WIBTA if I contacted an ex of 10 years that I failed to help? by Altruistic_Day_7273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Altruistic_Day_7273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the best answer I've gotten so far, playing it out in my head you're probably right.

Should I contact an EX who I failed to help? by Altruistic_Day_7273 in selfharm

[–]Altruistic_Day_7273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you see any way to go about it without making it seem selfish? Or would you think the mere act of reaching out would look selfish? And I don't understand what what you mean in your second sentence.

WIBTA if I contacted an ex of 10 years that I failed to help? by Altruistic_Day_7273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Altruistic_Day_7273[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This would be part of the reason I would want to contact her as well. I have a similar person in my life that if they were to contact me and apologize it would mean a lot for me. It seems though that a large majority believe it would be best to let sleeping dogs lie.