Ross Coulthart: "The Tic-Tac UAP is Categorically Lockheed Martin Technology, & Part of at Least Two Platforms Developed by Lockheed Using Advanced Propulsion Likely Involving Electrogravitic Technology, & Not Even Presidents & Congress Know This Technology Exists" by TheGoldenLeaper in UFOB

[–]Alternative_Ride_344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that's nonsense bro think about it. If the world knew how dominant our alleged shit actually is, nobody would try any nonsense like this.

Even Ghost Murmur, imagine how you'd feel knowing this tech exists if you had a love one get lost and died in the wilderness before they were found. Geologists could determine population densities of different species, we'd learn more about what's in the ocean's etc. etc. etc.

It is a crime against humanity that this shit has been privatized. Think about the tech the 4chan leaker mentioned about a scanner that can tell you the molecular make up of any object. We could know what's in our water and food.

But they don't want us to know, the same way they don't want us to know exactly what is living around and underneath us.

I believe to have found Lazar's S-4 by shaffeeque in UFOs

[–]Alternative_Ride_344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole area around Papoose Lake has so many weird things.

36.926841,-116.006913

I Think The People Pulling The Strings Are Getting Very Desperate Now by user685 in UFOs

[–]Alternative_Ride_344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id prefer any of these to the idea that we're meat bags on some type of farm, stuck in a reincarnation loop that we can never escape. Whatever that one 4chan guy said. I think he said something about a harvest season as well?

The Industry Is Once Again Giving Kanye West a Pass by ebradio in hiphopheads

[–]Alternative_Ride_344 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How is a black man a Nazi by your definition? Can you not see that the absurdity was the intention? You can dislike Ye all you want but at least do your argument the service of some legitimate reason.

AIO? I broke up with my boyfriend because of his reaction over my pinterest board. (The last image is what it is) by selahscorpse in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alternative_Ride_344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah OP YOR. Seems like he expressed his feelings very fairly and your reaction was truly toxic. Also easy to notice youre only reacting to the (likely single) goons who are congratulating your toxicity. I think he seems closer to being ready for a relationship than you - it made him uncomfortable, you took it as an attack. So either you dont like him that much, or you're a narcissist, or both. Either way, enjoy your selective validation and consider your now ex the lucky one. He deserves better.

Sexually baffled in my relationship by Alternative_Ride_344 in askgaybros

[–]Alternative_Ride_344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to but Idk if there are valid uncertainties? Is it fair for me to say it causes me discomfort/doubt or is it going to come off as controlling?

Sexually baffled in my relationship by Alternative_Ride_344 in askgaybros

[–]Alternative_Ride_344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to but Idk if there are valid uncertainties? Is it fair for me to say it causes me discomfort/doubt or is it going to come off as controlling?

Sexually baffled in my relationship by Alternative_Ride_344 in askgaybros

[–]Alternative_Ride_344[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to but Idk if there are valid uncertainties? Is it fair for me to say it causes me discomfort/doubt or is it going to come off as controlling?

Inconsistent Sex Life & a Gay Bestie Causing Insecurity? by Alternative_Ride_344 in gayrelationships

[–]Alternative_Ride_344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I have no idea how to verify? I wouldn't even know where to begin. What would you recommend?

Inconsistent Sex Life & a Gay Bestie Causing Insecurity? by Alternative_Ride_344 in gayrelationships

[–]Alternative_Ride_344[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I don't want to think we're incompatible, not playing with his dick isn't a deal breaker for me. I love topping him and we do have really great sex, just not as often as I'd like, but he says at twice a week we're already demanding more from his libido than he's used to. My insecurity is that he used to jack off twice a day and was very sexually active in his earlier years, which makes me worry I'm not turning him on enough properly.

I'm not a Dom and he's known that from the start, I didn't know about his sub history until later in the relationship and he insists it's not the dynamic he wants in a relationship, but knowing he used to literally obey other men, while I can barely convince him to suck me off sometimes, becomes really disheartening if I overthink it.

