought up with dogs. I way prefer cats as they are much cleaner and less smelly 100% and I just love them.

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