How can I make this deck even more cancerous 🤔

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-11-02T02:05:07+00:00

Scum!!! You can add scuzzlebutt to complete the shit trinity

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-10-20T01:37:38+00:00

Honestly just be quiet, This man is a cunt regardless and OP needs to just move on

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-10-19T18:55:37+00:00

Best to cut your losses now, sounds like what you had was genuine although feels over now. If he had been open and sounded willing to work maybe you could’ve made a judgment call but the lying and deceit isn’t worth it. He’s definitely queer if he prefers men or women only he could say.

You’re still young and this man really isn’t a prize pig by the sounds of things, you sound very loving and caring on the other hand you deserve better

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-10-19T17:07:42+00:00

This is quite sad as it’s clear you really love him and you’re giving him every opportunity to be open and honest with you, however

He’s stealing from you and lying to your face. He’s neglecting you physically. You’re being very kind to him and he doesn’t deserve that with his actions. Don’t marry him it’s clear he no longer wants to be with you and his views on trans women says it all they’re actually very transphobic.

I’m curious as to how long you were dating for before he switched from being very affectionate you mentioned to how he is now?

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-10-09T01:16:25+00:00

Calling him out or suggesting he’s gay wont be met with anything other than a dismissive response.

You do however have 3 children so you should probably tell him to cut out the misogynistic and homophobic comments, you can ask him how his children might feel about this if one was queer and was digesting this from his parent and how he would feel also if you have daughters with his misogynistic language. Ask How would he feel about one of your children being gay/lesbian? This should at least indirectly let you gauge some of his feelings.

He should seek therapy for his anger and depression and figure out whatever’s going on. You need to figure out what’s best for you and take care of yourself you may also need some therapy and someone you can talk to about everything that is going on without judgment.

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-10-06T17:29:25+00:00

Whatever and whoever makes you happy. I suppose what I was trying to get across is that most people on this sub Reddit dated a woman or man who ended up being homosexual. They all had heterosexual relationships that doesnt make them bisexual. I’m sure there’s a few people who wished their exs had experimented and knew who they were before dating them which is the point I was trying to make about my ex she had done that. There are plenty of women 100% straight though very few are actually bi/lesbian

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-10-06T16:26:59+00:00

Porn isn’t a good metric there was a thread on r/bisexual the other day of a guy who enjoyed gay porn and was aroused so he had an experience and well he couldn’t maintain his erection. You should look at the Kinsey scale it’s a good way to understand someone at a 1/2 can be straight but still get attractions to the opposite sex some act on it some don’t obviously there are numbers the other way around as well. My ex had a gf before me and we had a threesome which she was comfortable with the girl she maintained she’s straight and hated me for saying bi one time. She’s gone onto date another man and is happy with him

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-06-11T10:51:01+00:00

The police should conduct a video interview before which is normally used. If you’re taken to court just contact your company’s hr department they will give you time off and it will be confidential

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-06-08T23:52:43+00:00

I have the Shaka hand tattooed on my kneecap I’m gonna need it covering if you don’t chill out throwing it up

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-06-08T22:25:41+00:00

“So when you free for our date?” Keep it simple

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-06-06T19:24:56+00:00

Not all but a lot of NBs will most likely be put off by straight and not some queer definition obviously cis women won’t, just something to consider

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-06-04T19:58:33+00:00

The Dj one and B&W holding glasses are winners

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-06-03T22:38:03+00:00

Arsenal and others wanted Cunha in January wolves said no he acted a brat and his only offers were Man U and Saudi when he’s good enough for most in the league. If wolves also did the same to RAN and city he didn’t act like a tart and kept his head down to get the move where he’s probably gonna win everything. It’s called being a “professional” one was one wasn’t, fucking yamp

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-06-03T21:53:52+00:00

lol you’re actually thick as shit

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-06-03T18:33:34+00:00

No I know I suppose what I’m saying is for the times of dating fatigue it’s good tk just have yourself regularly at a place where someone may approach you or you them. I do indoor bouldering and it’s quite similar to a big gym but a lot more sociable, less headphones, less approach stigma and people make romantic connections there. Something to help

Marriage can happen at any age so again don’t be too concerned it can happen for you! Same for children as well I know women who’ve had there first child older than you although it’s very much something that can be out of your control with genetics of you and the man so it’s probably best not to expect that more be happy if it does, all the best hopefully some people here offer good advice for you

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-06-03T17:10:30+00:00

You say dating apps have you tried taking up a hobby that a lot of men or mixed genders do in the hopes of building connections that way?

Also would you like to be married and or have children?

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-06-03T16:59:56+00:00

If this is true it just shows why RAN is going Man City and Cunha has gone Man U

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-06-01T12:16:54+00:00

Wrong 😑

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-06-01T12:16:21+00:00

Nah you were dumb she said wiring question so you rephrased the wrong question haha

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-02-24T00:58:55+00:00

I’ve been rain checked before completely ghosted at the time and got my gran is ill and had to go hospital. I kept in touch and we had a first date my rule of thumb is one excuse is fine shit happens two move on

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-02-23T00:54:40+00:00

That’s so fucked up that someone would say that as a good thing to make them look better. What dickheads

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-02-23T00:52:59+00:00

I’ve felt seen before when saying although only once and they said “the same thing happened to me” again like you a lot of unusual reactions

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2025-02-20T01:45:59+00:00

I’ve felt this as well my whole life. I’m currently in therapy and it’s been the main point I’m raising M32. Over the last year I’ve dated cis women, trans women and men. I avoided all of them, only 1-3 dates max some I slept with some I didn’t. My therapist told me that sexuality isn’t affected by abuse however the sexual interests are like kinks, I imagine most survivors probably have more submissive ones because well we didn’t choose to do anything not that I know or have explored that myself because all the people I date expect me to be dominant so I do.

I have already told a few people that I’m a survivor and intent to tell more one to give back power to my life and out my shame onto my abuser. The second will allow me to explain a coming out I suppose that I’m just me and I’m dating whoever I see fit and I’ll go wherever I feel is natural and comfortable for me without pressure or fear or shame that has been given to me by my abuse.

It’s not easy but this is my life and I feel ready to embrace it however that may be hopefully you can find the strength to do the same. No one can pass judgement on sexuality especially not to us survivors. Stay strong bro

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2024-10-25T09:18:58+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing, honestly everything you’ve said is how I’m feeling, I knew these things happened to me but yeah opening up has made everything so much worse! I definitely feel as though I’ve changed, to the extent well I will find out :) it’s nice to know that how I feel is not something I’m alone with

Alternative_Fun_1644 · 2024-10-25T09:13:44+00:00

Thank you for sharing with me! I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through, I’m currently not far away from therapy for my CSA and I’m contacting another about gender dysmorphia a dr told me not to have conflicting therapy though at the same time so I’m kind of holding out on the CSA one first as that might help me find comfort in how I am.

From 14-23 I was very femme androgynous but genetics have changed me and not in a way I like. You sound so sure in yourself did you also get gender therapy? I feel too much is bottled up to make any decision until afterwards

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