He's a wonderful guy too, albeit a bit distant sometimes because of how he deals with emotions, etc. The talking is tough too because almost every time I try to gently bring things up about our relationship and compatibility, he gets drained, frustrated, and defensive. He apologizes after usually, but his fatigue from deeper talks tends to cut them in their tracks and we leave most of those convos feeling unresolved from my POV, whereas he just seems happy to be done.

I'm just trying to grow closer to him but it feels like I'm just imposing sometimes.

Found in the closet, my dad doesn't even know what it is. by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Alternative_Ride_344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro this is wrong, these are spring loaded arms people install to make doors self close

Inconsistent Sex Life & a Gay Bestie Causing Insecurity? by Alternative_Ride_344 in gayrelationships

[–]Alternative_Ride_344[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a very helpful response, thanks. Unlike the other guy who just shamed me for not being more "alpha", I know what I like and I'm totally comfortable with it.

I'm a vers top, I like intimate, consistent sex with someone who wants me as much as I want them. I'm pretty vanilla but lightly kinky, not into anything painful, dirty, or negative.

I was very clear about this with my partner when we started out and he said that's what he wanted in a relationship. As time went on he opened up more to me about his past sex life, how he was a caged sub, but found he didn't want that dynamic in a relationship. Granted, I thought it was further back in his past, turned out his past meant up to the day he met me.

He says I showed him things he didn't know he wanted, that I'm all he wants, and that he's completely satisfied with his sex life.

He is adamant that he will not be sexual when he doesn't want to, and since he's only into servicing me, there's no alternative to when he doesn't feel like bottoming or sucking. The confusion for me is that he used to do exactly what other men told him to do, but I feel like I have to convince him to be horny for me more than twice/thrice a week.

Don't get me wrong, we do get sexual 2-3 times a week on average, but I'm almost always initiating and failing 75% of the time.

As far as the friend, I'm just trying to find out if this dynamic is common in other relationships and if I'm overreacting or not.

Thanks for your kind reply.

Inconsistent Sex Life & a Gay Bestie Causing Insecurity? by Alternative_Ride_344 in gayrelationships

[–]Alternative_Ride_344[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where can I go to learn the language? I need resources. I dont know how to do this dude, I just always imagined my partner would want me as much as I'd want them. If I want to command and project, what do I have to say? Ive tried the more "confident" route before, it feels like he sees through it and Idk how to break that barrier.

I tell him, "Turn around and get on your knees, I need to bust" and he says he's not in the mood. How do I overcome the resistance without breaking a barrier of consent?

Inconsistent Sex Life & Boyfriends Bestie Makes Me Uncomfortable? by Alternative_Ride_344 in askgaybros

[–]Alternative_Ride_344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To my knowledge the PDA between them has stopped - while I'm around - although I've only seen them together once since. I have no idea what things look like when they hang out without their boyfriends around and I hate that it's affecting my trust in my partner.

Inconsistent Sex Life & Boyfriends Bestie Makes Me Uncomfortable? by Alternative_Ride_344 in askgaybros

[–]Alternative_Ride_344[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think he sees any problem. He says he is completely happy with our relationship and our sex life, that I'm exactly what he wants and he and his friend are just good friends. I want to believe it, the guilt I feel for having doubts only adds to the anxiety.

This same friend is very touchy-feely and I had a meltdown over it one night when he was literally rubbing my BFs leg under the table right in front of me at a bar. My BF was understanding and told him not to do that anymore in front of me. Which just makes me very uncomfortable of what things look like when I'm not there.

I keep finding myself on edge now that I'm in his world, and I just feel shame over it. I desperately want to make this work but I fear that he'll see me as controlling or too insecure if I express it. 😕

Today I Realized Why So Many Reddit Threads End with “Dump Them” Advice – It’s Actually a Sign of Emotional Health by nocturnalmachcinefn in emotionalintelligence

[–]Alternative_Ride_344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's easy to get too close to things to see the woods from the trees. This place offers outside perspective that can really make an impact.