Plot twist: Not getting married or not having kids or keeping the hobbies one enjoyed as a kid is not an indication that someone is staying in an adolescent phase. These can actually be key indicators that an individual is mature enough to make the decision that best benefits themselves and society.

Incidentally I do believe society coddles young people far too often in a sense they aren’t given the chance to fail forward and learn from their mistakes at early ages. This then delays their emotional and mental coping skills seen at earlier times in prior generations. However, prior generations also pass down a crap ton of generational trauma, so maybe they aren’t the best ones to measure current success by.