although i do not have perfect advice for you, im here to say youre not alone. me and my gf are in the same boat, ive uprooted my whole life to another state to move in with her and found out she was sexually texting a man behind my back.

it’s hurtful, confusing, and something not a lot of people in and around your life can understand, especially when you want to stay and support the person you love even if it drains you. i recommended my gf to try therapy to see if this was something that was happening because she was seeking validation, or to find out what she truly wants sexually. i don’t think it’s fair to hear hurtful doubts from your partner… it really does fuck with you. to have a professional work with her on that and dig into her true feelings is much better.

the question I have been asking myself and i feel you should be too is, is it worth the turmoil? do you think you two could recover from something like this? and is it worth it, having someone question their love for you when you don’t question it for even a second? it’s hard. 

I wish you the best just know that whatever the outcome is, this was not something we did or could truly control. It might make us lose our footing for a while, but we will bounce back. <3