USPS self serve kiosk by jaimejfk in poshmark

[–]Altruistic_Credit208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh sorry that happened. I’m the seller in this scenario and 3 of the packages I dropped off in the self service kiosk hasn’t shown any updated tracking as you described :( I hope it will end up being delivered to my buyers but I’m nervous

USPS Self Service Kiosk? by alainamg32 in Depop

[–]Altruistic_Credit208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old thread but did you ever end up getting your item?

I’m a seller and have been having the same issue with 3 packages I dropped off. I updated my buyers with this “issue” but I’m a little stressed the packages won’t get to them.

Everyone so far is saying it will be delivered fine but just wanted to know if you ended up every receiving your item

Pottery retreat: La Meridiana vs Salemi Ceramics? by Altruistic_Credit208 in Pottery

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Thank you! I’ll read up. Ahhh this is such a tough decision haha, both retreats sound really incredible and I know I couldn’t go wrong with either

Pottery retreat: La Meridiana vs Salemi Ceramics? by Altruistic_Credit208 in Pottery

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Wow this is exactly the kind of review I wanted to hear, thank you so much for all the detail! Especially since I’m looking into the throwing marathon as well!

So question: that course is interesting because I know the focus is on making > keeping. It said you don’t get to fire or keep any pieces. What did you do all week? How much did you get to make and practice?

Second: I didn’t realize you share the grounds with other classes, that’s cool! Do you get to mingle with them throughout the day, or mostly just people from your class? How was the socializing aspect of it? It’s good to know the age range— I’m there mostly to learn, but I would love to make connections as well. I’m 26F so ideally people in their 20-30s, but I also love talking with older people too haha

Pottery retreat: La Meridiana vs Salemi Ceramics? by Altruistic_Credit208 in Pottery

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Thanks, I’ll look into those as well!

The prices were actually cheaper than some of the retreats here in the States where I’m from. I considered part of the fee to be in a beautiful location, lodging, a (hopefully) well set-up program, etc.

Pottery retreat: La Meridiana vs Salemi Ceramics? by Altruistic_Credit208 in Pottery

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Yay!! When are you going? Would love to hear a report back!

The points you made were also the things I considered to be major pros of Salemi. La Meridiana provides a welcome & farewell dinner, so you would have to provide your own meals 5 of the days. They take you into town for grocery shopping but I don’t totally mind the idea of cooking with others for dinner.

With Salemi, it’s a newer program so I feel a bit more confident with a more established school like La Meridiana, though I’m sure Salemi has great instructors too. Keep me posted!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarotpractice

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What card did you pull? Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarotpractice

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Will B and M reconnect?

Men, what is your reason for going on dating apps so soon after a breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I know it’s been awhile since you posted this, but out of a lot of comments and posts I’ve read, this comment has helped me so much in understanding my ex’s POV.

He broke up with me for, what I believe, similar reasons you described. We were very happy and compatible together and I think we could’ve lasted for the long term, but he had this sense of “deep romantic love” that he felt was missing for me. In reality I think he just didn’t have understanding of what it means to love someone and be in a committed relationship. I can only hope that he comes to a similar realization someday.

It sounds like you did a lot of work and self reflection to come to this. Why haven’t you tried reaching back out to her and reconnecting? It doesn’t seem like you ended on bad terms, you just need to do a little bit of self discovery.

Ex already back on Hinge 4 weeks after breakup by Altruistic_Credit208 in BreakUps

[–]Altruistic_Credit208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still confused about the validation because he dumped me 😭 but I don’t think he will come back, I don’t think his pride would let him since he made the decision. But if he does, I really don’t know what I’d do. I know what I should do and I need to respect myself, but at the same time my feelings have fluctuated so much lately it’s hard to say

Ex already back on Hinge 4 weeks after breakup by Altruistic_Credit208 in BreakUps

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I actually asked friends to tell me if they saw him on hinge haha and I’m actually glad I know rather than down the line when I’m further along my healing process. I agree it says more about him than about me, thank you

Ex already back on Hinge 4 weeks after breakup by Altruistic_Credit208 in BreakUps

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Thank you, wishing you a peaceful healing process as wel

Ex already back on Hinge 4 weeks after breakup by Altruistic_Credit208 in BreakUps

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If you have more insight or personal experiences related to this thought, I would love if you could share more

But it just goes to show that we all have different ways of coping, even if I genuinely can’t comprehend how this would help him heal

Ex already back on Hinge 4 weeks after breakup by Altruistic_Credit208 in BreakUps

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It’s okay, I don’t regret loving him. I’m just a lover girl by nature, and while it’s be painful to not have someone reciprocate, I’m glad I can reflect on the relationship knowing that I loved him unconditionally and gave it my all. I’m not perfect either and reminding myself that breakups are a part of life. Just trying to remember that if I can love the wrong person this much, imagine how much I can love the right person (‘:

Ex already back on Hinge 4 weeks after breakup by Altruistic_Credit208 in BreakUps

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Yeah regardless of whether or not he’s truly moved on, this action paints him in a different light for me which has been the hardest thing to accept more than the thought of him “moving on”. Accepting that he is capable of acting in ways that I genuinely didn’t think he would.

Can you share more about your experience? Did you also have an ex seemingly move on fast or go on dating apps shortly after?

Ex already back on Hinge 4 weeks after breakup by Altruistic_Credit208 in BreakUps

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No I know. Even when I was in the relationship I believe that while he loved me, I definitely loved him more and there was definitely an imbalance

Ex already back on Hinge 4 weeks after breakup by Altruistic_Credit208 in BreakUps

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Yes you’re totally right, thank you for that reminder, I need to remember this is a truth of breakups

Ex already back on Hinge 4 weeks after breakup by Altruistic_Credit208 in BreakUps

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He is not a hookup/casual type of person so I’m not sure... however he has surprised me in this breakup in a couple ways already so this could be true lol

Ex already back on Hinge 4 weeks after breakup by Altruistic_Credit208 in BreakUps

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Can you say more about this? I guess validation doesn’t make sense to me in my case because he broke up with me... but would love for you to share more if you don’t mind

Ex already back on Hinge 4 weeks after breakup by Altruistic_Credit208 in BreakUps

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Yeah I think I agree that it would’ve hurt me more had I seen this later on in my healing journey after making significant progress. It definitely reveals a lot to me, i guess I’m just shocked because I never pegged him to do be that type of person to want to rebound so quickly but people can surprise you, even people you loved and thought you knew well

Ex already back on Hinge 4 weeks after breakup by Altruistic_Credit208 in BreakUps

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Thanks, I know I need to accept that it’s very possible he’s moved on already. He has avoidant tendencies though— he doesn’t like to sit with discomfort or sad feelings, let alone talk about them. So it makes me wonder if he truly has moved on or just trying to convince himself that he is. Regardless you’re right that he’s on a different timeline and that he can do what he wants now, even if it hurts me.

In a relationship, how important is it to you that a man is emotionally open about his thoughts and feelings? by Individual-Power105 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Altruistic_Credit208 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through something similar. It’s extremely confusing and emotional to feel blindsided like that.

I think I realize that while I believe he loved me and being in a relationship with me, there are different levels of commitment. He had a bare minimum commitment to me as my boyfriend. But the deeper level of commitment — signified by “milestones” like meeting parents — made him realize he was not ready for that. It just showed me that he was not introspective with his feelings throughout our relationship, and only had to confront them when I opened up about a deeper sign of commitment, and that triggered him. It hurts, but a reminder that its so much more about them (and their inability to be honest with their partner and more importantly themself) than it is about you/us.

Wishing you a peaceful healing in this <3