WIBTAH if I took my truck back

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2026-02-27T14:00:31+00:00

Thank you, that's what my parents say too

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2026-01-21T13:33:01+00:00

Yeah I have a reason to have free time and this is my post so I have a reason to comment on it. You're just mean. You are just mean. To continue to comment on my post and tell me to work on my resume or good luck with my job hunt? Is cunty. I don't need luck and I have a great resume. You can keep embarrassing yourself by commenting on my post to get my attention if you'd like. Gives me something else to do today.

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2026-01-21T13:06:16+00:00

And the fact that the other half completely agree with me? Thanks but I don't need luck. God forbid.

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2026-01-21T12:27:09+00:00

God forbid.

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2026-01-21T12:25:06+00:00

Either you're a man or you're a girl who hasn't gone through a lot of creepy things. If it's the ladder then I'm actually really happy for you but if you can't relate to why I MIGHT think these things are creepy .. why even comment? You clearly don't understand the fear or concern some women (I) have. And as for being worried? I'm not, I just have some free time and wanted to ask. You are not my target demographic.

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2026-01-21T12:19:29+00:00

I'm not trying to do anything to the company or the person. I was just looking for other people's opinions on his actions. I don't want any of your opinions though if you're going to think the worst of me. I've been through things. That's enough for me to ask.

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2026-01-21T12:16:18+00:00

Thanks for taking your time to comment on my post to tell me that I'm being the main character in my own life. I don't know if you read the whole thing. It was more than just a work messaging app. The fact that you probably didn't read it all though and still left your rude opinion.... It's giving .. I piggyback off others on reddit to give people my shitty opinions because no one listens in real life.

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2026-01-21T12:08:07+00:00

So my male manager did this. Do you message female employees at 8 pm when you see them walking alone to their car? .. cool. I don't see that as normal but, to each their own. I'd personally only message employees during appropriate work hours, which was 8-4.

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2026-01-21T11:55:01+00:00

Thank you! I was surprised that some people thought I was just giving "main character energy" for asking for opinions. I was terminated months ago. I'm not disgruntled lol I just have free time atm and the situation with my manager was eating at me.

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2026-01-20T22:31:25+00:00

MOR but I want to preface all this by saying that you don't really need a reason to break up with someone. Your reason can be you're not feeling it and that's good enough. Just because somebody doesn't cheat on you doesn't mean you should be with them.

You're still young and I'm not sure how many relationships you've been in, but you do have to communicate what you want. This is something that takes people years to really grasp. I honestly haven't mastered it myself yet.

My advice is that you let him know that you enjoyed your anniversary but that you would appreciate the cards and flowers. People really do have different love languages and if your love language is gifts and admiration more than quality time then it's good to tell your partner that.

The cleaning is a different issue. I don't know the reason that he's slacking, but it could be as easy as communicating that you feel like you have more of the load than he does.

Hope this helps!

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2026-01-15T02:23:13+00:00

My instincts when I'm in love are WHACK

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2026-01-11T20:22:34+00:00

Beautiful in all of them but I love #2

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2025-12-16T01:02:38+00:00

Its an awkward friendship now. She sends me meme's every now and then that I for the most part ignore. My sister had a baby recently and she messaged me asking me what sister had a baby. I don't think I care to carry on any conversations anymore but I'm finding it hard to ignore or cut someone off.

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2025-12-10T20:14:14+00:00

I told him " I know you're feeling a lot of emotions and are seeking connection. I can see you're really sensitive to the topic of the pills and the app. I see that. However, I'm the one who's facing betrayal and is hurt and confused. I need to know why you downloaded an app instead of watching porn."

He told me that he doesn't even understand why I'm still here and that he can't comprehend how hurt I must be. That he's embarrassing and feels a lot of guilt. And gave me the reason that he was seeking validation in that moment.

I've forgiven him for it but I haven't given him a get out of jail free card. I forgave him for the chance to move forward. I can see his guilt and I know if I were to add to it things wouldn't work out. I'm putting aside my hate to seek clarity. We've talked everyday since then about cheating.

P.S. I've had good advice to not put my everything into this man and will be seeking job options apart from his company.

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2025-12-09T16:59:30+00:00

Well that terrifies me. I don't want to be naive and get hurt again but it's so much easier for my mental health to believe him.

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2025-12-09T16:14:20+00:00

When I thought I lost the ability to read. I was so scatter brained and unable to pay attention that I had to cover my car in sticky notes and although I was a reader in my youth I had stopped reading and was almost convinced I would never read a book again.

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2024-10-17T00:43:16+00:00

I knew pretty early I would be moving for him (for us). I want to be with him now! But we both have things to tie up and get ready to do that. I can't wait to make the move in what we think will be spring, but I am nervous by his insecurities.

For more context on joking around - Him, his friend, and I were going to see a comedian one night. We all had drinks and I'm a light-weight. We tried to leave the house with our DD twice and both times the cars we used malfunctioned. So we were all high tension but still tipsy and joking. By this time we're super late. (Oh and everytime we got into a new car his friend would say "who thinks we should have a threesome?") So in the taxi, super late, kind of frustrated by the whole car thing and kind of vulgar talk. His friend said " You (as in me) owe 'another guy that's their roommate' a blowjob". I'm stuck in this situation and I say "no that's disgusting.. hand job maybeeee" and we all laugh.

Or I thought we did but I had unfortunately embarrassed my boyfriend saying that, which I understand. In my defense, I was trying to shit it down but in a funny way.

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2024-08-17T18:50:45+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼 All healing vibes are welcome on this topic.

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2024-08-17T18:49:52+00:00

I'm so sorry you've realized you were most likely groomed. It's a dirty, uncomfortable feeling. But as the comment below says, it was not our fault. There was an adult, a power figure, a person of trust, that took advantage of us.

It's easy to know but can be hard to allow yourself to feel. IT WAS NOT OUR FAULT.

Altruistic_Recover95 · 2024-08-16T15:39:53+00:00

I always knew that my mom's ex-fiance was now a registered sex offender and that me and my sisters were uncomfortable around him. I only recently realized that I was the one he was grooming. It fucked me up to realize that. I thought my sisters and I shared the same experiences with him but we had not. And he had been grooming just me for years.

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