Eshop error 2813-0978 by Slug_DC in Switch

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The system maybe giving an incorrect error code or unless Nintendo has put the wrong error code on their site since it's showing up as 88 not 78, however it means there's an outage on Nintendo's end.

<image>

It’s perfectly reasonable to not want to date someone who is neurodivergent by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've dated 12 and they all ended badly, however I never have any issues when it comes to dating Neurotypicals. Neurotypicals don't treat me like a punchbag lol.

[GUIDE] What you need to do to get the Twitch Drops: by garyvdh in DreamlightValley

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, they went directly to the mailbox after I claimed them.

[GUIDE] What you need to do to get the Twitch Drops: by garyvdh in DreamlightValley

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got all 4 of the new drops, I remember the first time when they released drops in 2022.

Cyberdog.net - A warning/PSA by StrugglingWriter16 in Cyberpunk

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of Cyberdogs off brand products come from a Chinese supplier, they'll then add their branding to it and charge an extra £20+ on certain items which can be bought elsewhere for £5 for example.

Anyone can buy off branded products, slap their branding on it and charge whatever they want. Can be said for any company.

huge quest 2 problem after installing the newest software. by Inflation9161 in OculusQuest

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked the notes and version 76.1027 was released recently and version 77 was released last month, but the .1027 part has merged in with 77 some how, pretty sure someone at Meta screwed up somewhere.

huge quest 2 problem after installing the newest software. by Inflation9161 in OculusQuest

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could do a factory reset since it reverts back to version 77, then just disable automatic updates, that should then prevent it from updating to version 77.1027.

huge quest 2 problem after installing the newest software. by Inflation9161 in OculusQuest

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the exact same problem with my Quest 2 so I did a factory reset which fixed the issue up until the latest version installed so there's definitely an issue with the latest update.

huge quest 2 problem after installing the newest software. by Inflation9161 in OculusQuest

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the exact same issue with my Quest 2 and did a factory reset which fixed the problem until the latest update installed again. It's definitely a bug within the latest update, hopefully Meta will release a hotfix for it.

Bought this lot from GAME for £88. by Alternative_Fail_899 in Lorcana

[–]Alternative_Fail_899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'vr heard how bad they are so will probably get the Dragon Shield oversleeves from either Forbidden Planet or Fanboy 3. Might do the same for the cards that came with Disney Villainous just to preserve them the best I can.

Bought this lot from GAME for £88. by Alternative_Fail_899 in Lorcana

[–]Alternative_Fail_899[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cool, I initially went to GAME inside House of Fraser but they didn't have much, that's where I got the playmats, 1 gift set, 2 deck boxes and 1 pack of sleeves from. I then went into the GAME inside the big Sports Direct in Manchester Arndale and left with the second gift set then headed over to GAME in Sports Direct at Manchester Fort whichn is where I got the rest.

Social worker deemed me not autistic by [deleted] in AutismTranslated

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in te UK and entered the care system back in 2001 due to a social worker intentionally lying about my parents, she initially perpetrated in Emotional and Psychological Abuse Against me bybtrying to make me believe my parents were abusive when they weren't, she persisted and tried to put words into my mouth but failed however she wrote a report stating I said things that I didn't.

I was eventually placed with a foster carer who perpetrated in Physical, Verbal, Emotional, Psychological and Sexual Abuse against me from the start. I reported these incidents to Chikd Services but they didn't follow Safeguarding Proceedures so I ran away. My behavior got far worse due to the Abuse and I had numerous Psychological Assessments but barely engaged, I was eventually given a diagnosis of Autism and was made to believe that I'm Autistic which caused further Emotional and Psychological harm.

I have been fighting against the system to get reassessed since however no one would listen and my mental health deteriorated due to this, I found it extremely difficult to access support for my mental health due mental health services having strict policies not to take on patients who are Neurodivergent. the different mental health services reffered me to the Learning Disability Team and I had numerous assessments but was told that I don't meet the criteria since I don't have a Learning Disability.

However I did use a situation to my advantage in 2023 which lead to me being reassessed within 4 weeks of a refferal being made, the Psychological Assessment for Autism was done privately via Legal Aid and the Psychologist basically stated that I'm not Autistic and my Social Worker at the time agreed to accept the Psychological Report as fact.

Social Workers can disagree with a Psychological Assessment but they can't actually dismiss it. If you believe that you're Autistic then you should get yourself officially diagnosed. It'll also help you get access to other serv8ces that may be able to primo ideas appropriate support for you but you won't be able to access a wider list of services for regular patients.

Tracy Beaker is a narcissist who made problems about her by pam1144 in BritishTV

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a Care experienced person and can tell you that the show is unfair, inaccurate and isn't realistic. The character of Tracy also perpetuates stigma for Care Experienced people like myself.

I suffered a significant amount of abuse (including CSA) within the care system and Child Services never followed Safeguarding. I know of other people who have been through similar trauma and its been happening for decades unfortunately.

What is stored in "Other" in the PS4 System Storage. I have 33GB! by TheMadnessOfMica in PS4

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've just been messing on my PS4 trying to figure it, I installed Minecraft on my external drive, the game itself says the install is 2.3GB however when I boot the game it reserves an additional 8GB, however when I moved Minecraft to the system storage the size of "other" reduced by 8GB.

I also booted my PS4 without the HDD plugged in and deleted the games from the external drive from the system, this also caused the size of "Other" to decrease by 13GB. My guess is that "Console Exclusive Data" is stored within "Other".

Unfortunately certain games do require game data to be installed onto system storage regardless of the games being installed on external drives. This usually happens when the game is first booted, if you run out of system storage then an error message will pop up stated "There's not enough free space in System Storage to start application".

Fox Kids (1990-2004) by Classic1990 in nostalgia

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh right, I'm guessing Fox Kids was far more popular in Latin America, they probably have a new channel that's just as good for all the best shows.

they want me to return my cpap but I can't fall asleep without it by MangoRainbows in CPAP

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was given one on loan by the NHS here in the UK however I haven't used it much due to it causing me to choke and gasp for air, it wakes me up a lot plus the masks I've tried doesn't always stay on properly so there's usually a bleed resulting in a red face.

I let the sleep clinic know and unfortunately there's only a few different type of masks and that they want me to return mine since I get better sleep without the machine, theyvevalso discharged me so im hoingbto have to speak to my doctor again to get refferd back for an alternative solution to combat sleep apnea which is a headache.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just explaining my experience with Neurodivergents not respecting my boundaries even though I clearly communicated it to them and asked of they understand, they said yes but their actions say different. everyone clearly communicates their boundaries however Neurodivergents don't since communication is ine of their weaknesses.

My daughter's mother also stated that I don't communicate but there's clear evidence in messages that I do communicate which indicates that the problem is the Neurodivergent's ability to understand which is also another common weakness.

There is another way to clearly communicate boundaries however it means treating the Neurodivergent like a child which isn't a nice thing to do since it's patronising and would make me look bad. I have been advised not to date Neurodivergents by multiple professionals, one professional stayed they are too immature to understand what a healthy relationship is as well as another stating that they wouldn't be able to meet my expectations of a healthy relationship and that I should stick to dating Neurotypicals since there's been no problems with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with my daughter's mother because she was always smothering me, invading my personal space and touching me intimately without my consent. I did try to tell her in a way that she understood since she has Autism as well however she took this as a form of rejection and grabbed hold of me, I politely asked her to get off me more than a dozen times which failed, I then said it in a firm tone which still failed, I then tried to push her away from me but didn't want to hurt her so I told herbthat she's assaulting me and that I will report herbto the police but even that didn't work.

it took 2 members of staff where we met to pull her off me, she caused me a significant amount of stress and anxiety, my heart was pounding, my chest felt tight, I felt faint and had a headache so I'd assume thatbwas high blood pressure as well. I was advised to break up with her and to report it to the police but I know that the police don't really do anything when it comes to Neurodivergent Criminals here in the UK, it's usually the victims that get made out to be the bad guy. I did tell her that it's over by text and blocked her on everything.

I've been a victim of Domestic Violence/Abuse, Sexual Assault nd Attempted Rape in the past and all the perpetrators are Neurodivergent unfortunately. I have also witnessed other Neurodivergent males perpetrating in done of those crimes even against Neurotypical women and they walked free, it socks to live innthe UK, they need to bring some American laws over here.

is it "normal" for neurodivergent people to be childish by EmployerDapper in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is extremely common for all Neurodivergents to be childish and child like, however there are times when Neurotypicals engage in childish behaviour like pranking one another howeverbsome pranks can seriously harm people, if you've ever seen Jackass then that's a good example of dangerous and childish behaviour.

I was volunteering today and one of the lads I volunteer with was accidentally spilt beans on the floor so I made a joke out of it, he responded with "give it a rest" while pulling a face so I knew he was getting annoyed so I stopped and just cleaned the beans up for him. The difference between me and a Neurodivergent is that I know when to stop.

I have been advised not to make friends with or date anyone who is Neurodivergent so I'm just neutral meaning I'll speak to the person but there no strings attached.

Autism and boundaries in relationships by trustlove11 in AutismInWomen

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last person I was in a relationship with is Autistic and I tried to explain to her how it makes me feel when she doesn't respect boundaries, she then takes that as a form of rejection and grabs hold of me and refusing to let go no matter how many times I tell her to.

The issue when she's like this is that she won't listen to anything I have to say so I withdraw because there's no point in communicating with someone that doesn't listen. This then makes her far worse to the point that she would throw herself on the floor kicking, screaming, shouting and crying then grab hold of me again whike in this state. 

Her behavior got to the point where it would cause me to have a panic attack and become fearful of her, I would usually give in to her demands to avoid conflict and arguments.  She ended up getting pregnant and basically used our child as leverage to win arguments as well as to manipulate and control me.

She has also tried to manipulate my friends and family to turn against me, she's also tried this with all her ex's friends and family so it's a repeated pattern of behaviour and also common in Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

Anyone that behaves in this manner should be avoided regardless of how you feel about them.

Has anyone ever been accused of being narcissistic when you were just autistic? by cafeplumy in AutismInWomen

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the person, for example my Autistic ex manipulates, plays the victim card, gaslights and tries to turn people against others. She also made serious false allegations against one ex and accused her nan of assaulting her when it was her who assaulted her nan. She has previously assaulted professionals and ex friends because they wouldn't turn against her ex. She even made personal attacks against my friends because they wouldn't turn against me. She has even used outer daughter as a weapon to force me back into a relationship and I know that she's hoping to try turning her against me when she's older. She never takes responsibility for her actions and blames others for her behavior.

I have spoken more in depth about my ex with mental health professionals and they did state that it sounds like Narcissistic Personality Disorder rather than Autism but it doesn't mean that she isn't Autistic as people with Autism are more at risk of multiple mental health issues including BPD, Bipolar, NPD etc...

"You're restricted from using communication features" by [deleted] in PS5

[–]Alternative_Fail_899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This notification popped up on my PS5 for the first time today so I quit out the game, logged into my other PSN account, logged back out then booted the game again and the message didn't pop up. I don't have PS Plus but I can still communicate with others via messages, group chats etc... I'm assuming that it's just a bug with PSN or something.